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Date on Saturday with Little Bolivian
Nice date with this girl. Under 5 foot tall latina shortie that I found on Hinge. From the very start when she got into my car she was throwing shit tests and testing my frame as much as possible. First it was complaining about me chewing gum. Then it was about the music and how she wanted to change it. Then it was about the location of the bar and location of where we are seating inside the bar, then where we played pool, and on and on. Each time I held my frame and didn't take her seriously which is the way to handle it and no doubt her attraction increased.
But, she was determined not to bang on the first date. For a latina she has spent too much time in western Europe and America and she has the same disagreeable and generally pain-in-the-ass attitude as many women from the west, as evidenced by all the shit tests.
Still, we had a good time playing pool and dancing. It was quality time spent overall. There was a lot of sexual tension.
The problem is, I'm simply not that interested in following up too much to continue the connection. Physically she just isn't my type, she isn't high enough on the attraction scale to really make me be excited about her.
And, I'm starting to realize this is happening a lot with my online leads, where my own interest is lukewarm at best. I need to figure out how to increase the quality of my funnel. Going abroad will do that easily, but here in the States I need to think of different strategies.
The AI photos are helping increase the number of matches, but I do get a lot of women in their late 30's and 40's swiping right on me that I simply do not find too desireable. What do I need to do to get the younger and hotter ones more consistently?
Some ideas I have kicking around currently are:
1.) Gaming in places where these girls congregate, daygame on college campuses for example or other target rich environments.
2.) Instagram DMs
3.) Applying filters on dating apps.
Or is it simply the case that dating in America has reached a point where the returns are getting low and I need to be very selective about who I go on dates with? Certainly I will save some time and money if I reduce the number of dates. Food for thought.
Nice date with this girl. Under 5 foot tall latina shortie that I found on Hinge. From the very start when she got into my car she was throwing shit tests and testing my frame as much as possible. First it was complaining about me chewing gum. Then it was about the music and how she wanted to change it. Then it was about the location of the bar and location of where we are seating inside the bar, then where we played pool, and on and on. Each time I held my frame and didn't take her seriously which is the way to handle it and no doubt her attraction increased.
But, she was determined not to bang on the first date. For a latina she has spent too much time in western Europe and America and she has the same disagreeable and generally pain-in-the-ass attitude as many women from the west, as evidenced by all the shit tests.
Still, we had a good time playing pool and dancing. It was quality time spent overall. There was a lot of sexual tension.
The problem is, I'm simply not that interested in following up too much to continue the connection. Physically she just isn't my type, she isn't high enough on the attraction scale to really make me be excited about her.
And, I'm starting to realize this is happening a lot with my online leads, where my own interest is lukewarm at best. I need to figure out how to increase the quality of my funnel. Going abroad will do that easily, but here in the States I need to think of different strategies.
The AI photos are helping increase the number of matches, but I do get a lot of women in their late 30's and 40's swiping right on me that I simply do not find too desireable. What do I need to do to get the younger and hotter ones more consistently?
Some ideas I have kicking around currently are:
1.) Gaming in places where these girls congregate, daygame on college campuses for example or other target rich environments.
2.) Instagram DMs
3.) Applying filters on dating apps.
Or is it simply the case that dating in America has reached a point where the returns are getting low and I need to be very selective about who I go on dates with? Certainly I will save some time and money if I reduce the number of dates. Food for thought.
