Girls will always slow game you when you don't know what you are doing
Learn game
Some will slow game you even when you have game
But a true player knows when to cut his losses and seek out far better options,if he so chooses
This way he ups and ups his scarcity as he goes
Done right,women chase him more and want to see the seduction come to its end
Rather than the other way round
Don't forget to work on your attainability when you get there