Memoirs of Mystique

[Mystique]

Hello guys! I have decided to start up a daily journal (hopefully it will be daily; I'm mostly occupied these days) of interactions and events that are all aimed towards building my pick up and social skills. Here's a few things about me in case you were wondering. I'm a 20 year old university student. A Nigerian by nationality and residence. I mostly lived my life as an isolated and cool kid. So many people liked it but we all know being a rebel but not having the social skills to back it up is just fucked up. You can't capitalize on all the female attractions. I have spent a year in college and I kinda learnt some social calibration due to my ability to learn fast. Now I wanna go into pick up hardcore. Here are the things I'll be working on
1.Approach Anxiety - Fuck it man! I hate my life right now so I have no choice. It's not like she'll shoot me for approaching her (no?)
2.Lack of social momentum - I realize this is a challenge coz I'm introverted so I'll have to be talking to everyone everywhere. And I'll attend all sorts of social events and have multiple social circles.
3.I'm too self conscious and in my head - Screw that shit. Why would I care so much about what others think of me or coz they're looking at me so I won't approach a random hottie. They don't own me.
4.Time management - This is probably the most important to master. I have a whole lot to do with time, including improving on my poor grades. So I'll have to create a realistic schedule and stick with it.
5.Logistics unavailable - This one is quite an interesting one coz I'll be set on a mission to having sex in unusual places or finding someone (a friend) whose place I can use. But hey, let me not put the cart before the horse. I need to take care of and master things one step at a time - approaching, going on dates, kissing, etc
I'm quite excited and quitting is not an option. I plan on approaching five new girls everyday when I'm in school. My field reports will be posted here (except for the very interesting ones which will be at the fields report section). My lay reports will be at the appropriate section. Pls feel free to leave your comments. In fact, your comments are highly needed

 

[Mystique]

Today I did only four approaches, as opposed to five. The first approach made my day. Too bad I didn't capitalize on the momentum that much. I was in a bus headed to school and I sit beside this cute girl who I'm sure is headed to same place with me. She's with her earpiece on and has her head facing down as she plays with her phone. I hesitate talking to her (wtf, I'm I retarded? I can't keep on being a loser)
Me: Are you headed to xxx (school name)
She: yes
Me: I'm headed same way (I smile and she smiles back). It's unhealthy to be listening to music when you're on a bus
She: why?
I tell her she needs to be conscious of her environment and enjoy the breeze, the view, etc. She smiles. We go through introduction. Our conversation is mostly cute and sexy I.e she smiling and acting all cute while I give her sexy smiles and eye contact. I get to find out where she's from. The little deep diving was light and fun and it was mostly talk, end talk, reengage, rinse and repeat. As we were close to our bus stop I kept on thinking of how I'll get her number. Once we alight she asks me where I'm headed. I tell her my faculty and I ask her where she is headed: a different faculty. She asks for my phone, which I give her. She types her number, calls her phone and then saves the number in my phone. Wow! I send her an icebreaker text 4 hours later
Me: Nice meeting you (insert name)
She: (about 4 hours later) Hey thanks for the text, I hope we can meet sometime next.
Me: (less than 2 hours later) Yea, let's get a drink together tomorrow. I'll be free at the early parts of the afternoon. What about you?
I'm yet to receive her reply. She seems really excited to meet. Out of the four girls, it's only her number I got. I can't wait for tomorrow. Gotta sleep. Cheers!
PS: all the girls I approached were sitting. I obviously have an issue with approaching girls that are walking around campus. I gotta take care of that shit tomorrow.

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Mystique,

It sounded pretty smooth! It seems that you have good things working for you. Good job making her remove the earpiece. She was the one asking your number ;-) , very good.

I'm not really the expert of this board on cold approach (I do most online app game) but the context of public transportation is easier - people with plenty of time to kill, happy to be chatting. Another easy context would be coffee shops.

Now what will help you a lot in your progress is to have not one, but many girls on your loop. When you have many, you approach girls from a position of strength, which gives you a huge advantage. So yes, you'll have to follow up on that one, without being needy and chasey. But constantly get more and more numbers. Aim to reach a stage where you constantly chat with four of five girls on your phone.

