Drama Great Relationship turning into a nightmare - how honest should one be?

[Skills]

She is just projecting

 

[REM050]

Thanks guys! I think I got the point

She is just projecting

And this is what I suspected mostly. Thanks for the confirmation.

As for the others: I'll drop it now. It's just that I learned that if intelligent people have something to say about you it's usually a good idea to pay attention as you might learn something from it.

Cheers! Out.

 

[Chase]

@REM050,

If you were a narcissist you wouldn't doubt yourself. Instead you'd be putting all the blame on her.

This remark from @gameboy is dead-on, as far as the textbook definition of narcissism goes.

Narcissists can never accept blame for anything. They do not look inward (scared what they might find). Always pass blame & project. It's impossible to bludgeon them into introspection no matter how hard you try. So, definitely not you.

To add:

Women call you a narcissist when they want you to stop thinking about what you want for yourself and start thinking about what they want you to do.

"You're a narcissist" = "Focus on me."

She is just projecting

Yeah...

For some reason narcissists always want you to focus on their wants, never your own...

Go figure...!

-C