Landmark: Lost full virginity!
Was waiting to write in the journal again until I had something better...and I'm pretty happy with this one! On to the report...
Took a train to the big city, yesterday. After an approach, and a while of walking around, I thought I'd swing over to the local music store to check out their gear section - and that's when I passed by a long reddish-brown haired, and thin gal, sitting and reading with her tray of Asian food under a sign that exclaimed "Japanese food!". I felt a surge of nervousness, and thought better, so I walked up to the side of the table and said "excuse me". She looked over from her book, and looked at me with a slightly puzzled look. I open direct and she just smiles; introducing herself as "Sakiya" (not her real name - but she was Chinese).
We start with small chat. I discovered she's from Hong Kong; apparently in Perth because she's a flight attendant (Oh man, here's my chance...) We talk about travel pictures and such. That's when I noticed her book, and when asked what she was reading, she became really hesitant. Ohh, this shall be good, I thought! When she handed the book, the title was
Get the guy, written by a fellow named Matthew Hussey. "You can't judge me for this!" she exclaimed. She was really cute.
I invite her to the music shop, and we talk on the way there about relationships, her career, men in general. She remarks that I look like a "party animal" and that I'd love Hong Kong, as Western guys usually do. Funny enough, there's a chance I could move to Hong Kong in the very near future, but I wasn't going to spill the beans on that... That's when I found out
she's only in town for the night, and that she leaves back to HK in 6 hours. I needed to work fast in order to be successful here.
When we couldn't find the music shop, we decided to grab some hot chocolate. I casually find out her logistics (staying at the nearby Hilton) as we're sitting down for the hot chocolate. She starts talking about relationships, how her necklace is supposed to bring her luck, and she asks me questions about guys in general. Legitimately a good conversation. Here's an excerpt of the conversation:
(I can't remember verbatim, but this is the jist of it)
Her: So let's say a woman, cute or not, drops something important while she's walking. Would you pick it up and give it back to her?
Me: Well, if she's close by, and I happen to be next to the object she dropped...yeah, why not. Would you do it for a guy?
Her: Yeah! It doesn't matter to me if he's cute or not, I'd just do it.
Me: But if he was really cute, maybe you'd be nervous?
Her: (laughs) yeah, I'd probably be pretty nervous...but that sounds kind of shallow (pauses) so I'll take that back.
Me: (I smile because she's used the word "shallow" a few times now, and I want to hit that dead on) There's nothing wrong with being shallow. We're all human; we all have needs, wants, and desires.
Her: (pauses) True. (pauses again) But isn't shallow a really negative term?
Me: For most of society, yes. But it ignores the fact that men and women are passionate, sexual creatures. Some people choose to ignore it, and other, much happier, people are honest and embraceful about it.
At this point in the conversation she falls silent and somewhat aloof. This is my escalation window, so I say "shall we go for a walk?", and she returns, "yeah!". As we walk, I'm attempting to go in the direction of the Hilton, trying to figure out an excuse to get inside. I mention how I need to use the restroom, and since I have to pay for bathrooms, I could just use hers? She gives me a funny look and says I can just use the McDonalds bathroom. If I push to use her bathroom, the excuse is going to look pushy, so I say "great!". She offers to hold my water bottle while I'm inside.
Leaving McDonalds, I say "which way is the Hilton?"; she pointed it out. And after a few minutes , she asked if I was walking her to her hotel. I said "You're game is just too good...I really don't stand a fighting chance", making fun of her for the book.
When we get inside the hotel, I say, "so are you on the top floor?", she said "No", and I push again and she explains to me that "she knows how this works, and she's had enough of "jerks" before". That's when I said "Well, do you have a computer? I can show you those travel pictures we were talking about earlier." and she said, "Well...not in my room, but there's a business room with computers down here!". I figure this will get her more comfortable with me in the same hotel with her, so I oblige.
We go in the business center and we're showing each other our travel photos. It's really cool though, this gal has been a lot of places in the world, since she's a flight attendant. Anyways, I remember at one point I tease her and she slaps me on the knee. I think, "awesome, it's still on". Then, out of the middle of nowhere, she pulls out her phone and shows me this weird video of a woman pulling out her breast and pouring milk into cups for customers in a restaurant. I compliment her for showing me something like that, and say it's cool how open she is.
I insist a few more times about going to her room and she keeps declining...probably 5 or 6 more times. That's when the conversation turned deeper into how she's looking for a relationship, nothing casual. I say that's cool. I shift the conversation into how I've been in relationships before and how I'm "really bad relationship material". And she starts asking me advice for this current guy she's chasing (they have sex, she's trying to pull him into a relationship), and I say how her room would be a better place to talk about this than the business room. She exclaims "alright! fine! you convinced me!".
We go to her room and she's a bit fidgety, cleaning up her room while I laid on the bed. I told her to come lay next to me while I turned on the news on the TV. She says "I can't believe I'm about to sleep with a stranger, the same day I met him". I say "actually, you're just in a hotel room with a guy. We're just hanging out". She smiles, and that's when I lift my head, put my fingers under her chin, and give her a soft peck on the lips and say "you're lips are so soft". She says "so are yours". That's when I turn up the passion dial and escalate!
I put my hand over her pants on her pussy, and she game me LMR. Made out again, then I escalated passionately, I started rubbing her through her pants. She moaned and kind of just put her hand on my hand and didn't move it. Token resistance. Soon after, I shoved my hand down her pants and got a finger in her. She moaned loudly this time. Kept fingering her and I threw her pants and underwear off at the same time. We were foreplaying for a little while when her head moved down my stomach to "get me ready". I put on the condom, threw her on bottom, and I teased her by putting my member on her inner thighs, taking my time watching her. This is finally what I set out to accomplish, so I soaked it in. And she actually grabbed my dick, and pulled it in her. And as I slowly made my way inside of her, she said "fuck me...please...".
Life is good!
After sex, we showered and then cuddled on the bed. She asked me about men in general, my "player friends", and advice for the guy she's trying to reel into a relationship. Thought that was kind of funny lol.
~Nick
