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1.2.2021
I exit off the bus.. ready to play my RnB jam ‘ Slow sex RnB playlist’ to set my state up and get me in the vibe. Walking out and can see a lot more activity compared to yesterday.. Today is going to be a good day as it seems as a feel warm sensual tropical weather and the pretty girls iois.
Wearing my all navy blue jersy with white and red trails at the cuffs, collar and the end of the of the zippers, following all the way to the back from Connor. My favorite classic Black and White stripped tea, charcoal black jogger cargo pants, my white and grey NmD 1’s.
Its time to make a killing…
Result:2 numbers and the rest incomplete interactions but valuable ones.
I’ll quickly cover these 2 with the text convos and move over to actual sets.
We’ll give the 2 numbers names. HB Dutchmen, HB volley girl
HB volley girl responded to my ice breaker
2.1.20
Side note: she is prob on the fence of meeting me or it’s a shit test. I don’t know how to handle this objections I guessing ill just have to persuade her, with something like this after she responded so I don’t come of needy.
‘hey you know how people say…. they are not looking for anyone at the moment but they always…. end up missing someone that they wished something… happened between them.. like this one time I was with a girl.. I knew she liked me .. i didn’t make anything happen.. and I regret it … I want you and I to at least try.. to see how It goes, you can decide to see me again or not after the date’
I hope she didn’t just deleted the number after sending that msg lmao
HB Dutchmen didn’t respond but that’s ok, I’ll call her soon as I our interactions was less that 30 seconds. I did a quick stop on her while she was heading towards the exit. I called to build rapport as I got logistics from her already. She didn’t answer… twice( called on Sat 5pm) . I think ill forget about her for now and wait for her to call me back. Proposing a date now would highly lead to flanking because the lack of rapport & trust build.
[ice breaker] This is [my name] save my number J, call me when ur free
(no response as of yet….)
I could of done the ice breaker not so needy, I realized and wanted to delete but I can’t so rip lol…
The first set of the day, I was feeling rather ballsy and annoyed that I missed out a few cute girls walking pass me with blatant iois. My 1st of the day aa was laughing at me but I crushed that and it didn’t become an issue at…. all
Set 1: HB Dutchmen
Enjoying the brisk walking the venue I noticed… this.. blondee.. dutch braided… sexy…. Green floral… dress… 173cm…. golden.. eyebrows... I made eye contact.. she looked down.. Immediately. I took it as a sign of immediate attraction.
2 thoughts was racing through my head was: 1 pussy out… 1 go for that sexy dutch braided blonde. I picked the latter with immediate urgency after I knew she would be heading for that exit less than 1 minute if I don’t start walking towards her now.
She glanced back and I winked.. its clear her iois are present she have.. Felt my presences just by walking behind her. I softly tapped on her right shoulder and opened as I got close enough…
Interaction:
It seems like there was no mistakes made here so moving on during the interaction beside maybe the text msg. I could of polished the phone number interaction a bit by calling it there and there to check and stronger eye contact and more touchy playful banter. I tried Calling her in 2 hours of meeting her to build rapport(no call back), there wasn’t any articles on when to break the ice. For quick grabs like these so I went with standard procedure.
Set 2( 2 set):
Wondering in around in a stationary venue, it have cards, mugs, gifts, phone cases, pencils, diaries all kinds of assortments for school or possibly work. I was already made present and aware of the girls in this venue. It became a pick.. and choose. i was very hesitant with 2 sets because… they would not isolate themselves… for me even with pre-open winks. 2 cute Korean girls and 2 ok ish white girls. It wasn’t AA I was just hesitant to approach ( I regret not approaching the cute Korean girls even after meeting them at another venue ).
The asian girls had better iois but my AA was blocking it for me( that bastard) and I decided after… dicking around… I approached the white girls to first kill my AA… for 2 sets.
The tall one.. on the right was 160cm, round facial structure no hard edges on the cheeks, tale tale signs of a greek nose… black skinny jeans( lets be real all girls wears black skinny jeans), a black hand bag. The left is an exact copy of her lol.
