DoWhatWorks Lessons From Girls...

[DoWhatWorks]

Recently met a girl who I really like (sadly only happens 1-2x a year these days)

She's a family member's tenant which is a risky story for a wholeeeeee other time lol.

TLDR been on a few dates, encountered LMR 2 separate times due to "religious reasons" but I think I've just been BF-zoned.

Been a great interaction for me to read subtle signals, keep things lowkey and escalate in a way that looks platonic.

The experience will help me be super dangerous in the not-so-distant future to make anything out of nothing...

No real lesson here, just sharing that dww has feelings too lol. She's trying to go on more dates & I've withdrawn all attention.

She'll either get with the programme or I dodge a sub-standard experience which is ultimately a win-win.

I follow my own advice when I show tough love to other people here aha, it's not easy but worth it long term.

Onwards & Upwards x

 

[Skills]

Recently met a girl who I really like (sadly only happens 1-2x a year these days)

She's a family member's tenant which is a risky story for a wholeeeeee other time lol.

TLDR been on a few dates, encountered LMR 2 separate times due to "religious reasons" but I think I've just been BF-zoned.

Been a great interaction for me to read subtle signals, keep things lowkey and escalate in a way that looks platonic.

The experience will help me be super dangerous in the not-so-distant future to make anything out of nothing...

No real lesson here, just sharing that dww has feelings too lol. She's trying to go on more dates & I've withdrawn all attention.

She'll either get with the programme or I dodge a sub-standard experience which is ultimately a win-win.

I follow my own advice when I show tough love to other people here aha, it's not easy but worth it long term.

Onwards & Upwards x

it will get worst once every 3 years, just like what happens to women.... we are talking instant deep connection and vibe.... My point is 1-2 a year is really good...

 

[Francis]

it will get worst once every 3 years, just like what happens to women.... we are talking instant deep connection and vibe.... My point is 1-2 a year is really good...

Why does it get worse? I assume for women because of aging, going out less, etc.

But for guys, if you maintain the same level of approach volume, skill, and effort over the years, why would it lessen?

 

[topcat]

Why does it get worse? I assume for women because of aging, going out less, etc.

But for guys, if you maintain the same level of approach volume, skill, and effort over the years, why would it lessen?

With abundance your standards for compatibility get more nuanced.

 

[Francis]

With abundance your standards for compatibility get more nuanced.

Ahh ok that makes sense. Being spoiled by an increasingly refined palate.

 

[Skills]

Why does it get worse? I assume for women because of aging, going out less, etc.

^ no cause you get numb, just going through motions... When you first dance with a girl, you were in cloud nine, with the 20th meh... when you got your first number same thing.... After the 100th meh.... same with kissing, same with fucking etc.... You grow bored and get numb... Just like anything else...

But for guys, if you maintain the same level of approach volume, skill, and effort over the years, why would it lessen?

nothing to do with this...


oh shit, sorry for the derail... pm me francis if you want more clarification..