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I was looking through some of my old seduction notes and I compiled a list of escalation windows I've noticed and capitalized on in field.
Even though learning advanced seduction techniques are fun, I feel like a lot of us can run into the problem of over gaming. Meaning we don't realize the girl is giving signs that she's ready to go home with us right now.
Because although some of these signs may seem subtle, the girl throwing them at you may lose faith if you don't take the opportunity to escalate
So here is my list of common and slightly odd escalation windows that women have presented when it was time to bone.
Common Verbal Cues
Where do you live?
- She's trying to figure out your logistics for a possible hookup
Hinting at wanting to go somewhere more intimate?
- She might drop a line in the bar saying how she hates public gatherings and loves being at home... Meaning she may be down for something more low key with you
She repeatedly mentions... I'm gonna be leaving soon
- She will repeatedly tell you that she's either leaving the bar/date location or state. But will still linger around
- She's really dropping hints that if you plan on making a move, this is the time to do it
She says "I'm Bored/Tired/Sleepy"
- I used to think this was an insult. Like she was saying I was boring
- But it was half true. She was just bored of talking with her mouth and preferred to talk with her body instead
Using Freudian slips
- She starts talking about sex or using lots of words that pertain to sex... Arousal, Penetration, Deep
- Guess girls be learning about NLP too
Overly complimenting your physical appearance
- This should be obvious
Complaining about dating
- She may start to talk about guys she used to fuck, guys that failed to close, or complain about men not being direct
- In the past I used to get mad when girls did this, because I thought they viewed me as an emotional tampon. But with more experience, I found out that this was actually a sign of dating fatigue and sexual frustration. So now I use it as a green light to help them with their intimacy problems
Non Verbal Cues
Getting quiet and letting conversation drop multiple times
- Okay enough chit/chat.... make something happen... ANYTHING... and NOW
- I noticed that sometimes I'll be interacting with a girl and having a great time. Then all of a sudden the connection would drop off while she stayed put just staring at me
- Realized that she was actually bored of talking and wanted us to do something more fun
Piercing and prolonged eye contact
- Similar to above
She get's bratty/angry... And is visibly losing patience with you
- Brattiness can actually be a sign of horniness... who would've thunk it
- I notice this mostly with older women or girls going through dating fatigue
- It also sometimes means I've missed multiple windows and she's starting to lose faith in me being able to give her a release
Heavy Breathing
- She's getting aroused
Mutual Touching
- When physically escalating she will mirror and reciprocate
- Not sure how this couldn't be more obvious but I actually miss this sometimes when I'm too focused on running through my process... Guilty of over-gaming cuz the "8 Orgasm Routine" is just too good
Reluctance to end date/encounter and wants to stay in your company longer
- When trying to eject from the encounter she may give an olive branch to hold your attention some more
- She's hoping the interaction goes longer so it may eventually end up somewhere with a higher climax
Curious to also hear from some of you guys. Especially when it comes to odd or super subtle escalation windows you've noticed
Even though learning advanced seduction techniques are fun, I feel like a lot of us can run into the problem of over gaming. Meaning we don't realize the girl is giving signs that she's ready to go home with us right now.
Because although some of these signs may seem subtle, the girl throwing them at you may lose faith if you don't take the opportunity to escalate
So here is my list of common and slightly odd escalation windows that women have presented when it was time to bone.
Common Verbal Cues
Where do you live?
- She's trying to figure out your logistics for a possible hookup
Hinting at wanting to go somewhere more intimate?
- She might drop a line in the bar saying how she hates public gatherings and loves being at home... Meaning she may be down for something more low key with you
She repeatedly mentions... I'm gonna be leaving soon
- She will repeatedly tell you that she's either leaving the bar/date location or state. But will still linger around
- She's really dropping hints that if you plan on making a move, this is the time to do it
She says "I'm Bored/Tired/Sleepy"
- I used to think this was an insult. Like she was saying I was boring
- But it was half true. She was just bored of talking with her mouth and preferred to talk with her body instead
Using Freudian slips
- She starts talking about sex or using lots of words that pertain to sex... Arousal, Penetration, Deep
- Guess girls be learning about NLP too
Overly complimenting your physical appearance
- This should be obvious
Complaining about dating
- She may start to talk about guys she used to fuck, guys that failed to close, or complain about men not being direct
- In the past I used to get mad when girls did this, because I thought they viewed me as an emotional tampon. But with more experience, I found out that this was actually a sign of dating fatigue and sexual frustration. So now I use it as a green light to help them with their intimacy problems
Non Verbal Cues
Getting quiet and letting conversation drop multiple times
- Okay enough chit/chat.... make something happen... ANYTHING... and NOW
- I noticed that sometimes I'll be interacting with a girl and having a great time. Then all of a sudden the connection would drop off while she stayed put just staring at me
- Realized that she was actually bored of talking and wanted us to do something more fun
Piercing and prolonged eye contact
- Similar to above
She get's bratty/angry... And is visibly losing patience with you
- Brattiness can actually be a sign of horniness... who would've thunk it
- I notice this mostly with older women or girls going through dating fatigue
- It also sometimes means I've missed multiple windows and she's starting to lose faith in me being able to give her a release
Heavy Breathing
- She's getting aroused
Mutual Touching
- When physically escalating she will mirror and reciprocate
- Not sure how this couldn't be more obvious but I actually miss this sometimes when I'm too focused on running through my process... Guilty of over-gaming cuz the "8 Orgasm Routine" is just too good
Reluctance to end date/encounter and wants to stay in your company longer
- When trying to eject from the encounter she may give an olive branch to hold your attention some more
- She's hoping the interaction goes longer so it may eventually end up somewhere with a higher climax
Curious to also hear from some of you guys. Especially when it comes to odd or super subtle escalation windows you've noticed
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