They were facing towards a short table filled with cards, books , diaries and ect. I wanted to approach from the side but I thought that would be awkward trying to shakehands with the furthest girl so I approaching from the back so 1 would be on my left and the other on the right out of convience.
Interaction:
Fuck up: I broke eye contact at the worst timing, she gave a shit test and I froze and I broke eye contact to look at the middle of the venue to think of something to say. That was a big mistake and her shit test was unexpected. I feel like I was on the reactive position instead of these 2. That was my biggest mistake.. too much reactions from me.
Set 3: Hb volley girl
I have approached HB Dutchmen (got number) and 1, stationary …..two set and feeling pretty thirsty
for a drink, I was already on the second floor and I didn’t have to go over to the pesky elevators this time, I strolled over on the marble floors while listening to my RnB jams to keep my head in the game, to the elaborate Coles
Where there is a small dessert and drinks vender it front. I walk by and suddenly see HB volley girl standing at the right of the entrance where was the iconic red baskets assorting them. I catch her glances towards me as I walk into the automatic glass gates on the right of coles.I enter and grab a water bottle from the freezer and dip to the self-check out. I see her again while caring 1 red basket on her right, walking pass me. She said
‘exuse me’ with a smile
I returned it.
I see her again at the same place…. She is crossed her arms in front .. rocking side to side.. With her red top uniform. And black jeans. Flicking her long brunette.. Hair as I steal her glances.. and wink at her. I slowly.. walk over.. I imagined James Bond…..I could.. …feel her excitement.. I kept my eyes locked onto hers… as I approach from a distance. She broke eye contact.. And pretended to assort the baskets but then stopped.. as she realized im approaching her. I waved (pre-open) and smiled.. She waved instantly and smiled too.
Interaction:
My memory is a bit hazy, I don’t know how many walking sets approached I did exactly, but enough to make me tired lol.
I wondered about finding girls that.. I would find sexually attractive enough… to make me want to approach. Approach Anxiety came back on the 2 cute Korean girls.. and I ignored them while I deliberately Intended to approach them in a jewelry venue.. I didn’t approach. I knew they both had ioi’s I won’t let that happen again next time. If it was 1 girl I would have no problem but 2 girls is still relatively new to me. ill make it a goal to approach 2 sets, 2 times next time I go out
I strolled towards myer’s to cool off and scout for any girls that catches my attention. Once im in on the top floor I notice one.. I saw her at the glimpse after I saw walking pass me. I turn around to catch up to her.. then another cute set appeared. I have to make a quick decision and pick which one..
The first that initially caught my attention… jet black hair… a hour glass figure.. covering it with.. blue washed jeans.. white tee and a designer hand bag on her right shoulder hanging…. The plums… was rhythmic with her.. walk.. her eyes were sharp.. rolled eyelashes and facial… structure resembling an Asian girl
The second was… a mocha leopard dress… blondee hair.. messy bun on top and a… front fringe.. similar to Blake Lively… her sexy, juicy lower back figure glistened.. with her walk.. unintentionally draws my lustful eyes .... soft diamond face... with a warm hazzle brown eyes also… carrying a black hand bag on her right.. wearing black heels.. hour glass…
Oh my such opportunities.. which one I lust for more?... they both have sent me iois… I winked at both and they caught on.. the problem was they were walking in separate directions.. There in my field of view.. 2 parallel l paths.. like two… different destinies…one went on the left pathway and the other on the right pathway. Shittt… which one do I go for??
The left glanced back at me, but sped up a bit as I winked at her and flicked her hair… but the right.. seemed more interested… she slowed down and kept looking back at me after I.. winked at her. I ditched the left… deep down I know ill see her again.. and reception.. is going to be better… with the right. I sped up to catch up with the right… she is prepared for me… as I close in on her… I remember she glances 1 more time and I wink.. she send iois.. I tap her on the elbow.
Interaction:
Fuck up: I don’t know if that ‘im seeing my bf…’ is an objection. I could of played it cool and tease and go for a close… I got discouraged in going for the kill. I have so many ‘im seeing my bf’ comes in my convo threads of asking what they are up to. Maybe I should just avoid this thread all together and do other threads instead,
I usually ask them what they are up to. Then ask for compliance to join me for a drink(instant date) or if they refuse then close. The usual talking process for me is
Walking sets:Open-> 2 convo threads( cold read, what are you doing)-> close
Stationary: open -> 3-4 convo threads->close
I managed to get 1 number out of walking as of yet.
