My Journal

[Sidhrnsksijf]

Reaping Rewards
Hello everyone. This week I approach 18 girls and got my first lay. I am still working on my voice and hook game.


M - 11 approaches - working on using hooks and a strong voice.

Half the girls didn't last more than a minute. Some just gave glaring buzz off signals. “Uhm, do you go to school here” “Can I help you” said with nasty tones

Two girls were polite and didn't hook

Three girls hooked, laughed a bit, and I grabbed their numbers and went. It always Happened when I least expected it to.

The last girl I contemplated approaching thought “I already hit my number today. There's no reason to not approach though. She might respond well. But… It might backfire. This is a bad idea”. Then it hit me like a truck. Why not test if it's a bad idea. Might as well. Turns out… she responded the best.

T - 5 Approaches - no goal today, just working on the same thing as yesterday

One girl did not enjoy me even speaking to her

One girl was very polite, and then brought her husband into the conversation. Should've checked for a ring

Three girls responded very well, explaining themselves and asking me questions. It was just too easy to propose a date and then they agreed.

One of the three girls was in a restaurant and me and her were the only ones there. My brain said “nah, that won’t work. She’ll be disgusted cause it's just you and her, and the 5 employees next to us. You better not approach her” and then I was like, huh, why not test this theory. I just asked what she got, started chatting and flirting for a couple minutes... BOOM.. Date! My brain is wrong on so many levels, and I just have to go against it sometimes.

W - 1 approach

Th - 1 lay and 1 extra approach. The lay report is here: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/status-update-lost-my-virginity.29981/

 

[alexlaguma]

Great work. I just read through your journal. I admire your consistency and commitment. Looks like you've made some great progress .

 

[gameboy]

I was like, huh, why not test this theory.

Great line to say to yourself when AA strikes! I think I'm gonna borrow this one

 

[Sidhrnsksijf]

Back in the game

Hello everyone. Don’t worry, I’m didn't up and leave after one lucky lay. I still have a lot more to do. I just took a break to do something, but I’m back now. I hit my goal of getting laid (far sooner than I expected), and now I’m moving onto the next step. Wish me luck

This week I started using pings, tried new venues, and openers (due to the change in venue style).

PINGS: Before I started using pings, I discounted them on the fact that they can give you an excuse to not approach. I thought it was for the faint hearted. Turns out it's pretty useful to save myself from public humiliation and get approaches in, in a crowded area.

I used the offhand comment pings like “the train is soooo slow in the winter” or “These lights take forever to change” whenever waiting in a quiet crowd. That way I can get an extra approach or two if I get AIs. Then it's a double whammy because it's a welcome approach.

VENUES: I tried out some new venues, mostly indoors. Winter's coming and I personally don’t want to be outside at a park or street running game for 2-3 hours. I much rather be inside, and I bet these girls do too.

The venus I tried are the trendy health food stores. They are crawling with so many young women. However, I have to go on weekdays. Couples and families go on weekends. Made that mistake yesterday.

I also tried some situationally relevant openers. Ones like “do you think I should pick this or this for?” and “What do you think I should add to make this smoothie?”. It's different and a bit of a challenge. I think I'll get used to it in time.

 

[KJ Francis]

offhand comment pings like “the train is soooo slow in the winter” or “These lights take forever to change”

A positive spin:

Tease Opener: "The Optimistic Complaint"

Opening with a complaint (“This line sure is long!”) can come naturally. But not everyone responds to it… because it’s NEGATIVE. Here’s how you fix that. As we gear up for the launch of my novel new teasing method (you can watch video #1 on it – about the #1 common humor mistake to AVOID when...

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situationally relevant openers. Ones like “do you think I should pick this or this for?” and “What do you think I should add to make this smoothie?”.

An additional idea to try, putting the focus on her:

#1 shopping opener

Thought I'd share my #1 opener when shopping. It's so simple, and the opportunity so common I rarely need another opener. Basically, you see a babe standing in front of a shelf/rack considering some items, you approach and open with "I can tell you are putting a lot of thought into this...

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