Hello everyone! I have decided to get back in track seduction-wise after a long period of no pick due to the holidays. Now I'm back in school, my second week, and I'm ready to kick ass. It really does seem like I'm starting all over again due to AA. Hopefully I'll overcome that shit by forcing myself to approach eight girls daily on campus - 4 during the day and 4 at night. I suck at so many things, I wanna cross out seduction out of that list. So yea, I'm back!
I didn't make any approaches today and tbh, I haven't been doing much approaches. Nevertheless, I've still been gaming. I've been feeling lack of motivation lately and it has affected my pick up. I need to learn to force myself to approach even when I don't feel like. I've made a new discovery: night time (between 8-10pm) on campus is the best time to pick up girls. Girls come out to buy food, meet friends, stroll, etc. One thing is for sure: they have time to kill and are receptive to approaches at this time. Social circle gaming is really boring for me and my attraction for these girls wane easily as I see them more often. So I need to get back on cold approach hardcore. Till tomorrow!
Cute Architecture Girl
I'm beginning to warm up back into approaching after not doing it for a while. Started my day hoping to kick AA's ass and approach as many girls as possible. Didn't happen though. In between classes i take a stroll on campus but can't seem to find a girl to approach, I guess I'm too focused on the right moment. I see a cute girl from afar. I walk up to her as she's coming my way. When she's close I say "hello, wait a minute". She stops and I'm glad and a bit surprised coz my opening body language was not too confident. "I was over there walking when I saw you, and i just to come over and tell you that I love your dress. It looks really nice". She thanks me and is quite open to talking. We exchange names. I find out she's an architecture student. I tease her that she's going to sketch me and she responds that I'll have to pay. After we talk for a while, I ask her if she has anything doing and she says she's done for the day (it was about 3:30pm and I had a class for 4-6pm). I tell her I'd like us to hang out later that evening and get to talk some more. She agrees and seems quite excited. I tell her let's meet by 6 and she says cool (In the heat of the moment, it skipped my mind that my class ends 6 and I'll need some time to rest). I ask her how I'll reach out to her and she's completely lost, she doesn't know what to say. This is supposed to be a technique for making the girl offer you her number. I then tell her to dial her number on my phone. I call her and she saves my number. I tell her to be by her phone by 6 coz I'll call her. Class ends some minutes before 6 so by 6 I call her number and it's not reachable (her phone was probably off). I later try her number around 10pm, it rings twice and she doesn't pick. I'll try reaching out to her a day after tomorrow. That's all for now. Till tomorrow, Cheers!
I'm beginning to warm up back into approaching after not doing it for a while. Started my day hoping to kick AA's ass and approach as many girls as possible. Didn't happen though. In between classes i take a stroll on campus but can't seem to find a girl to approach, I guess I'm too focused on the right moment. I see a cute girl from afar. I walk up to her as she's coming my way. When she's close I say "hello, wait a minute". She stops and I'm glad and a bit surprised coz my opening body language was not too confident. "I was over there walking when I saw you, and i just to come over and tell you that I love your dress. It looks really nice". She thanks me and is quite open to talking. We exchange names. I find out she's an architecture student. I tease her that she's going to sketch me and she responds that I'll have to pay. After we talk for a while, I ask her if she has anything doing and she says she's done for the day (it was about 3:30pm and I had a class for 4-6pm). I tell her I'd like us to hang out later that evening and get to talk some more. She agrees and seems quite excited. I tell her let's meet by 6 and she says cool (In the heat of the moment, it skipped my mind that my class ends 6 and I'll need some time to rest). I ask her how I'll reach out to her and she's completely lost, she doesn't know what to say. This is supposed to be a technique for making the girl offer you her number. I then tell her to dial her number on my phone. I call her and she saves my number. I tell her to be by her phone by 6 coz I'll call her. Class ends some minutes before 6 so by 6 I call her number and it's not reachable (her phone was probably off). I later try her number around 10pm, it rings twice and she doesn't pick. I'll try reaching out to her a day after tomorrow. That's all for now. Till tomorrow, Cheers!