Seems I meet the ‘im going to meet my bf’ after I asked ‘what are u up to’ it fucks me over completely. I could develop more threads if she stops with me but walking with her shortens my time to build fast rapport and closing properly. Is it something that can be done???
Set 5( walking-> sitting):
I stroll down from the shoe strip and notice…..This Asian girl…. with cute Dutch braids. Black tee shirt… black jeans and a small.. small washed pink bag on her.. I instantly thought she was Korean.. I wanted her. I followed her into… Culture kings ( club type, clothing venue. Fucking blasts hip-hop club music all day and they have a dj station at the back, literally nuisance but got a few cute employees occasionally and sets).
I was a hesitant.. for no reason… I can see her glancing at me back and forth.. even while holding a shoe( white air forces) but It would just be awkward if I approached her while holding a shoe I thought. Then she sat down a circle couch after asking an employee for em shoes.. Attraction was there at first but now its ambiguous. As I near
I sat down with her pretending to be distracted on the phone I open direct
Interaction:
Here is a few odd ball sets. ill won’t be describing them much because it was a letdown in an instant
Set 6 (walking’s set): Asian. White sheath dress, possibly in her 20-30, showed iois( flicking hair, glancing back at me)
saw her glancing at me, pre-open with a wink, she stops to look at some jewelry ( I assumed it was Approach invitation). She leans forward at the glass and I walk up to her knowing that she responded to my preopen. I said ‘exuse me’ with a tap.. her reaction confused me..
She looks at me with disgust like. ‘bitch don’t touch me’ she yeers her head back and just glares at me… and walks off instantly while doing that face simultaneously….
Fuck up: Ok im actually confused… maybe that touch was not a good idea… but that face doesn’t connect with me.. maybe it was false positive ioi’s?? this actually got me scared for a bit because unfortunately men can get charged with allegations of sexual assault these day with random bullshit like this. Double standards are rough in court. I got caught up in it for a bit..
Set 7: this was the set that I passed up in set 5.
I saw her flicking hair at me when I lay me eyes on her. I catch up and open and give her the stunning walk shit
‘’oh ok’’ * dismisses me and looks forward and kept walking*
*I was surprised with her reaction.. I didn’t continue to follow her, they usually immediately stop but huh I could of continue and try open a few threads and get her warm up to me*
Fuck up: I can think of 2 reasons. First Is something I can control.. which was the auto-rejection because of earlier.. after pre-opening I didn’t actually open to her when she clearly has been checking me out or her moods is all fucked up and I got nothing to do with it. Im leaning towards auto-rejection
set 8: inside of myer now…. To cool off and take my mind off. Then I see this girl with a purple with a mixture of green, white wind breaker. Holding a rice cooker box( lmao ). On her phone but showed iois for me. I approach and open her indirect direct.
Interaction:
I bid her farewell and dipped. The closer I looked at her she was older then 30.. judging from the wrinkles near her eyes.
Fuck up: I wasn’t calibrated.. I didn’t consider that she was holding a fucking rice cooker xD and on her phone at the same time and I asked for a hand shake.
I catch this goldilocks.. Not so off in the distance… She Is an employee.. she has this seductive.. black asymmetrical sun dress … Instantly knew I had to approach.. She was working at the shoe area. Piles of shoes neatly displayed on the stone slabs. A few walks away from the set 8.. I walk into the… her view of sight to see if she.. have attraction for me. I approach once it was confirmed. I opened her with a situational opener:
Interaction:
After finishing her service with her, it seems that she hovered to the register and swapped out with another person.. then went to the back.. she glanced at be a couple times but I couldn’t be sure if its attraction or not. I waited there on the seats that were there.. pre-selection was working but idk if it transferred any to her. I decided I won’t ever see her again after she went to the back and left.