Your conversation skill seemed good. Remember your goal is to make her talk. Very easy, they love it.

Another advice, touch her (hand, arm, face, hair, etc...) as soon as possible. It makes a huge positive impression if done with confidence and no nervousness. It also makes it easy with the escalation later. The sooner you break the physical barrier, the better.

Great start, keep up the good work.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Mystique]

Hey Mystique,
It sounded pretty smooth! It seems
that you have good things working
for you. Good job making her remove
the earpiece. She was the one asking
your number ;-) , very good.
I'm not really the expert of this board
on cold approach (I do most online
app game) but the context of public
transportation is easier - people with
plenty of time to kill, happy to be
chatting. Another easy context would
be coffee shops.
Now what will help you a lot in your
progress is to have not one, but
many girls on your loop. When you
have many, you approach girls from a
position of strength, which gives you
a huge advantage. So yes, you'll
have to follow up on that one,
without being needy and chasey. But
constantly get more and more
numbers. Aim to reach a stage where
you constantly chat with four of five
girls on your phone.
Your conversation skill seemed good.
Remember your goal is to make her
talk. Very easy, they love it.
Another advice, touch her (hand, arm,
face, hair, etc...) as soon as
possible. It makes a huge positive
impression if done with confidence
and no nervousness. It also makes it
easy with the escalation later. The
sooner you break the physical
barrier, the better.
Great start, keep up the good work.
Cheers,
Seppuku@[/quote]
Yea, I forgot to mention the touching part. During the name exchanging we did what Chase called the handclasp. And when we alighted and she was trying to type her number on my phone and call her own phone too so she can have my number, she wasn't looking around. She was so into the whole number exchange thingy that I had to guide her away from moving vehicles with my hand placed at the small of her back or sometimes just touching her arm. And yes, it would be ideal to have several options so I don't get needy. Thanks for the tips

 

[Mystique]

AA got The Best of Me
This is coming a bit late but it's the entry for yesterday. The long story short: I was a pussy. I walked around campus and couldn't approach a single girl. Damn it! I'm not gonna continue being a loser who can't approach a girl because of what? He's scared...? I like to think of AA as a rush of excitement due to inexperience and uncertainty of the outcome of the approach, rather than labelling it fear. Well tomorrow (which is practically today) comes, and I'm gonna fucking go out there and approach some chics. It gets better I guess. Tomorrow will be better.
I've given myself a one month program to completely get rid of my AA. Today (yesterday) was day two. I'll keep pushing. Cheers!

 

[Mystique]

