@REM050,
If you were a narcissist you wouldn't doubt yourself. Instead you'd be putting all the blame on her.
This remark from
@gameboy is dead-on, as far as the textbook definition of narcissism goes.
Narcissists can never accept blame for anything. They do not look inward (scared what they might find). Always pass blame & project. It's impossible to bludgeon them into introspection no matter how hard you try. So, definitely not you.
To add:
Women call you a narcissist when they want you to stop thinking about what you want for yourself and start thinking about what they want you to do.
"You're a narcissist" = "Focus on me."
Yeah...
For some reason narcissists always want you to focus on their wants, never their owns...
Go figure...!
-C