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Hey, does James D got a podcast? Could you send me the link?

Getting her to win you over gets her to like you more than the other way around

When you've mastered your process you'll be doing the same things and saying the same things you've said to other girls (most of the time)

This is fun and makes things easier for you since you don't have to figure out what to do or what to say next with every girl you meet

No matter how smooth you get though ,it pays to come across as less practiced

It makes you natural and the girls feel kinda special "to you"

You'll chase and get burned a no of times

Before you hit the right balance of when to persist and when not to

And that's okay

You're learning just like everyone ahead of you did

No one was born perfect

If she gives you the runaround about meeting up again after you close

Or

She gets skittish or skeptical

Don't persist & don't chase

Instead throw the ball in her court


If it's happening frequently especially with girls that you like and would love to keep around ,check on your bf potential

Your process should be congruent from beginning to end

You don't get her chasing you to the bedroom

Then turn around and chase her for sex

Same way you don't chase her for a relationship

If it's chasing,she should chase you for both

You don't have to ask girls for pussy to get pussy

Not even when you're in a relationship

Attract her every step of the way and escalate on her right and she'll put out herself

Natural.

Unnegotiated .

It's okay to bail when you can tell you have low odds of succeeding

Don't beat yourself up over it

Things become more efficient when you can predict your odds of success earlier in advance tbh

You should be all about efficiency

It's not the end of the world when you don't do it right the first time

Every day is a new day to make another attempt

& Do it good

You'll can lower people's guards easily and more frequently when you appeal to their emotions

Society will tell you you're special and all... but at the end of the day, people are all about themselves

Resistance doesn't go away.You just get good at skirting it or beating it

That girl you had an easy time getting will be a hard one for another guy

That girl you had a hard time getting will be an easy one for another guy

Git gud( love this by Hector)

It won't take forever or longer than it has to,when she wants you

Good venues,good logistics,good calibration,good no of good approaches,good fundamentals,good game...good everything

Optimize all these

& The sky is the limit moving forward

One step to being an asshole is having people make things all worth the while for you

They won't hate you for it if they're getting something of value out of you in return

It's way easier to get girls to initiate sex with you when you give them a good time in the bedroom than when you don't

You can easily skirt most rules that girls have that are not in your favor by having killer fundies and top-notch game

Girls will tell you they hate you're seeing other girls and fuck you regardless lol

You ain't playing hard to get right if she feels you're completely outside of her reach & things aren't moving forward

Running the opening and hook phase right ,asking her out first before grabbing her no and doing it on high points will get you more numbers

If she doesn't give hers out ,she's softly rejecting you

Keep it moving

"I don't go out"= I don't want to go on a date with you

"I'm never free/I'm always busy" = Just leave me alone