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topcat said:
I think it’s in our heads. At the end of the day we choose to act on them. Nothing moves our hands or mouths but us..
I’m not talking for lack of experience.

I highly respect Chase and the others, and I do agree that there are breakthrough girls, chicks that raise your standards and unlock certain peak experiences. But i disagree that lack of composure or oneitis with them is inevitable.

I just think it’s a boogie man we let haunt us. I used to think it too till i pushed my limits with a few ‘breakthrough chicks’ and found after everything i was fine. I think we believe oneitis is supposed to come with the “better ones” and start panicking when we feel butterflies 😂

Oneitis is a choice. We’re in control.
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I think its a learned response.

Once you go through few oneitis and learn that neediness does not work and you have better shot by trying to re-game her you will just learn to act clam even if you are feeling a strom inside you.

Also, having few positive experience of turning around oneitis again done.

Itiching to text her call her well I will have a smoke. Forget it and get on to something and she might end up texting herself.

After few days it goes aways and you end up gaming other girls.
 
Swati

Swati

Modern Human
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Skills said:
swati it seems you like this girl, you have 2 choices move on like chase says "i don't chase i replace" or ping and re game again like nothing happen, even though you will lose frame.... those are the only 2 choices.... I had a girls like that had to drive 3 hours to see me, and 3 hours to go back that is 6 hours, yours is 4 hours, same situation... I personally just let her be, and moved on, but i know i can get her..... I had another one that cross the line cause she was soooo pissed i flaked on her, and told me to fuck off, and then she pinged me and i ghosted.... i really liked her, but i have not re engage, cause she crossed the line and she was annoying as hell.... But i am me and you are you is what are you willing to deal with and tolerate (it is a balance between you and what you are ready to deal with, risk reward, but is extremely personal, i don't advice on people doing other guys lifestyles but their own same with risk levels of tolerance).... do you want this girl back, you can get her, but she is annoying and you will lose a bit of frame for a while till you get her again (by pinging and gaming her again) or you can move on.... done!
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she said she'll come see me april, so the ball is in her court now.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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