Fuck up: the ‘I would like to talk to you later’ was very vague and off putting.. I should of used micro expressions like a wink and a smile to indicate my interest and why I want to talk without being a social burden
I walk away from myer and head out to the shoe strips again.. I went to shop.. where I got my first number ever.. they have 1 employee just chilling in the front.. if I’m lucky ill find a cute girl waiting for someone to say hi to her.
My eyes peered pass the mirror as I work pass that clothing venue.. my eyes focus…to get a better view of the girl.. her golden brown hair. .. as it peeked my interest.. she was standing behind the counter with her arms behind her back.. and her legs crossed with black jeans.. 165cm.. Her day as been boring until now..
I walk in with confidence.. while not making any eye contact and slowly hover closer to her while pretending to look at clothes on the rack.. she opens me first
‘’Hey!.. can I help you with anything’’ *smiles as her eyes glitter*
I get a better look at her face.. she has a heart facial structure.. hey hair is a shiny brown, like copper.. she smiles.. like she just found.. Potentially someone of her dreams.. her eyebrows are done.. in the style of soft curved.. her nose.. gives me the indication she is Greek.. her hair style is a long bob cut..
Interaction:
Then all of a sudden another employee came out. It’s a dude.. fuckkk, he was gone and came back in a 1 minutes span.. during that 1 minute he was gone.. I was thinking how I should calibrate after I dropped the convo after her ‘maybee’. I didn’t know how to tackle this and the dude came back. We talked small talked and I dipped. Basicially I sorta froze after the dude showed up twice
Fuck up: didn’t persists, got the bf objection.. seems it was passable but I didn’t want to persist in front of the dude. ASD is going to come in hard. Now I think about I could of asked her number like this
‘’ you seem like a fun person to have around, what your number and we’ll continue our conversation’’
Without drawing her ASD too much.
Set 9(walking set -> stationary set)
I catch this beauty walking pass… 180cm… washed peach short jeans… white tee... hand bag on the right.. looks almost like set 7, sexy figure.. her love box.. bounced rhythmically to her walk. Darkish.. brown heir.… peach skin ..Asian HB 9.. I had butterflies in my stomach just wanting to approach her.. and I caught up and did.
She was a fast walker… she didn’t glance back at once and kept her interest subtle.. I chased her down from second floor to the escalators… she showed me 1 hair flick when my eyes caught her glancing at me at first. Showed me another at the escalators while going down…I was going to approach then.. a muscular dude, asian, samurai man bun cut infront of me.. I knew he was interested.. he also followed her lol. I was behind and he sped up but then she entered a stationary venue and he just clenched his fist and darted back. HAHHA approach anxiety was real for him.
She was in already and I just entered the venue.. I notice she was looking at me already and I returned the eye contact and she looked down at the things she was holding( submissive? or coincidence )
I was hesitant of approaching at first when other people was around her in the ile. Walking pass the ile she was in few times.. I didn’t want to be like the AFJ and just give up like that and I opened her, she was alone this time..
interaction:
While looking at the items in the ile, ignoring my eye contact. She moved passed me.. and simply ignored me.. and went on looking for her desired items.. She looked at stationary items.. on the wall on my left before we enter this single ile… I knew fucked up… and I left
Fuck up: That disqualification/neg slipped out of my tongue… this isn’t the first time.. I remember doing it accidently to girls that I find really attractive and I accidently disqualify them… everything was smooth until that, Lesson learned Do Not Disqualify Girls Accidently Unless Necessary.
Pretty girls are very subtle with they way they show interest.. or not at all, she was possibly interested from the start thus the ioi’s exploded( giggling, touching hair, rocking back and forth to close the distance between me and her, eyes dilating, smiling). At least I won’t be afraid of approaching girls of that caliber.
Ending thoughts: Very good interactions and a lot of lessons to be learned today, Covid is back now so that’s a real pain in the ass.
I exit off the bus.. ready to play my RnB jam ‘ Slow sex RnB playlist’ to set my state up and get me in the vibe. Walking out and can see a lot more activity compared to yesterday.. Today is going to be a good day as it seems as a feel warm sensual tropical weather and the pretty girls iois.
