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LR-/LR: First Nighttime Affair

Hey fellas,

So I finally moved across Oz to Melbourne on Saturday - finding accommodation and a job has been consuming my whole life, so I'm glad to have the chance to write this.

Yesterday I dropped into the city with a few other gentlemen who are into cold-approaching. It's not particularly important for the story, but one is a bouncer, and he describes "bouncer-game" as incredibly easy because girls approach him instead. He chatted up fellow bouncers as we traversed through the clubs and bars; ended up seeing some pretty cool behind-the-scenes action in the city's night scene!

Anyways, we were doing some exercises to get over AA: stuff like opening girls with a marriage proposal, approaching random people and asking their favorite thing to do as a kid, etc. People were surprisingly friendly and compliant about this weird sorta shit, so it made it pretty easy. At one point I'm standing in the middle of a congested walkway in a club. Just standing - and next to a table full of girls. I was happy to see a few girls approach me; the ones sitting at the table next to me started talking to me, and that's when I meet our 27 year-old, black haired, Scottish gal ("Aila").

When Aila's friend introduced us to each other, I went for an extended handshake. Lot's of touching, and I remember her friends were touching my hair while I was talking to Aila (easy pre-selection). I wanted to keep hanging out with the guys I was with, so I wasn't going for a close at this moment. We agreed to a coffee and I grabbed her number and I rejoined the dudes.

We're doing a club crawl type deal, when eventually the guys got to get heading home. They ask me if I want a ride, I declined, and said I wanted to chill in the city some more. I see them leave, and I turn back toward King Street (where all the nightlife is), when suddenly I hear "Detroit!!". It was the group of girls and Aila. They tell me I'm going into the club with them, I say cool!

We arrive upstairs in this club, and it is hot and sweaty! And crowded! We find a place to stand in this gigantic farm of clubbers and Aila proposes to buy me a drink. I replied that would be perfect - but we ended up waiting for a long time, and I could tell this girl liked me, so I felt the need to get us outta there. All the dialogue starts when we reach the street outside. I explained to her that my train had already left for the night, and I asked if I could crash at hers instead? She exclaims "No way! The buses are still going!". And I say I live about an hour away (which [un]fortunately, is a fib), so that ruled out going home on my own. We're next to a line-up of taxis, so I say let's just go back to her house and chill for a while. She declines, and counter-offers a beer on a rooftop bar in which I relunctantly agreed.

SO, we're walking around and she explains to me how she's this executive assistant for a finance company, she works all the time, etc. We get on the subject of having new experiences. We don't end up in the bar, but next to the field of taxis again. There was a lot of discussing about how if we live 9-5 all the time we never get to have new experiences, meet new people, or new adventures. She talks about how she met a reporter from Bruce Springsteen on the plane in coach - and how he was so cool to her; he wanted to do nice things for her without the intention of sex. I didn't want to be put under that frame, so I changed the subject after a little while.

When she brought up her music collection, I told her I wanted to see it and we should grab a taxi; afterall, we're right next to the taxis! She declines again, and we get in another 10 minutes of conversation when she starts getting more excited, and I take this as an escalation window

Me: Well, it's starting to rain, and I'm thinking we ought to just grab a nightcap and chill. Why don't we take the taxi and take off?
Her: Do you want to do that?
Me: Of course. So what say we head out?
Her: Yes! Are you hungry though? Let's grab some food first!
Me: Hmm..sure. Do you feel like eating Chinese? The place is right there.
Her: Let's get dumplings! We can eat them in my bedroom and listen to my music collection.
Me: Perfect, let's do that.

I thought it was interesting how quickly she switched from resistance to nothing at all. That's how the girl from my last LR was too, though. Anyways, we grab the dumplings and she pays for the food and the taxi ride to the house. It's a nice house, and she doesn't have to pay rent on it. We just chill for 15-20 minutes and talk about how shitty the dumplings are, but we agree life is good anyway (stole from BoyToy, I love this line). We go back to her bedroom and she puts on music. No resistance; all really easy.

Did oral and everything, and I was able to get my member slightly inside her - but my ED was going again, so it wasn't really sex - just a little bit of penetration. Not sure if that's an LR or LR-, but I classified it as both.

