I am posting this thread to get motivated to make a shift from online to cold approach
So I have laid quite a girls from online
in last 2 months so its been
1 kind of boring, its very time consuming and emotionally drainIng
- I am kind of impatient and these girls can take forever to reply
2 Quality issues - you are a taker on the app + catfishing
3I feel you cant find relationship material girls there, at least articles by @Chase indicates that
I feel after setting up a date through cold approach the rest of the process should be same as online.
FYI my first lay was from cold approach so I have full trust on it but rest were online so I kind of rusty now
What I want to know is
How your journey turned out
What changes you had to make in your game
How much approach / time it took for your first lay
What venues did you targeted
Day game or night game
How did you made time just for appraching
Your reasons for approaching or shift from online
My biggest mental block is cold approach takes time and energy. Like specifically going out to pick girls feels weird and too much energy consuming from return
Why I want to do it is, cold approach skillset is superior to online in a way I know I can consistently get high quality girls and wont give heartbreaks soon like I am having right now and resolve quality issue for me.
I got very quickly attached to 2 girls in sucession and was not able to lock them after laying. (I know a separate issue from cold approach) But if I knew I could pick different girl I would have not chased them and kept feeling eternal pain.
So I have laid quite a girls from online
in last 2 months so its been
1 kind of boring, its very time consuming and emotionally drainIng
- I am kind of impatient and these girls can take forever to reply
2 Quality issues - you are a taker on the app + catfishing
3I feel you cant find relationship material girls there, at least articles by @Chase indicates that
I feel after setting up a date through cold approach the rest of the process should be same as online.
FYI my first lay was from cold approach so I have full trust on it but rest were online so I kind of rusty now
What I want to know is
How your journey turned out
What changes you had to make in your game
How much approach / time it took for your first lay
What venues did you targeted
Day game or night game
How did you made time just for appraching
Your reasons for approaching or shift from online
My biggest mental block is cold approach takes time and energy. Like specifically going out to pick girls feels weird and too much energy consuming from return
Why I want to do it is, cold approach skillset is superior to online in a way I know I can consistently get high quality girls and wont give heartbreaks soon like I am having right now and resolve quality issue for me.
I got very quickly attached to 2 girls in sucession and was not able to lock them after laying. (I know a separate issue from cold approach) But if I knew I could pick different girl I would have not chased them and kept feeling eternal pain.