Wearing my all navy blue jersy with white and red trails at the cuffs, collar and the end of the of the zippers, following all the way to the back from Connor. My favorite classic Black and White stripped tea, charcoal black jogger cargo pants, my white and grey NmD 1’s.
Its time to make a killing…
Result:2 numbers and the rest incomplete interactions but valuable ones.
I’ll quickly cover these 2 with the text convos and move over to actual sets.
We’ll give the 2 numbers names. HB Dutchmen, HB volley girl
HB volley girl responded to my ice breaker
2.1.20
[ice breaker] me: Hey! This is [my name] it was nice meeting you J ( 3:11pm, 1-2 hours of meeting her)
HB volley girl: Likewise, it was nice meeting you. [8:11pm]
3.1.20
Me: Hey [Hb volley girl]! Hope ur not to tired at working at coles
HB Volley Girl: Hey! Hope all is well. I seriously admire your confidence and really appreciate the gesture, but I’m not looking for anyone at the moment. Wishing you the best of luck! [9:16pm]
Me: wdym by ‘im not looking for anyone at the moment
(waiting for response)
Side note: she is prob on the fence of meeting me or it’s a shit test. I don’t know how to handle this objections I guessing ill just have to persuade her, with something like this after she responded so I don’t come of needy.
‘hey you know how people say…. they are not looking for anyone at the moment but they always…. end up missing someone that they wished something… happened between them.. like this one time I was with a girl.. I knew she liked me .. i didn’t make anything happen.. and I regret it … I want you and I to at least try.. to see how It goes, you can decide to see me again or not after the date’
I hope she didn’t just deleted the number after sending that msg lmao
HB Dutchmen didn’t respond but that’s ok, I’ll call her soon as I our interactions was less that 30 seconds. I did a quick stop on her while she was heading towards the exit. I called to build rapport as I got logistics from her already. She didn’t answer… twice( called on Sat 5pm) . I think ill forget about her for now and wait for her to call me back. Proposing a date now would highly lead to flanking because the lack of rapport & trust build.
[ice breaker] This is [my name] save my number J, call me when ur free
(no response as of yet….)
I could of done the ice breaker not so needy, I realized and wanted to delete but I can’t so rip lol…
The first set of the day, I was feeling rather ballsy and annoyed that I missed out a few cute girls walking pass me with blatant iois. My 1st of the day aa was laughing at me but I crushed that and it didn’t become an issue at…. all
Set 1: HB Dutchmen
Enjoying the brisk walking the venue I noticed… this.. blondee.. dutch braided… sexy…. Green floral… dress… 173cm…. golden.. eyebrows... I made eye contact.. she looked down.. Immediately. I took it as a sign of immediate attraction.
2 thoughts was racing through my head was: 1 pussy out… 1 go for that sexy dutch braided blonde. I picked the latter with immediate urgency after I knew she would be heading for that exit less than 1 minute if I don’t start walking towards her now.
She glanced back and I winked.. its clear her iois are present she have.. Felt my presences just by walking behind her. I softly tapped on her right shoulder and opened as I got close enough…
Interaction:
It seems like there was no mistakes made here so moving on during the interaction beside maybe the text msg. I could of polished the phone number interaction a bit by calling it there and there to check and stronger eye contact and more touchy playful banter. I tried Calling her in 2 hours of meeting her to build rapport(no call back), there wasn’t any articles on when to break the ice. For quick grabs like these so I went with standard procedure.
Set 2( 2 set):
Wondering in around in a stationary venue, it have cards, mugs, gifts, phone cases, pencils, diaries all kinds of assortments for school or possibly work. I was already made present and aware of the girls in this venue. It became a pick.. and choose. i was very hesitant with 2 sets because… they would not isolate themselves… for me even with pre-open winks. 2 cute Korean girls and 2 ok ish white girls. It wasn’t AA I was just hesitant to approach ( I regret not approaching the cute Korean girls even after meeting them at another venue ).
The asian girls had better iois but my AA was blocking it for me( that bastard) and I decided after… dicking around… I approached the white girls to first kill my AA… for 2 sets.
The tall one.. on the right was 160cm, round facial structure no hard edges on the cheeks, tale tale signs of a greek nose… black skinny jeans( lets be real all girls wears black skinny jeans), a black hand bag. The left is an exact copy of her lol.
