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I have found that you have better success when approaching women when you actually have something of value to offer. It's not just about getting numbers. Are you funny? Are you interesting? Are you going to make her life better? Also, women have standards. So should you.
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salsagod3423 wrote on James D's profile.
Hey, just wanted to say you’re my biggest inspiration on this forum. Really appreciate your reply to my post. I’ve listened to your podcast and LRs—super helpful. I'm also a brown dude, so your perspective means a lot. Mind if I chat with you real quick about how you got yourself to do the 4/day challenge? I’m stuck and would really value insight from someone I admire.
Yes, be honest about what you want. But remember, the point is not sex. The point is love. Great sex is the result of love. That has been my experience.
The first rule -- I am learning -- is love. You do not go up to women or approach them with a mentality to get something from them, to use them. You do this because you love women. That is the first mentality.
Pride, coming from a place of having been there and done it before to good effect, is good
Let no one tell you otherwise
Let no one tell you otherwise
You're more efficient at running your process when you've mastered every step of it from laying your eyes on her to closing things out
Most guys neither have nor have any process in mind
And they're left stuck being led on or have chicks move things slow with them
Until you find a process that works for you, consistently,you'll forever be spinning your wheels
Most guys neither have nor have any process in mind
And they're left stuck being led on or have chicks move things slow with them
Until you find a process that works for you, consistently,you'll forever be spinning your wheels
Desperate guys are laughable at best and pitiful at worst,when you are at the top of your game
Literally don't care if they offer chicks the world lol
Literally don't care if they offer chicks the world lol
Walk away,if you have to
But do it detached
Cool people don't let things get to them
But do it detached
Cool people don't let things get to them
Compliance is a screening-in tool as it is a screening-out tool
At the end of the day ,you've got to separate the wheat from the chaff
And believe me ,the field is full of both
Go winnow the chaff away with compliance
At the end of the day ,you've got to separate the wheat from the chaff
And believe me ,the field is full of both
Go winnow the chaff away with compliance
Mirror her words , label her feelings,and all of a sudden,you're the best listener she's ever met
People yearn to feel understood
Give them that
People yearn to feel understood
Give them that
Quick and/or lengthy replies are often a sign of high interest
The opposite,less so
As obvious as that sounds
The opposite,less so
As obvious as that sounds
Girls will tell you stuff that they'll never do and go ahead and do it with you
All the more reason not to take most things they say literally
All the more reason not to take most things they say literally
All small losses you encounter pare in comparison to the big wins that come your way when you never stop stepping up to the plate
Keep hitting that pinata baby
Keep hitting that pinata baby
Girls will come with you to just about anything when you are good at leading
As long as you take care of and make decisions that have their best interests at heart
As long as you take care of and make decisions that have their best interests at heart
It never ends well when she's the one leading and having you do things on her terms
Remember this
Remember this
"Time is not created equally whatsoever. Everything is expedited the higher status u become
Chicks fall in love with you faster, deals close faster, u skip lines, preferential treatment across the board
Years get crunched into days the more powerful you are
Takes a normie a year of dating to lock down a chick-takes 5 minutes at a coffee shop to a dude at the top of his game. One is warping time, one isn’t"
Chicks fall in love with you faster, deals close faster, u skip lines, preferential treatment across the board
Years get crunched into days the more powerful you are
Takes a normie a year of dating to lock down a chick-takes 5 minutes at a coffee shop to a dude at the top of his game. One is warping time, one isn’t"