Hello everyone. So I've not been posting much, but still gaming. I'm in a whatsapp group made up of a few seducers and we discuss daily, all things seduction. I've not been cold approaching that much, because exam is close and I've been trying to do a lot if studying. But I've been getting lots of numbers off of IG. It's like online gaming, take away most of the demerits. I'll probably make a post on this very soon. I've also meddled into social circle gaming. But I've realized that it doesn't matter whether it's close to exam time or not, I'm still going to approach. I don't want to turn stale by not approaching in a long period of time. Had a date tonight on campus with a girl I met on IG. I have a way of finding girls in my school. She was the talkative type. We basically talked for a while where I did lots of touching and all. But there was no sexual vibe no matter how much I tried to create sexual tension and bring up indirectly, sexual topics. I did lots of deep-diving, teasing and playful flirting. She talks about the test that she might be having tomorrow and also that's she's hungry and her roommate is cooking. I tell her let's take a walk. We stroll and then make a U-turn and I see her off to around her hostel which is very close to mine. I later text her on whatsapp that I had a nice time and she says she did too. That's all for now.
Date with a Talkative Girl
Today was the second time I was meeting her. She's the girl from my last journal report, let's call her E. How I met her was that I came across her page on IG and messaged her:
Me: hi crush
Her: hello
Me: you've got gorgeous eyes
Her: thanks
Me: ywlcm. Wanna meet up sometime?
Her: ok
I get her number and msg her on whatsapp. We set up a meet.
Now about our meet today. In the evening, I made several call to girls to see who I could meet. One certain girl when I called, she was panting and her voice sounded really sensual. I tell her we should meet in an hour time and she says yes. When I get to her hostel, I try her number and it's switched off. I highly suspect she was getting fucked when I called. So I reach out to E as my alternative. She's really compliant and agrees to meet in about an hour time. We meet, and I tease her about her hair. She's giving me some attitude but in a cute way as she complains that she was seeing a movie when I called and she couldn't say no. She was kinda sulky. I continue to tease her but I run out of topics right from the start. It wasn't awkward at all, but it's an issue I'm having. I'm not a talker. I tell her to walk with me. She responds to all of my teasing by smiling and then going back to her attitude. I try to address it and she tells me she didn't want to come down. I do not know how to respond to this so I put on an air of amusement, like all she's doing is really silly and cute. I don't have logistics so the plan was to take her to an isolated area and escalate. I honestly chickened out and didn't even try to kis her *hand on face. In other words, I screwed up. She seemed to like my company and welcomed my touch. I found it hard to build sexual tension as she talked too much hardly made eye contact with me. We sat side by side on a huge stairway with a beautiful view. So she looked ahead while talking. Without the sexual tension, I guess that's why I didn't try to escalate. I also found it hard to set sexual frames. After talking for not too long, about 45 minutes, she says she'll be leaving. We walk together and I part ways with her once I reach my hostel.
Lessons:
Always go for the kiss without thinking too much
I need to learn sexual framing - chase frames, sex talk or sexual innuendoes
I need to go on more dates
I run out of things to say, need to rectify it
Since I'm not much of a talker, I should ground myself in physical escalation
There are just some girls you meet that you find it hard to connect with
It's easier to connect more on a date with a girl you approached than a grl you met online
I need to be more dominant and adopt asshole attributes
Girls are girls are girls!
Today was the second time I was meeting her. She's the girl from my last journal report, let's call her E. How I met her was that I came across her page on IG and messaged her:
Me: hi crush
Her: hello
Me: you've got gorgeous eyes
Her: thanks
Me: ywlcm. Wanna meet up sometime?
Her: ok
I get her number and msg her on whatsapp. We set up a meet.
Now about our meet today. In the evening, I made several call to girls to see who I could meet. One certain girl when I called, she was panting and her voice sounded really sensual. I tell her we should meet in an hour time and she says yes. When I get to her hostel, I try her number and it's switched off. I highly suspect she was getting fucked when I called. So I reach out to E as my alternative. She's really compliant and agrees to meet in about an hour time. We meet, and I tease her about her hair. She's giving me some attitude but in a cute way as she complains that she was seeing a movie when I called and she couldn't say no. She was kinda sulky. I continue to tease her but I run out of topics right from the start. It wasn't awkward at all, but it's an issue I'm having. I'm not a talker. I tell her to walk with me. She responds to all of my teasing by smiling and then going back to her attitude. I try to address it and she tells me she didn't want to come down. I do not know how to respond to this so I put on an air of amusement, like all she's doing is really silly and cute. I don't have logistics so the plan was to take her to an isolated area and escalate. I honestly chickened out and didn't even try to kis her *hand on face. In other words, I screwed up. She seemed to like my company and welcomed my touch. I found it hard to build sexual tension as she talked too much hardly made eye contact with me. We sat side by side on a huge stairway with a beautiful view. So she looked ahead while talking. Without the sexual tension, I guess that's why I didn't try to escalate. I also found it hard to set sexual frames. After talking for not too long, about 45 minutes, she says she'll be leaving. We walk together and I part ways with her once I reach my hostel.