Third Day in Trial: Little Progress Made
I woke yesterday and quickly went through some writings to spur me up for my approaches. I couldn't meditate because I had to run an errand before heading for school which made me miss a class. I need to meditate more. In the bus headed for school, unfortunately, I didn't sit beside any girl. I always use that as a warm up to build momentum. After my class which ended some minutes past four, students were not much around. Like in my earlier report I mentioned that I haven't been able to approach a girl walking. Well I did it yesterday. As I walk around campus trying to find girls to approach, sometimes chickening out and other times the girls are walking opposite me, so I don't approach. I finally see a girl on a nice sweater, as I walk to catch up with her I see my friend and instead of moving ahead, I branch to greet him. After saying hi I catch up with her
Me: that's a nice sweater...
Girl: thanks
Me: Can I steal it. It looks cute on you (she isn't into it and I knew it wasn't going anywhere. She didn't even smile genuinely after the compliment) So tell me, what are you doing here all by yourself when you could be sleeping at home or hanging out with your friends
Girl: that's where I'm going (jeez! she doesn't even want to make conversation)
Me: alright. I just had to tell you you had a nice sweater. I was planning on stealing actually but that would be against the law. Bye
I head back to my faculty and some of my friends are still around. I see a cute girl sitting beside my friend. I try to build some preselection by flirting with my female course mates around who also flirt back. But I didn't get to approach her. I gave myself some stupid excuse that I should learn to approach girls walking.
As I go downstairs I see a girl who I don't know that much but she's close to my buddy. She rushes over and I hug her. She's quite elated seeing me. She asks me of my buddy and I say he's around. She says she's been looking around for me and she's happy to see me. I didn't do anything about it. I could have told her we should go sit somewhere together, deep dive her and get her number. I didn't do anything because of either of two possible reasons or both: I haven't really lowered my standard because I didn't see her as fuckable as she was just cute or because I haven't learnt to work on my feet and act on interests thrown on my way immediately. I probably disappointed that poor girl. I need to work on both, especially the first which is mental. I take a walk again and this time head into the library, I walk around the book racks trying to find some cute girls to chat up. Lo and behold, someone says hi to me. She's a girl I met on Monday who I helped select a book, told her she was cute, deep dived a little and asked that we get a drink. She refused. She's a fresher from my department. I'll call her Bookworm
Bookworm: Hi
Me: Hey...(stretching out my hand for a handclasp) remind me your name again
Bookworm: Bookworm
Me: Bookworm how are you doing
Bookworm: I'm fine (she and her friend are both sitting around the book rack)
Me: what book are you reading (I check out the book) How about the book I gave you the last time
Bookworm: It's just...I didn't finish it
Me: Boring huh
Bookworm: Yea
Me: so tell me, did you choose English
Bookworm: yea I love English
Me: Hmm...would you like to major in language or literature
Bookworm: language
Me: so you wanna be a linguist, you think linguist sounds sexy (I smile while she gives this expression that she's bored/tired probably coz of classes or she's been there too long, but is very much into the conversation) So it seems like the library is your second home
Bookworm: yea I love books
Me: So you think books are sexy
Bookworm: not just books, novels
Me: hmm
Me: so Bookworm, I'm trying to figure out what state you're from. Let me guess, (state name)
Bookworm: nah
Me: alright just tell me already
She tells me the state. I tell her that I've heard so much about girls from that place (lie, just trying to create a frame here). She asks what and I say that they're smallish (she's petite), she looks slightly surprised, "smallish?". And I tell her that they're cute, while playfully touching her chick with the book on my hand. I receive a message so I'm holding my phone. I then ask her that wouldn't it be nice if we met again. She already suspected where this was heading -me asking for her number- so she says no. And I'm like "so you'll run away from me if you see me around" and she says we should continue meeting like that in the library (wtf). I tell her that I hate keeping things to fate and library is not really my thing. She seemed bent on her decision so I bid her farewell.
In a place close to the library where people sit, I meet a friend of mine and we talk. There's this really pretty girl who I'd like to talk to but she's with another guy who I'm not sure, but doubt if he's her boyfriend. There's this girl sitting close to I and my female friend so I ask her (my female friend) that should I talk to the pretty girl. She says yes. I open the girl direct, telling her how nice her dress is and it looks cute on her. As I continue the conversation she begs me that she needs to be alone because she's studying for a test. I oblige and before leaving the venue I wish her success in the exam. I later chat up with a buddy of mine who I join together with a male friend of his, his male friend's fuck buddy and her friend, to a lame party. I wouldn't call it a party, more of a gathering. Well I was happy I tagged along coz the place we went to is the coolest housing block with the coolest guys in the school. I arrived home really late.
So all in all, although I didn't approach five girls but two, I'm happy approached a girl walking and I went to the coolest housing block in school. Although I thought it would be a party with lots of girls to talk to. I still don't regret it. Cheers!

 

[Mystique]

I just read a piece of comment today on Jake D's journal by Anatman that made me realise that maybe, just maybe I don't have yet what it takes to achieve my dream - to become a social and seduction guru. Here it is

Question is: how far down the rabbit
hole are you willing to go?
Are you ready to miss homework
because you have dates scheduled
or are out approaching?
Are you ready to do 1-2 thousand
approaches in a year?
Are you ready to completely destroy
and rebuild your personality from the
ground up?
Are you prepared to spend 10+hours
in the gym a week to craft a god-like
body?
Are you prepared to possibly lose
most, if not all, of your friends
because their only influence is
laziness and complacency?
Are you prepared to actually lose
your mind, because you experience
some rejection or insight that shakes
your entire conception of reality?
I've seen many threads like these
where guys go on these inspirational
rants about how they're gonna
become sex gods or pickup
supermen, and then a few months
later I don't see any more FRs, let
alone LRs, from them (and that would
be cool if they were studying
independently, but that's really
unlikely, especially considering they
cared enough about publicity to post
their declaration online). I've also
had droves of men message me for a
template for this path and some
missions to boot. Occasionally I'll
hear back after I tell them to do 100
approaches that week, but mostly
not. And if I do, they almost never
message back.
I just want to keep you honest and
anyone else who's inspired to put
their foot down and say "I'm gonna
be a motherfucking pimp in X years."

