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So I met this girl through a friend last week. We flirted and actually play wrestled a bit -- no deep diving though. I'm not a buff or muscular guy, just slim, so I don't know why she wanted to do that, but it was enjoyable. I basically just let her do whatever, and I think that was pretty obvious. I didn't really try to prevent her, etc.
Anyway, she has a boyfriend (dating for about a year I think), but I was like *fuck it*. I added her on facebook and sent her just a playful message about my back hurting and that if her wrestling is as good as her dancing.
I'm trying not to reveal too much; these boards are public and probably google searchable...
Anyway, a few days go by and she finally replies back about how she is a poor dancer and nice to meet me and enjoyed kicking my butt, etc. I sent about a paragraph to her, and she sent about the same amount of text back to me.
Question is... should I go for it? I'm thinking I'll use this current convo to ask her out dancing. But if I ask one-on-one, I feel like I'll get the inevitable "I got a boyfriend"? Should I just ask to get a group to go dancing and hope she brings out a hot, single friend?
Normally, I wouldn't consider this, but boyfriend/girlfriend relationships can get stagnant, and people will stay in them out of loneliness or whatever. I don't really know if she's just trying to be a friend or actually interested. Of course, I would never do this with someone married.
Like I said, normally, if a girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I drop it and move on. But after reading some GC, I wanted to try different things in my life.
Because I normally don't pursue girls with boyfriends, any tips? Or should I just drop this?
Thanks
Anyway, she has a boyfriend (dating for about a year I think), but I was like *fuck it*. I added her on facebook and sent her just a playful message about my back hurting and that if her wrestling is as good as her dancing.
I'm trying not to reveal too much; these boards are public and probably google searchable...
Anyway, a few days go by and she finally replies back about how she is a poor dancer and nice to meet me and enjoyed kicking my butt, etc. I sent about a paragraph to her, and she sent about the same amount of text back to me.
Question is... should I go for it? I'm thinking I'll use this current convo to ask her out dancing. But if I ask one-on-one, I feel like I'll get the inevitable "I got a boyfriend"? Should I just ask to get a group to go dancing and hope she brings out a hot, single friend?
Normally, I wouldn't consider this, but boyfriend/girlfriend relationships can get stagnant, and people will stay in them out of loneliness or whatever. I don't really know if she's just trying to be a friend or actually interested. Of course, I would never do this with someone married.
Like I said, normally, if a girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I drop it and move on. But after reading some GC, I wanted to try different things in my life.
Because I normally don't pursue girls with boyfriends, any tips? Or should I just drop this?
Thanks