I've been following Girlschase for a couple of years now and have always been able to figure out where I messed up, but I'm stumped on this one....
Went out with a girl on a date. Lasted a few hours. Got her back to my place. Made a move about 30 minutes into a movie. Got her back to my bed very quick. Along the way she said "before you get carried away, I can't." Okay, so I proceed to make out with her entire body. She says, "Well since I can't do anything, I'll help you..." And proceeds to blow me. Make out some more... She seems to be having a great time and stays the night (leaves very early). I walk her out and she texts me over the next week saying how much she wants to see me and just checking in in general. I set up a date and she has to cancel due to allergies. She initiated setting it up again and we go out for a second date to sushi (I know, expensive dates are bad, but I wanted sushi). Here's where my problem begins...
I invite her back after sushi. No problem. I put a movie on and do exactly what I did the first date (good, bad, I don't know?) When I make my move and start kissing I could tell it was very different. Very little passion on her part. She starts giggling at my advances which, in my opinion, were not very different than when I got her into bed the first night. I persist and keep trying to get her to stay/move things forward and she just gave me that knowing look. Eventually I start kissing her like that first night but she gets up and goes to the bathroom. She came back saying her sinuses were hurting a lot and that she should leave. I throw a hail marry with kissing but nothing happens. I then walk her out completely frustrated. One step forward, eight steps back.
Ive faced last minute resistance before, but nothing like that. I've got a lot of work to do in the "sexy" department, but like I said earlier, I don't believe I was worse than my first date. Does anyone have any ideas why the sudden change of heart even after accepting my invite home?
Went out with a girl on a date. Lasted a few hours. Got her back to my place. Made a move about 30 minutes into a movie. Got her back to my bed very quick. Along the way she said "before you get carried away, I can't." Okay, so I proceed to make out with her entire body. She says, "Well since I can't do anything, I'll help you..." And proceeds to blow me. Make out some more... She seems to be having a great time and stays the night (leaves very early). I walk her out and she texts me over the next week saying how much she wants to see me and just checking in in general. I set up a date and she has to cancel due to allergies. She initiated setting it up again and we go out for a second date to sushi (I know, expensive dates are bad, but I wanted sushi). Here's where my problem begins...
I invite her back after sushi. No problem. I put a movie on and do exactly what I did the first date (good, bad, I don't know?) When I make my move and start kissing I could tell it was very different. Very little passion on her part. She starts giggling at my advances which, in my opinion, were not very different than when I got her into bed the first night. I persist and keep trying to get her to stay/move things forward and she just gave me that knowing look. Eventually I start kissing her like that first night but she gets up and goes to the bathroom. She came back saying her sinuses were hurting a lot and that she should leave. I throw a hail marry with kissing but nothing happens. I then walk her out completely frustrated. One step forward, eight steps back.
Ive faced last minute resistance before, but nothing like that. I've got a lot of work to do in the "sexy" department, but like I said earlier, I don't believe I was worse than my first date. Does anyone have any ideas why the sudden change of heart even after accepting my invite home?