I observed a pattern once I got into this boards and read old posts. I saw a whole lot of guys and their posts and comments. They seemed enthusiastic. I'll then check the year, the post would be in 2013 or 2014 and I'll check when last they visited only to realise that they quit. They quit at the stage of a space monkey or tool bearing hominid. They lacked the will to forge ahead. Each time I think of it I'm like, "no! I wouldn't want to end up like them. What would make me not quit?". I then go through the old posts of the now Tribal Elders and read their questions, realising how clueless they were once. But they kept on practising. One funny thing is that they eventually surpassed, in rank, so many of the guys who were throwing advice to them while they were beginners. Reading and listening to so many guys who fought to achieve something worthwhile that needed them to improve on or rather change themselves (be it in pick up, public speaking, debating, etc), I realise what kept them going is a mixture of grit,
intense hatred for their present state, obsession and a bit of madness. I think I've got the obsession and hatred (maybe not yet that intense) for my present state. I need to work on my grit and a mixture of all of the above would bring about the needed madness to achieve mastery in PU/seduction. I am holding myself accountable for every failure in my life. And God help me, I tell you, because PU/seduction has become a do or die affair for me. I have no choice.

 

[Mystique]

Drunken Adventures
I don't know if the events that happened yesterday fits to be called an adventure. But I had a lot of fun, and fuck it! It's my journal. I can put whatever fucking title I want When I got to school, a friend of mine indicates that he wants to spend on we his pals (the previous day, Sunday, was his birthday so it's a sort of celebration). I convince my friends to join me go check out an apartment for rent. We all hop into a friend's space van. Eight of us. On our way back, we branch and buy drinks for the celebration. We then head to a cool part of the school (it's a sort of big garden where you can view the lagoon). So we start drinking and chatting up in the day time, about 1:30pm. A group of 3 girls come along. One is a friend's gf. She's of average look and no one talks to her other friends because their looks were below average. The alcohol was taking over and I felt bold. My friend points at a girl sitting alone. She's of average look, but hey....I gotta lower my standard which is easier when you're high. I talk with her. She's shy. I get her number. We later head for the last class. After the last class we drive to the mall. We play video games and just wonder around acting all goofy, loud and drunk. The alcohol really made me bold but I didn't approach coz I was doing the group thingy (won't make that mistake again). But I unleashed all my drunk sexual aggression on my female friends. I'm always flirty and touchy with them but this time around it was more aggressive. I got back home with an head ache and feeling really tired.

 

[Mystique]