They were facing towards a short table filled with cards, books , diaries and ect. I wanted to approach from the side but I thought that would be awkward trying to shakehands with the furthest girl so I approaching from the back so 1 would be on my left and the other on the right out of convience.
Interaction:
Fuck up: I broke eye contact at the worst timing, she gave a shit test and I froze and I broke eye contact to look at the middle of the venue to think of something to say. That was a big mistake and her shit test was unexpected. I feel like I was on the reactive position instead of these 2. That was my biggest mistake.. too much reactions from me.
Set 3: Hb volley girl
I have approached HB Dutchmen (got number) and 1, stationary …..two set and feeling pretty thirsty
for a drink, I was already on the second floor and I didn’t have to go over to the pesky elevators this time, I strolled over on the marble floors while listening to my RnB jams to keep my head in the game, to the elaborate ColesWhere there is a small dessert and drinks vender it front. I walk by and suddenly see HB volley girl standing at the right of the entrance where was the iconic red baskets assorting them. I catch her glances towards me as I walk into the automatic glass gates on the right of coles.I enter and grab a water bottle from the freezer and dip to the self-check out. I see her again while caring 1 red basket on her right, walking pass me. She said
‘exuse me’ with a smile
I returned it.
I see her again at the same place…. She is crossed her arms in front .. rocking side to side.. With her red top uniform. And black jeans. Flicking her long brunette.. Hair as I steal her glances.. and wink at her. I slowly.. walk over.. I imagined James Bond…..I could.. …feel her excitement.. I kept my eyes locked onto hers… as I approach from a distance. She broke eye contact.. And pretended to assort the baskets but then stopped.. as she realized im approaching her. I waved (pre-open) and smiled.. She waved instantly and smiled too.
Interaction:
My memory is a bit hazy, I don’t know how many walking sets approached I did exactly, but enough to make me tired lol.
I wondered about finding girls that.. I would find sexually attractive enough… to make me want to approach. Approach Anxiety came back on the 2 cute Korean girls.. and I ignored them while I deliberately Intended to approach them in a jewelry venue.. I didn’t approach. I knew they both had ioi’s I won’t let that happen again next time. If it was 1 girl I would have no problem but 2 girls is still relatively new to me. ill make it a goal to approach 2 sets, 2 times next time I go out
I strolled towards myer’s to cool off and scout for any girls that catches my attention. Once im in on the top floor I notice one.. I saw her at the glimpse after I saw walking pass me. I turn around to catch up to her.. then another cute set appeared. I have to make a quick decision and pick which one..
The first that initially caught my attention… jet black hair… a hour glass figure.. covering it with.. blue washed jeans.. white tee and a designer hand bag on her right shoulder hanging…. The plums… was rhythmic with her.. walk.. her eyes were sharp.. rolled eyelashes and facial… structure resembling an Asian girl
The second was… a mocha leopard dress… blondee hair.. messy bun on top and a… front fringe.. similar to Blake Lively… her sexy, juicy lower back figure glistened.. with her walk.. unintentionally draws my lustful eyes .... soft diamond face... with a warm hazzle brown eyes also… carrying a black hand bag on her right.. wearing black heels.. hour glass…
Oh my such opportunities.. which one I lust for more?... they both have sent me iois… I winked at both and they caught on.. the problem was they were walking in separate directions.. There in my field of view.. 2 parallel l paths.. like two… different destinies…one went on the left pathway and the other on the right pathway. Shittt… which one do I go for??
The left glanced back at me, but sped up a bit as I winked at her and flicked her hair… but the right.. seemed more interested… she slowed down and kept looking back at me after I.. winked at her. I ditched the left… deep down I know ill see her again.. and reception.. is going to be better… with the right. I sped up to catch up with the right… she is prepared for me… as I close in on her… I remember she glances 1 more time and I wink.. she send iois.. I tap her on the elbow.
