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Space Monkey
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I have this issue where girls seem super into me and then just vanish and leave me on read. Here's an example. From the convo I had with her in person she seemed inexperienced, genuine and very smart. No tattoos or hair dye, dressed very modestly, stuff like that as well. Which is exactly my type!

I sat beside her while she was waiting for a bus, and I was waiting for a friend. So we both had an arbitrary time constraint. I felt like we hit it off, and thought she was really into me as well since she started texting me pretty much immediately after she left. But then she dropped off when I sent the hangout text. I assumed it was just because I sent a bad text that didn't invite a reply, so I didn't think anything of it and sent the last text after supper the next day, which was also left on read.

The only mistake I really think I made was not scheduling the next meetup in person before she left. But was that one mistake enough to cause this...? I can't figure out what's going through their minds when they're into me and then just vanish for no discernible reason like that.
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Probably she wasn't available after class, but she didn't feel invested enough in you to suggest another time, so she just left you on read.

Next time, try some banter before soft closing (we should grab matcha/coffee sometime), and don't immediately suggest a time. If she answers yes, check her schedule, then suggest a day/time based on her availability.

Also, why are you calling a girl "dude"?
 
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