New Course; New Chick
We are to choose an elective and our options are from a range of several departments. Although creative art is a part of my faculty, they have their own special place. I decide to try out their course. I and a bunch of my pals head there. Creative art students are fun and they have some hot chicks. I'm sitting all by myself watching the creative art students chatter. Two girls then come along, turns out they were already sitting beside me but went out. I had to adjust my position so they could come in through the row of sits. A cute girl is sitting beside me and after a few seconds of hesitation, I say fuck it and I open her. We talk and I deep dive her about her department and all. She's quite lively and she keeps on getting distracted by her friends around trying to communicate with her. But she re-engages me with apologies. She excuses herself and tells me she'll be back. When she comes back I had to adjust again for her to pass. I make a joke about. I then remembered that I didn't open her directly, and although our conversation was going great but as a beginner I can't say if I had shown enough interest so she'll understand I wasn't trying to be friends with her. I was seducing her! So I decide to compliment her. I tell her I like her hair and that it looks cute on her. She becomes quiet and was blushing. Mission accomplished! We talk a bit before someone announces that we're to use another class. We both sit at different parts of the new class. Now this is the part I'm proud of. After the end of the class I reengage her. There was a guy beside her and she's standing inside the row of sits. Rather than calling out to her, I stretched my hand to tap her (I don't know why it was hard for me to just call out her name. I made same mistake thrice). It was kinda awkward. I asked her what she was doing and she said she needed to write her name on the attendance sheet. There were a whole lot of people and I knew it would take time. I wanted to push for an instant date or get her number, but I knew it would be awkward doing it in front of her classmates. I decide to hang around talking to my friends outside. I later came back into the class, flirt with some of my female course mates and then walk up to where she was, and did the same awkward hand-stretched-out tap. I tell her I need to see her for a second and she says she needs to write her name on the attendance sheet. I realize at this moment that her mood had taken a 360% turn from fun and attentive to cold and passive. I tell her OK and return talking to a cute female friend in the class, using this as an excuse to wait for her. As I look back, she's standing in front of the class signalling to me that she's done. I signal to her to wait. I didn't want to rush to her. Before standing up to meet her, my cute friend tells me, "make sure you collect her number". Haha! As I walk towards her direction I see her friends trying to be playful with her but she dismisses them. She then signals to one guying trying to grab her attention that she wants to talk to me. Maybe he asked her where she's headed to. As we meet up, I ask her what's wrong and she says she's tired. I then decide to remind her about the good feelings/emotions she felt when we were interacting. I tell her that she's an interesting person and I enjoyed our conversation. I then ask that we get a drink together and continue talking. She declines, explaining that she had rehearsals and an assignment to work on. There was a bit of awkwardness coupled with the fact that she wasn't in a good mood. I say OK but we should get a drink together another time. She says alright that we'll see some other time in class. I tell her that I don't like keeping things to fate (should have said 'chance') and that I'm not sure if I'll even offer the course. I hesitate a little before asking for her number. She gives me willingly. This is my first time persisting and handling an awkward situation without bowing out. I think I'm ready to handle the awkwardness I might feel approaching girls walking. I'll keep you guys updated

 

[Mystique]

Getting Used to Rejection
When I started this journal I decided I'd approach 5 girls daily. So far it hasn't been easy. I'm still trying to overcome my AA so I decided to start small. Three approaches per day.

Girl 1
She's sitting in a part of my faculty that has benches and tables. It's a chill spot. After hesitating for minutes I approach her. I open with "I was sitting over there, and I saw you listening to music while staring intently at nothing in particular. It was captivating and I decided to come say hi". She didn't seem interested. She asked why I approached her and I repeated my opener (major fuck up). I think I repeated myself thrice in the conversation. I deep dive a bit, but she wasn't into it. So as I'm about to leave she ask for my name again (wow! I thought she didn't care).

Girl 2
She sits beside me in class. I compliment her on her hair. We talk a bit. She seems energetic in a friendly than sexy or being seduced way. I loved her accent. A female friend of mine comes over and sits at my left while the girl is at my right. I and my friend flirt a lot right beside her. My conversation with the girl was on and off, more on the lecture and about things happening in class. After the lecture I still see her around but didn't reengage. I'll work out something when next I see her.

Girl 3
In the bus I'm sitting beside this cute girl. I wait for a few minutes before opening her, "Hello (smile), I just had to tell, I like your top. The whole mixture of colours totally suits your complexion". She says thanks. I deep dive her a bit but she doesn't seem interested. I had to reengage her several times. I knew it wasn't going anywhere. When we alighted, I bid her goodbye
So far, I'm happy I got rejected. Now at least I'm getting used to the fact that there's no big deal in getting rejected. She doesn't know shit about me. I have hotter girls in my social circle who love getting my attention (I'm just saying, lol). I'm gonna head out today and get some more rejections

 

[Mystique]

Approached Two
So I approached two girls yesterday in the bus. One on my way to school and the other on my way back home. I'm beginning to lean on bus pick up (or rather, girls sitting) too much. I need to push beyond my comfort zone. I got the number of the first girl. She's quite beautiful. While the second girl was kinda weird. That's all for now

 

[Mystique]