She drove me to a 7-11 after, and gave me like $200 for a cab (!). Got a little bit of sleep before dawn, and now I'm back home!

~Nick
 

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Congrats Nick! I like the excuse that your house was far away (even though it isn't). Its a good way of handling logistical problems. It sounds like you got your go to line! Someone pretty cool must have taught you it ;)
 

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Nick, good deal. And I'm glad you've moved cross-country and set up on your own in Melbourne... a sensible step at this stage. I'm impressed by your determination to push things forward with these girls time and again! You're getting the results you deserve. -Marty
 

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Nick, Nice LR/LR-! Glad that you've moved to a new city and have your own place now. I like this LR, and again shows how much persistence and sticking with the game pays off in the end. Her resistance sounded like a bit of a test in the beginning to see if you'll stick around; I'm glad to see you're finding new success in a new city!
 

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LR-/LR: Another French Gal

Hey peeps,

V - Fuck yeah, and I used a variation of it today!

Marty - Cheers :) I was just reading your FR+: LegallyMILF before I left for tonight! I'm leaving a comment after this. But yeah, Melbourne is fantastic. Have you been here? There are gorgeous girls everywhere - and they're incredibly friendly, too.

Ozzo - Thanks man! I'm having a lot of fun here! I still live with my family, as they moved over here as well. But I'm starting a job that pays decently on Tuesday; I'll start saving up for my own place. And about persistence - definitely! You're progress as of late is very inspiring.
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So here's tonight's LR/LR-:

I met this French gal, a young lady with a striped white and red shirt with jeans, while I went direct on the street last week. She has brown hair and green eyes, and 24. We'll call her "Louise". I can't remember much of the dialogue specifically, since it's usually the same. I remember pointing out to her that she seemed flustered.

6 days later (yesterday night) we finally meet up at 6 in front of a local amusement park (called "Luna Park", resembling a park with the same name in Coney Island, NY). We walk over to a nearby bar because its pretty stormy, and find a cool spot in the back with comfy couches to chill out.

I'm feeling awkward/tense vibes coming from her, and she sits a good foot away from me on this couch. Throughout the date I'm trying to close this gap, so I first put my arm on the couch behind her (without touching her), bring my arm down behind her so I AM touching her, start caressing her back, and lastly have my hand lingering on her upper thigh. This helps ease the atmosphere - and I think made the pull much easier later.

Her English and my French were both infantile, so words were often lost in translation. We talk about her love of traveling, and her passion of tourism (different, but cool!). Somehow the word prostitute came up and I get her to confess that she, indeed, has a dirty mind. It's really funny though, the floodgates opened after that dialogue, and she kept qualifying herself as having a dirty mind after, without my prompting. Love it when girls do that.

She confesses to me a little later that she has actually had a boyfriend of 4 years...for me, my new rule is "if she still loves him, don't go for it", but the fact she was on a date with me, allowing me to touch her and make sexual references so openly - that spoke for itself. She eventually tells me that she doesn't love him anymore, even though he's trying to come to Oz to reunite with her.

There was a couple more minutes of conversation when I used a yes ladder, and it went like this:
Me: So you're having a fun time, right?
Her: Yeah, I am! Are you?
Me: Of course! And you enjoy spending time together?
Her: (she doesn't understand, so I repeat) yes!
Me: Well, let's grab a drink from somewhere and we can go back to your place and chill out?
Her: For sure! I know a place down the street where they have it cheap!

Seriously, easiest pull since I started this!

Anyways, we get to the booze shop and I tell her:
Me: So yeah, I only have to $1.50 left...can you cover the rest?
Her: Well...it's usually the man who buys this, you know.
Me: Yeah, but I'm completely broke.
Changes subject

We take the tram to her place and she has a million share-mates and 3 roommates. She actually introduces me to a few of them. I feel like a hoe.

