For fix dates online 2 things works for me
Pacing and leading
Ex. Its a boring day... I think u want it to be better.
She yes
Me I wish we can do somthing about it
(If its based on boredom then, a yellow is comig, need tighter game)
Qualifying - u seem fun to grab drinks
She yes
Then proposing we should grab one
She yes
Now fix the plan
Activity based
What activities you like xyz
She bla bla bla
Me - we should do this
(Can work well for movies)
(Again tighter game, she came primarily for activity)
Lastly
I am losing interest
Pacing and leading
Ex. Its a boring day... I think u want it to be better.
She yes
Me I wish we can do somthing about it
(If its based on boredom then, a yellow is comig, need tighter game)
Qualifying - u seem fun to grab drinks
She yes
Then proposing we should grab one
She yes
Now fix the plan
Activity based
What activities you like xyz
She bla bla bla
Me - we should do this
(Can work well for movies)
(Again tighter game, she came primarily for activity)
Lastly
I am losing interest