College Women and Men in their 30's Help

[samson]

TBH, regardless of your age or stage of life, very few men are getting it. In high school, very few guys were getting it. In college, it was the 20% rule. I think Good Looking Loser way back in the day had a fire article on this.

However, I see this forum and others like it as a place for the aspiring 20% men to gather. I do wonder though if whenever we all go out to the places we do, perhaps we are against low odds.

That's a great point regarding the top 20%.

I think it's a bit of a paradox. A part of me feels like we're at low odds regardless of which age we're targeting just because women nowadays have so many options. They're more dismissive, more picky, they could already be entertaining multiple guys, I personally know many women that just aren't interested in dating and have checked out, etc.

On the other hand, since getting laid requires one to actually go out and socialize and face rejection which seems like an increasingly rare phenomena for men in today's world, if you're actually out there working on yourself, you're already way ahead of the pack which should help one's odds.

What are our options though? Giving up and bumming it out on the coach isn't exactly ideal. I guess even with low odds, one has to get after it and keep chugging away until success is had.

Also, what are you defining as getting it? Consistently hooking up with new women every week/month?

 

[RisingCane]

That's a great point regarding the top 20%.

I think it's a bit of a paradox. A part of me feels like we're at low odds regardless of which age we're targeting just because women nowadays have so many options. They're more dismissive, more picky, they could already be entertaining multiple guys, I personally know many women that just aren't interested in dating and have checked out, etc.

On the other hand, since getting laid requires one to actually go out and socialize and face rejection which seems like an increasingly rare phenomena for men in today's world, if you're actually out there working on yourself, you're already way ahead of the pack which should help one's odds.

What are our options though? Giving up and bumming it out on the coach isn't exactly ideal. I guess even with low odds, one has to get after it and keep chugging away until success is had.

Also, what are you defining as getting it? Consistently hooking up with new women every week/month?

Yes, I define it as consistently having new women you bed.

 

[KJ Francis]

My college town would not be ranked highly on that site as it is unknown

not sure what this meant exactly, but I think there are settings for volume, ratios, and I think a multiplier. You might also have to set it from the school list instead of the city for temporary residents. then if you set male age higher than female, it gives a sense of competition. I think Mizzou was another example... people graduate and leave, so it's ratio of early 20's females to older males. big difference in sexual marketplace competitiveness between a 20 and 35 year old man, and with the rarity on top...

 

[RisingCane]

So some decent news, I have had a handful of members DM me about this college game and the work they are putting in. I will not mention any names since I do want to keep them anonymous. Some of these dudes are in Miami and one in particular knows some of the same spots that I do, he is an older guy like myself and he has shared some advice. I will keep everyone posted but for now, I want to see if we can turn this thread into a progress thread.

What's been keeping me away from the typical college venues is the fact that the only good regular wing I have, my roommate, is a consultant who is constantly traveling now in 2025. In his place, I have tried to wing with guys in the Game community and to say they suck is flattering, they don't just suck, they are weird too.

I might try to solo some of these spots for nightlife but for now, let's see if me and some of the guys can update this thread with actual progress. This progress being us actually talking to co-eds and bringing some of the roadblocks we face.

I have shared some of the roadblocks, namely the harpie-like screech from their fat ugly friends, on this thread. To any game experts that wanna help out along the way and give feedback, greatly appreciated!