Interaction:
Fuck up: I don’t know if that ‘im seeing my bf…’ is an objection. I could of played it cool and tease and go for a close… I got discouraged in going for the kill. I have so many ‘im seeing my bf’ comes in my convo threads of asking what they are up to. Maybe I should just avoid this thread all together and do other threads instead,
I usually ask them what they are up to. Then ask for compliance to join me for a drink(instant date) or if they refuse then close. The usual talking process for me is
Walking sets:Open-> 2 convo threads( cold read, what are you doing)-> close
Stationary: open -> 3-4 convo threads->close
I managed to get 1 number out of walking as of yet.
Seems I meet the ‘im going to meet my bf’ after I asked ‘what are u up to’ it fucks me over completely. I could develop more threads if she stops with me but walking with her shortens my time to build fast rapport and closing properly. Is it something that can be done???
Set 5( walking-> sitting):
I stroll down from the shoe strip and notice…..This Asian girl…. with cute Dutch braids. Black tee shirt… black jeans and a small.. small washed pink bag on her.. I instantly thought she was Korean.. I wanted her. I followed her into… Culture kings ( club type, clothing venue. Fucking blasts hip-hop club music all day and they have a dj station at the back, literally nuisance but got a few cute employees occasionally and sets).
I was a hesitant.. for no reason… I can see her glancing at me back and forth.. even while holding a shoe( white air forces) but It would just be awkward if I approached her while holding a shoe I thought. Then she sat down a circle couch after asking an employee for em shoes.. Attraction was there at first but now its ambiguous. As I near
I sat down with her pretending to be distracted on the phone I open direct
Interaction:
Fuck up: Auto-rejection because I didn’t approach when she was checking me out or bitch shield because of the venue? Direct was not smart but the aa was laughing at me and I wanted to kill it immediately.
Here is a few odd ball sets. ill won’t be describing them much because it was a letdown in an instant
Set 6 (walking’s set): Asian. White sheath dress, possibly in her 20-30, showed iois( flicking hair, glancing back at me)
saw her glancing at me, pre-open with a wink, she stops to look at some jewelry ( I assumed it was Approach invitation). She leans forward at the glass and I walk up to her knowing that she responded to my preopen. I said ‘exuse me’ with a tap.. her reaction confused me..
She looks at me with disgust like. ‘bitch don’t touch me’ she yeers her head back and just glares at me… and walks off instantly while doing that face simultaneously….
Fuck up: Ok im actually confused… maybe that touch was not a good idea… but that face doesn’t connect with me.. maybe it was false positive ioi’s?? this actually got me scared for a bit because unfortunately men can get charged with allegations of sexual assault these day with random bullshit like this. Double standards are rough in court. I got caught up in it for a bit..
Set 7: this was the set that I passed up in set 5.
I saw her flicking hair at me when I lay me eyes on her. I catch up and open and give her the stunning walk shit
‘’oh ok’’ * dismisses me and looks forward and kept walking*
*I was surprised with her reaction.. I didn’t continue to follow her, they usually immediately stop but huh I could of continue and try open a few threads and get her warm up to me*
Fuck up: I can think of 2 reasons. First Is something I can control.. which was the auto-rejection because of earlier.. after pre-opening I didn’t actually open to her when she clearly has been checking me out or her moods is all fucked up and I got nothing to do with it. Im leaning towards auto-rejection
set 8: inside of myer now…. To cool off and take my mind off. Then I see this girl with a purple with a mixture of green, white wind breaker. Holding a rice cooker box( lmao ). On her phone but showed iois for me. I approach and open her indirect direct.
Interaction:
I bid her farewell and dipped. The closer I looked at her she was older then 30.. judging from the wrinkles near her eyes.
Fuck up: I wasn’t calibrated.. I didn’t consider that she was holding a fucking rice cooker xD and on her phone at the same time and I asked for a hand shake.
I catch this goldilocks.. Not so off in the distance… She Is an employee.. she has this seductive.. black asymmetrical sun dress … Instantly knew I had to approach.. She was working at the shoe area. Piles of shoes neatly displayed on the stone slabs. A few walks away from the set 8.. I walk into the… her view of sight to see if she.. have attraction for me. I approach once it was confirmed. I opened her with a situational opener:
Interaction:
After finishing her service with her, it seems that she hovered to the register and swapped out with another person.. then went to the back.. she glanced at be a couple times but I couldn’t be sure if its attraction or not. I waited there on the seats that were there.. pre-selection was working but idk if it transferred any to her. I decided I won’t ever see her again after she went to the back and left.