Lessons:
Always go for the kiss without thinking too much
I need to learn sexual framing - chase frames, sex talk or sexual innuendoes
I need to go on more dates
I run out of things to say, need to rectify it
Since I'm not much of a talker, I should ground myself in physical escalation
There are just some girls you meet that you find it hard to connect with
It's easier to connect more on a date with a girl you approached than a grl you met online
I need to be more dominant and adopt asshole attributes
Girls are girls are girls!
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Hey Mystique,
How are you man?
I'm trying to read your date with E, from what you describes. It seems she liked you a lot:
In addition, her "attitude" and complaints that she was seeing a movie, seems like the "mixed signals" Chase talked in his articles. She came on an hour notice and was so excited to see you. Obviously that would look bad to be so much into you, so she has to give negative signals as well, so as to keep you in doubt and maintain her own self esteem.
If my reading is right, then you didn't need much sexual frames or sexual tension, because she was already very excited. Remember that touch, in itself, is very sexual. If you don't have a sexual innuendo available, then no need to force yourself and feel stuck because of it. Touch her, instead. It seems you did, good. She welcomes your touch, good! Then ramp it up. Be increasingly bolder with your touch. That's worth all the sexual frames in the world.
Also, you don't have to be a talker. What you need to learn instead is to how to make her talk. You do this, in order to build comfort. In this case, she was already doing all the talking. She's talking and talking and talking, it's usually a good sign. Sometimes, it's even a sign of arousal actually (yes, I noticed it). Nevertheless, you need to learn to control the flow of her talking. Actively listen, step in and interrupt her with a question here and there, etc... She speaks all the time, and you still lead!
Where you really did wrong in my opinion, is you broke your frame against hers. She had her attitude and mixed signals (if I'm right) and you "chickened out". No need to be more dominant and more asshole or more gamey. Just keep your frame!
Yes, you need to go on more and more dates, to acquire more reference points. With reference points, you start reading into the girl's game, see if she likes you or not, and learn to calibrate.
That's my take. See for yourself if it makes sense, and keep up the good work!
Cheers,
Seppuku
How are you man?
I'm trying to read your date with E, from what you describes. It seems she liked you a lot:
- (*) Easy contact almost out of the blue from instagram
(*) Coming over with you, first time ever, on an hour notice
(*) welcomes your touch
(*) very talkative
In addition, her "attitude" and complaints that she was seeing a movie, seems like the "mixed signals" Chase talked in his articles. She came on an hour notice and was so excited to see you. Obviously that would look bad to be so much into you, so she has to give negative signals as well, so as to keep you in doubt and maintain her own self esteem.
If my reading is right, then you didn't need much sexual frames or sexual tension, because she was already very excited. Remember that touch, in itself, is very sexual. If you don't have a sexual innuendo available, then no need to force yourself and feel stuck because of it. Touch her, instead. It seems you did, good. She welcomes your touch, good! Then ramp it up. Be increasingly bolder with your touch. That's worth all the sexual frames in the world.
Also, you don't have to be a talker. What you need to learn instead is to how to make her talk. You do this, in order to build comfort. In this case, she was already doing all the talking. She's talking and talking and talking, it's usually a good sign. Sometimes, it's even a sign of arousal actually (yes, I noticed it). Nevertheless, you need to learn to control the flow of her talking. Actively listen, step in and interrupt her with a question here and there, etc... She speaks all the time, and you still lead!
Where you really did wrong in my opinion, is you broke your frame against hers. She had her attitude and mixed signals (if I'm right) and you "chickened out". No need to be more dominant and more asshole or more gamey. Just keep your frame!
Yes, you need to go on more and more dates, to acquire more reference points. With reference points, you start reading into the girl's game, see if she likes you or not, and learn to calibrate.
That's my take. See for yourself if it makes sense, and keep up the good work!
Cheers,
Seppuku
Hey Seppuku, I'm doing good. Haven't had much progress pick up wise but I ain't giving up anytime soon. Just caught between school, pick up and trying to make ends meet. Good all the same. How's Qatar?
Thanks man! Solid observation and advice.
Taking a New Route in Seduction
I've always suspected, but now I've come to the realisation that these girls want a pure asshole. I didn't realise it but based on the kinda girls I'm gaming which are young, I need to be a full asshole cause those are the kinda guys they fuck. Also, blacks are naturally very aggressive and so these girls respond more to the very aggressive guys. So black + young = I want a super asshole, that's what gets me wet. I'm naturally an asshole but I have that romantic side and of late I've been accentuating that side very well (blame it on my artistic poetic side), but in most situations it's doing more harm than good. I need to up my asshole vibe and do the romantic stuff less, sorry Zan Perrion. I dunno how it's gonna be like but I'll have to try it out more. I'll keep you guys updated on my progress. Cheers!
