Failure Reports

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Pilot: Motivation and Structure​

Hello everyone. I decided to write more field reports.

I wrote them before, but not with much enthusiasm. After I completed the newbie assignment, I stopped writing them altogether.

I didn’t see them as a necessary part of the seduction improvement process. When I got into muscle building I didn’t write workout reports. I just recorded my weight and reps and called it a day. But muscle building and seduction are different fields that require different approaches to each, with some overlap in between.

The other reason I decided to write field reports was because I was all over the place. I would be in a set in the wrong headspace and I would lose direction. Or I would be thinking of too many fundamentals and aspects of the game at a time, I would have zero focus on her and fold. Or I would go through an outing with too vague a goal and have my mind running in circles on what to do. Or any number of other things that put my mind in the wrong headspace. Something needed to change.

That something was what I was thinking about and what my mind focused on, without short circuiting. I was overthinking because I’ve been reading too much material and putting too many things into practice without hammering down previous things. My wheels were spinning, but I wasn’t getting anywhere.

So I changed my approach to learning seduction. (1) I pick one fundamental to hammer and one piece of game to hammer from reading GC (2) I go out and meet many women with the goal of hammering both and the aim of getting dates (3) I record failure points in field reports after the outing.

That’s it. No need to read manly stuff or observe people or XYZ. I can if I want to, but the three above actions are all I need.

The first two points are pretty obvious. Change myself over time to be an attractive person and meet lots of women and push for dates. So why write field reports. Two big reasons. (1) to enhance memory of outings. Science. (2) to identify points of failure. When I know where I am failing in sets on a consistent basis, I can find what I need to work on the most. I figured this after reading How To Write Efficient Field Reports (80/20 Rule Time Hack).

So most entries will just be fails. Some epic, others like a wet fart. All comments/feedback welcome. Enjoy.

 

[Sidhrnsksijf]

Grocery Store​

Two approaches ended very quickly. Right after I opened a black girl “Can you help me with something, I can’t read this, what does it say”, I didn’t know how I should go direct and just thanked her and ejected. Another Girl I opened indirect about some food and didnt continue the conversations. Maybe I should imagine myself finding out they are attractive as I talk to them and transfer it to my nonverbals. Like I didn’t even notice their beauty until after I opened. Like a love at first sight thing.

One approach I used the intense gaze + slight smile + underlook from this article.
“Can you help with something. I can’t read blah blah blah”
“Yeah sure. It says Blah blah blah”
“Thank you. I love your outfit. Its well put together and the colors match. Whats your name.”
“Im xx”
“Im xx”
“Do you work here too?”
“No, I work in xx town”
“Does that make you a genius sage teacher?” I think I forgot to say this in a playful tone because I was so focused on the edge factor. Maybe I could've been more animated, or suggested a move, or something better for the situation of picking out groceries.
“No. haha. It was nice to meet you though. Bye”

One more approach actually went well. We small talk and flirted for about 5 ish minutes and I went for the close but she has a boyfriend of three years. I had a friend in college that was a solid natural and his current girlfriend had a two year long distance relationship with another guy while they were getting to know each other. Maybe girls in a relationship with a solid guy are open to seductions of a sexy guy with tight games.