Pre-opening Works Magic!
Today I found out how cool pre-opening is. When I alighted the first bus on my way to school this morning, I sight a girl in front of me. I was quite sure she was headed for the same bus I was, which stops at my school (I knew she was a student of my school). As I sight her, I walk slowly but still catch up and overtake her while looking away. I used my peripherals to notice her staring at me. She later gets ahead of me and I follow behind her, without making her think that I observed her. I believe this is called pre-opening. Once she enters the bus, I sit beside her. I've been working on not thinking (or being in my head) before opening or approaching a girl. It messes with my head. After a few minutes I open her. I ask if she's headed to my school and she says yes. I tell her I'm headed same way and we both smile. We exchange names and I deep dive her in a fun and not-so-serious manner. Another thing I've promised myself is to set up a date and time to meet up before collecting numbers. I work out a date with her (Friday around 12 noon). She says she's not absolutely sure but she should be free then. I later ask for her number and she happily types it. She was really interested and smiley while we talked. Once we alighted she reveals to me that she saw me before we entered the bus (this I knew) and that what she first observed was my boot (really! I thought twas my face). She tells me she likes my boot and I say thank you. I tell her I'll text her before we part ways.
The second girl was on my way back home. She's probably the most pretty girl I've opened. Too bad I got blown out. She was concentrating totally on her phone and I open with: "you know it's unhealthy to stare at your phone for that long. It makes you unconscious of your environment and reduces your concentration span" she looks at me, nods and goes back to her phone. "If there was a law against it, you'd be jailed" and I smile. She doesn't even care. I wait for some minutes, thinking on what to say. I made it look like the conversation died naturally so it wasn't awkward. I make small talk and start deep diving when says she's not in a good mood so she can't talk. Yet she's so much into her phone and there's no sign she's in a bad mood. I smile and wait for some seconds before I make a last attempt. I say "A conversation could make you feel better" and she says no. This was the first time in my life I got hurt because of a random girl's words. That's what cold approach does to you. But I brushed that feeling off real quick. I'll soon be moving into a hostel in school. Can't wait to get intimate with girls!
Skills I'm working on
1.Pre-opening and using peripherals
2.Identifying girls open to be approached
3.Opening without thinking too much
4.Setting up day and time (date) to meet before number close
Ciao folks!

 

[Mystique]

I couldn't really approach coz I was busy all throughout the day. I did open the girl sitting beside me on my way back home. Something happened today that I've never felt before. There's this girl I've been gaming for months trying to get a date with to no avail. I had met her thrice coincidentally in school but we couldn't talk much due to the circumstances. I saw her walking today and caught up with her to talk. I was so fucking nervous and all my body was vibrating. wtf! My conclusion is that I've put her on a pedestal coz she's hot and I've been gaming her for too long, thereby investing too much emotions. I had decided to next her before seeing her today coz it's taken too long. I now realize I have to put myself in more awkward situations and face my fears so I'll learn to handle such situations easily. I got the number of the one girl I opened today.

 

[Ree]

Hey u,did u change ur name...I seem too remember u as dark knight.....
Anyway..going thru ur stuff..I like how u guys have buses like us...we call them mats(short for matatu)
In Kenya our mats(buses) are very informal,..graffiti paint,loud music,,some routes are very good for pickup ,I remember I would sometimes take a long circuitous route just to get to game,

Couple of questions

Anyway..what venues r giving u the best results?

U got a wing?,personally I have the most fun when with a wing,I can go solo,but solo,I do like 5,2 approaches a day,with a wing,I can do 20.

Nice to see,a fellow daygamer...u know they never tell u,but us daygamers are like the special ops of pickup...
I'd say the online gamers are like mall cops,and the night gamers are like regular cops....but us daygamers are like the navy seals of this muthafucka......happy hunting

 

[Mystique]

Hey u,did u change ur name...I seem
too remember u as dark knight.....

Yea I did. I'm now Mystique

Anyway..going thru ur stuff..I like
how u guys have buses like us...we
call them mats(short for matatu)
In Kenya our mats(buses) are very
informal,..graffiti paint,loud
music,,some routes are very good for
pickup ,I remember I would
sometimes take a long circuitous
route just to get to game

Yea! Our buses are quite informal and noisy. We rush into the buses and we rush out of it. The way my city is such that you don't even have to read stuff on gc to be an asshole/aggressive because to survive, you just must be it. I bet I'd clean up big time if I travel to any of those Western countries. And yea, bus pick up is cool.