I've always suspected, but now I've come to the realisation that these girls want a pure asshole. I didn't realise it but based on the kinda girls I'm gaming which are young, I need to be a full asshole cause those are the kinda guys they fuck. Also, blacks are naturally very aggressive and so these girls respond more to the very aggressive guys. So black + young = I want a super asshole, that's what gets me wet. I'm naturally an asshole but I have that romantic side and of late I've been accentuating that side very well (blame it on my artistic poetic side), but in most situations it's doing more harm than good. I need to up my asshole vibe and do the romantic stuff less, sorry Zan Perrion. I dunno how it's gonna be like but I'll have to try it out more. I'll keep you guys updated on my progress. Cheers!
b]So Far So Good?[/b]
It's been a while this journal got updated, but I've not slacked in my seduction. The numbers having been piling up as I believe they should but I've made lots progress
Strengths
1. My cold approaching is getting really dope. it's now a part of me
2. My text game has improved
3. I can totally slay in house parties
4. Finally locked my hair and it's growing and looking really attractive and girls can't resist it, they keep talking about it
5. My eye contact game is really strong, I feel I can compete with any Latino model
6. I've been getting compliments on my voice and fundamentals generally
7. I'm getting sexier, I can tell due to how girls react to me... And I've been attracting lots of gay guys. Have mercy upon me Lord!
8. I've noticed lots of mistakes in my game and I've corrected a couple of them
Weaknesses
1. Logistics is still a bitch
2. No gf or regular babe for fucking, hence occasional dryspells
3. Inconsistence in approaching girls everyday
4. I don't approach super hot girls as much as I should
5. Not enough socialising
6. Being broke is shitty as hell
Game Plan
1. Fundamentals:
*I need to do some shopping
*I need to soften and slow down my facial expressions
*My voice needs to be clearer and have resonance so I can move to the next stage: accent!
*I need to wink more (my eye contact is very strong and so to open a girl after a strong eye contact, winking or smiling is perfect)
*Still working on my hair
2. I need to approach every fucking day (I'm almost there, it's not as hard as I thought)
3. Working on earning some money so this coming year I'll sort logistics
4. Trying to master my unique style of asshole and romantic mixed together, works perfectly for young girls. I just need a balance
5. Working on plans to start traveling the world in about a year time
6. I need to deep dive more
7. I need to take down every form of neediness which always shows up in my texting and keeping up with girls I'm trying to fuck
8. Socialising more and making lots of
friends
9. Fuck more girls! Just fucking fuck more girls man, the lay count is too low
It's been a while this journal got updated, but I've not slacked in my seduction. The numbers having been piling up as I believe they should but I've made lots progress
Strengths
1. My cold approaching is getting really dope. it's now a part of me
2. My text game has improved
3. I can totally slay in house parties
4. Finally locked my hair and it's growing and looking really attractive and girls can't resist it, they keep talking about it
5. My eye contact game is really strong, I feel I can compete with any Latino model
6. I've been getting compliments on my voice and fundamentals generally
7. I'm getting sexier, I can tell due to how girls react to me... And I've been attracting lots of gay guys. Have mercy upon me Lord!
8. I've noticed lots of mistakes in my game and I've corrected a couple of them
Weaknesses
1. Logistics is still a bitch
2. No gf or regular babe for fucking, hence occasional dryspells
3. Inconsistence in approaching girls everyday
4. I don't approach super hot girls as much as I should
5. Not enough socialising
6. Being broke is shitty as hell
Game Plan
1. Fundamentals:
*I need to do some shopping
*I need to soften and slow down my facial expressions
*My voice needs to be clearer and have resonance so I can move to the next stage: accent!
*I need to wink more (my eye contact is very strong and so to open a girl after a strong eye contact, winking or smiling is perfect)
*Still working on my hair
2. I need to approach every fucking day (I'm almost there, it's not as hard as I thought)
3. Working on earning some money so this coming year I'll sort logistics
4. Trying to master my unique style of asshole and romantic mixed together, works perfectly for young girls. I just need a balance
5. Working on plans to start traveling the world in about a year time
6. I need to deep dive more
7. I need to take down every form of neediness which always shows up in my texting and keeping up with girls I'm trying to fuck
8. Socialising more and making lots of
friends
9. Fuck more girls! Just fucking fuck more girls man, the lay count is too low