Fuck up: the ‘I would like to talk to you later’ was very vague and off putting.. I should of used micro expressions like a wink and a smile to indicate my interest and why I want to talk without being a social burden
I walk away from myer and head out to the shoe strips again.. I went to shop.. where I got my first number ever.. they have 1 employee just chilling in the front.. if I’m lucky ill find a cute girl waiting for someone to say hi to her
.My eyes peered pass the mirror as I work pass that clothing venue.. my eyes focus…to get a better view of the girl.. her golden brown hair. .. as it peeked my interest.. she was standing behind the counter with her arms behind her back.. and her legs crossed with black jeans.. 165cm.. Her day as been boring until now..
I walk in with confidence.. while not making any eye contact and slowly hover closer to her while pretending to look at clothes on the rack.. she opens me first
‘’Hey!.. can I help you with anything’’ *smiles as her eyes glitter*
I get a better look at her face.. she has a heart facial structure.. hey hair is a shiny brown, like copper.. she smiles.. like she just found.. Potentially someone of her dreams.. her eyebrows are done.. in the style of soft curved.. her nose.. gives me the indication she is Greek.. her hair style is a long bob cut..
Interaction:
Then all of a sudden another employee came out. It’s a dude.. fuckkk, he was gone and came back in a 1 minutes span.. during that 1 minute he was gone.. I was thinking how I should calibrate after I dropped the convo after her ‘maybee’. I didn’t know how to tackle this and the dude came back. We talked small talked and I dipped. Basicially I sorta froze after the dude showed up twice
Fuck up: didn’t persists, got the bf objection.. seems it was passable but I didn’t want to persist in front of the dude. ASD is going to come in hard. Now I think about I could of asked her number like this
‘’ you seem like a fun person to have around, what your number and we’ll continue our conversation’’
Without drawing her ASD too much.
Set 9(walking set -> stationary set)
I catch this beauty walking pass… 180cm… washed peach short jeans… white tee... hand bag on the right.. looks almost like set 7, sexy figure.. her love box.. bounced rhythmically to her walk. Darkish.. brown heir.… peach skin ..Asian HB 9.. I had butterflies in my stomach just wanting to approach her.. and I caught up and did.
She was a fast walker… she didn’t glance back at once and kept her interest subtle.. I chased her down from second floor to the escalators… she showed me 1 hair flick when my eyes caught her glancing at me at first. Showed me another at the escalators while going down…I was going to approach then.. a muscular dude, asian, samurai man bun cut infront of me.. I knew he was interested.. he also followed her lol. I was behind and he sped up but then she entered a stationary venue and he just clenched his fist and darted back. HAHHA approach anxiety was real for him.
She was in already and I just entered the venue.. I notice she was looking at me already and I returned the eye contact and she looked down at the things she was holding( submissive? or coincidence )
I was hesitant of approaching at first when other people was around her in the ile. Walking pass the ile she was in few times.. I didn’t want to be like the AFJ and just give up like that and I opened her, she was alone this time..
interaction:
While looking at the items in the ile, ignoring my eye contact. She moved passed me.. and simply ignored me.. and went on looking for her desired items.. She looked at stationary items.. on the wall on my left before we enter this single ile… I knew fucked up… and I left
Fuck up: That disqualification/neg slipped out of my tongue… this isn’t the first time.. I remember doing it accidently to girls that I find really attractive and I accidently disqualify them… everything was smooth until that, Lesson learned Do Not Disqualify Girls Accidently Unless Necessary.
Pretty girls are very subtle with they way they show interest.. or not at all, she was possibly interested from the start thus the ioi’s exploded( giggling, touching hair, rocking back and forth to close the distance between me and her, eyes dilating, smiling). At least I won’t be afraid of approaching girls of that caliber.
Ending thoughts: Very good interactions and a lot of lessons to be learned today, Covid is back now so that’s a real pain in the ass.