Anyway..what venues r giving u the
best results?

I don't really have specific venues per say. I do pick up in the bus and when walking around school (I do a lot of walking, 80% of the time is just to see if I can pick up girls) and also around my faculty. Once I get accommodation in school I'll explore the neighborhood more to find places to pick up girls. There's a campus close to my school whose girls are into guys from my school. Can't wait to do some day game there. And at night time, girls always come out dressed provocatively. Too bad for now I have to go back home every evening. By results I'm guessing you mean fucking girls. Well I started cold approaching (pick up) religiously the day I opened this journal - 26th of last month - and since then I haven't even had a date. I've gotten some numbers but no date yet. The two challenges I'm having is AA and tripping on my words (not flowing verbally and getting awkward) when talking with hot girls or uninterested/skeptical girls. The first two weeks I just walked around unable to approach girls coz of AA. I did approach a few though in the bus and those sitting. Street pick (or should I call it approaching girls walking on campus) was too intimidating for me. But so far I'm improving and I've started street pick up and I'm managing my AA. I hope to rid myself of it soon. Plus I need to stop tripping on my words. Damn!

U got a wing?,personally I have the
most fun when with a wing,I can go
solo,but solo,I do like 5,2
approaches a day,with a wing,I can
do 20.

Unfortunately I have no wingman yet. I'm planning to turn my friend into one but he's scared of approaching, lol. He prefers social circle. I can imagine how much fun it will be with one.

Nice to see,a fellow daygamer...u
know they never tell u,but us
daygamers are like the special ops of
pickup...
I'd say the online gamers are like
mall cops,and the night gamers are
like regular cops....but us daygamers
are like the navy seals of this
muthafucka......happy hunting

Haha man, I totally agree with you. Me and you, we're gonna go places!

 

[Ree]

Man...I remeber AA...damn ,I used to go approach,walk around the whole day...without doing a single approach...man it was tough....
I like what u said about us guys being more than people from the west...ive noticed that too...
I think once u get over AA youl be cleaning up..wish I had advice on how to overcome this
, getting a wing is hard so many people r chicken

How r ur fundamentals ??..
Why did u change ur name from dark knight?
What's ur Nigerian name?
Guessing u a comic book fan..u watched dead pool yet?

man I'm looking forward to your LRZ soon

 

[Mystique]

I'm gonna PM you bro. For now I need to write a field report

 

[Mystique]

I decided to post a field report on how yesterday went. Here's the link to it: FR: Multiple Rejections

 

[TouchGrass]

Hey Mystique,

Glad to another beginner pushing hard for success. You stood out to me in particular because of your thoughtful insight and careful reflections on yourself, especially when you realized this journey wouldn't be easy. I saw the same post by Anatman and wondered the same question to myself of whether or not I really had what it took to succeed. But you took it one step further and analyzed the key to the success of the Tribal Elders: they kept swinging, even though they didn't know whether they were going to hit any success or not.

Great food for thought, man. I'll be cheering on for you to reach the top someday.

Cheers,
Alex

 

[Mystique]

Hey Chaosblader,

Hey Mystique,
Glad to another beginner pushing
hard for success. You stood out to
me in particular because of your
thoughtful insight and careful
reflections on yourself, especially
when you realized this journey
wouldn't be easy. I saw the same
post by Anatman and wondered the
same question to myself of whether
or not I really had what it took to
succeed. But you took it one step
further and analyzed the key to the
success of the Tribal Elders: they
kept swinging, even though they
didn't know whether they were going
to hit any success or not.
Great food for thought, man. I'll be
cheering on for you to reach the top
someday.
Cheers,
Alex

Thanks man. We just have to tell ourselves the truth. I've been reading GC stuff for over a year but it's just only recently I decided to learn pick up. And truth be told, I had lots of doubts and obstacles. Thanks to Richard who really encouraged me with his words. That guy is awesome! I'm definitely shooting for the stars and believe I'll get there (still got a looong way to go). The top would be lonely without the likes of you. So, (in Anatman's voice)
May we all grow to become world class seducers, social successes and fuck a whole lot of hotties along the way.