We chill in the kitchen while her roommates are coming in and out. Drinking wine and listening to Youtube, we're touching each other quite a bit. This goes on for maybe ~45 minutes. I was more focused on just enjoying the moment, and having a fun time mutually. It was a lot of fun...lot's of anticipation. Anyways, at one point she tells me:

Her: Well, I'm not a romantic girl, you know...I'm a very sexual girl...
Me: Is that so?
Her: Yes
staring at each other. I just bring my face close to hers, and she leans in for the kiss. It was straight to tongue - so I knew to move soon.
We go back to watching Youtube for a couple minutes, and I go in for the kiss, except this time very passionately. I do this 2 or 3 more times.
Me: Is there another room in the house we can use?
Her: Hmm...let me see if we can use the living room

She checks to see, but it's a no go. At this point, I grab her by the hand, and move us quickly into the bathroom. I push her against the wall. And yeah, you know how it goes. But man, these French girls are crazy...like choking and hair pulling and stuff. Holy shit, they're violent!

Of course, this was another case of ED where I got in a little bit, but it wouldn't really be "sex". But, hey, it happens.

Fun night though, all round!

~Nick
 

Marty

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Nick:

Nice report! Where do you find all these exotic girls? :) Next time I move, I have determined that it must be to a city which attracts a plentiful supply of tourists. I grew up in one, so I'm accustomed to it, but my current residence just doesn't cut it ;)

PrettyDecent said:
she kept qualifying herself as having a dirty mind after, without my prompting. Love it when girls do that.
You must have done everything totally, completely right leading up to that! Well done.

PrettyDecent said:
Her: Well, I'm not a romantic girl, you know...I'm a very sexual girl...
Ditto. You have gotten this down to a fine art now :)

PrettyDecent said:
But yeah, Melbourne is fantastic. Have you been here? There are gorgeous girls everywhere - and they're incredibly friendly, too.
I have been to Melbourne, but it was in 1998, when I guess you were in kindergarten :) I still have my old passport with my Australian visa. I loved the place. Oh, and somewhere I have a video of Kylie Minogue singing the praises of her hometown, with the waterfront as a backdrop. Yes, that would be one awesome place to live.

PrettyDecent said:
But man, these French girls are crazy...like choking and hair pulling and stuff. Holy shit, they're violent!
Cool!

-Marty
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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Nick,

I've been meaning to comment on your LR/LR- for a couple of days now. NICE JOB! You sound like you're on a roll, and it's definitely inspiring me to get out and cold approach again.

PrettyDecent said:
I met this French gal, a young lady with a striped white and red shirt with jeans, while I went direct on the street last week. She has brown hair and green eyes, and 24. We'll call her "Louise". I can't remember much of the dialogue specifically, since it's usually the same. I remember pointing out to her that she seemed flustered.

6 days later (yesterday night) we finally meet up at 6 in front of a local amusement park (called "Luna Park", resembling a park with the same name in Coney Island, NY). We walk over to a nearby bar because its pretty stormy, and find a cool spot in the back with comfy couches to chill out.

Was it pretty easy and straightforward to get her out on a date with you?

PrettyDecent said:
I'm feeling awkward/tense vibes coming from her, and she sits a good foot away from me on this couch. Throughout the date I'm trying to close this gap, so I first put my arm on the couch behind her (without touching her), bring my arm down behind her so I AM touching her, start caressing her back, and lastly have my hand lingering on her upper thigh. This helps ease the atmosphere - and I think made the pull much easier later.

This is great - I like how you gently eased the gap between you and reduced the space. I'm sure your conversation was also on point as this was happening.

PrettyDecent said:
Anyways, at one point she tells me:

Her: Well, I'm not a romantic girl, you know...I'm a very sexual girl...
Me: Is that so?
Her: Yes
staring at each other. I just bring my face close to hers, and she leans in for the kiss. It was straight to tongue - so I knew to move soon.
We go back to watching Youtube for a couple minutes, and I go in for the kiss, except this time very passionately. I do this 2 or 3 more times.
Me: Is there another room in the house we can use?
Her: Hmm...let me see if we can use the living room

AWESOME! Nice job following her lead on it first, and then leading her into what she really wanted to do. I also like how you chose an unusual location for escalation - I bet she must have found that hot!
When you (and I, for that matter) get over the ED, you'll be killing them, man! I love it. Keep it up.
 
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