I did a lot of stupid stuff on this date, but had a ton of fun! I've been a lazy lump on a log and I'm gonna get back on the horse this week! I lied about my age online saying I’m 26, but I’m actually 23.
I have been talking to this girl from Okc since the second week of March. She canceled on me once, got back to me, so we scheduled a date for a protein shake at a juice spot. On my profile, I have three pictures and a tag that says I hate filling out descriptions. The only reason I got the Okc app is because I wanted to try something new.
She’s 31, blonde, and a personal trainer who power lifts. She probably weighs 180lbs, 5’8’’ and the buffest body with the nicest boobs I’ve ever seen on a girl. She was very guarded until I brought out the fun b/c she came back from a 5 hrs workday. It’s been my dream to date a girl like this my entire life. I was nervous for the date and even stalled my manual transmission car pulling in the parking lot haha! She looked like she could kick my ass, but damn I was turned on!
To put things in perspective how weird this was, I am about 5'8'' and 150lbs. I went through a workout plan, so I don't have any fat. I think she lied about her height b/c I was a couple inches taller.
I decided to meet in her town 30 min away and was planning for first date sex by inviting myself to her place, but she denied it. I joined a gym around that city to get me out of the house more, so it worked perfect!
My state: I am out of practice b/c I haven’t dated a new girl in a month nor approached much. I have serious oneitis for the girl I’ve been banging for almost a month. I was in a groggy mood despite trying my ritual.
My attire: Athletic tank top, short-white shorts, red nike + shoes, and rubber wristbands (looked like a gym rat lol)
The date lasted about 90min, with us going to a juice bar, walking around a shopping center, and going into Kohl’s try try clothes on. The first date was monotonous, but the second part was hilarious (for me).
First part (in order):
-Walking around after getting the protein shakes
-I made her give me sips of the two drinks she bought
-I was teasing her saying it tasted like pepto-bismol
-Deep-dived on her job (I find fitness fascinating)
-Made her sit on a bench with me to talk
-Tried a yes ladder saying how great it was getting time to relax (since she kept going with it saying how busy her week was). I tried for the pull saying we should pick up food from Target and go cook at her house. I got logistics and found out she was free the rest of the day. She said no her house is messy, but I felt weird persisting b/c I wasn’t warmed up yet.
Second part (in order):
-She was very guarded and started getting quite, so I brought out the sexy.
-Heavy kino: I asked to test her grip strength so I told her to squeeze my hand as hard as she could. It wasn’t hard, but funny as hell. She was grunting trying to squeeze it HAHA! I even compared arms with her and made her squeeze mine. She made fun of my fitness terminology like “toned” and “shredded”.
-Qualification: As we passed by a glass store front, I commented how she didn’t look at her own muscles. She said how that was weird when ppl stare at their own muscles all the time. I qualified her saying that for someone successful in bodybuilding that she wasn’t conceited. It seemed to take her off-guard and she went soft for awhile.
-Challenged her: We were crossing the street illegally and I made fun of her saying I beat her running across the street. I challenged her to a footsprint and said if she won I would take my shirt off and do a backflip off a trashcan. She wouldn’t do it! haha!
-Dirty talk: At Kohl’s I commented on the workout equipment is like sex toys for personal trainers. I said she talks like that to her clients, “Oh, baby roll out these knots.” She was gasping and FINALLY seemed to come awake. We had another good dialogue about this.
-We pick out out our workout clothes at Kohl’s and I made us try the dressing room in the lingerie section (she was embarrassed). She was in the stall next to me, but wouldn’t come out to see me in my shorts or let me see her stuff ;’(
We didn’t buy anything, but walked out the store. On the way back, I did another yes ladder asking how great it was to experience the outside. She played along saying walking around and getting the shake really cleared her head. I tried for a kiss in the parking lot by our cars, but she said she didn’t kiss anyone and hugged me instead (I had my hands around her waist then). I told me to squeeze the life out of me, but she kinda got nervous at this, so I said good bye with good eye contact.
Overview:
-I got hung up on too many fitness topics because I enjoy talking about those things.
-Sloppy goodbye and stupid way of asking for a kiss.
I am thankful for the experience b/c I want to date girls w/in the fitness niche. I have a better idea what grabs their interest, what topics to avoid, what gets them hooked, ect.
