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Here is the reposted current work in progress. Whole point is to then heavily field test. Please feel free to share any opinions - what can be removed, reordered, or anything else. This is meant to be a process of action steps for quick reference, so it omits fundamentals, etc. I would recommend reading the source material mentioned in the thread linked above to really understand it.
I will post questions in a reply.
Gambits to possibly incorporate:
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PROCESS: Structured Game Progression
Here are some process outlines I aim to combine, then pare down to essentials. My default is to get to know someone, so this structures an order to remember to tease, touch, delay qualification and deep diving, set sexual frames, etc. Mystery - Venusian Arts Handbook 60 Years of Challenge -...

Here is the reposted current work in progress. Whole point is to then heavily field test. Please feel free to share any opinions - what can be removed, reordered, or anything else. This is meant to be a process of action steps for quick reference, so it omits fundamentals, etc. I would recommend reading the source material mentioned in the thread linked above to really understand it.
I will post questions in a reply.
- A1
- Opening is a social screening process that can require multiple rejections to builds momentum, social proof, and required preselection for later
- Look for proximity and eye contact. Get her to look at you first. Otherwise 3-Second Rule, energy level slightly higher
- Face away as if leaving, open over shoulder. If moving, walk same trajectory, slightly in front
- False Time Constraint if possible. Open group, indirect. Situationally relevant opener if possible. If moving, genuine compliment (fashion, hair, energy, walk).
- "You are having way too much fun over here."
- "You can't look at me like that and not say hi."
- "How's your day/night going?", or "How's this place been so far tonight?"
- "What brings you out tonight?", or "What are you celebrating?"
- Handclasp opening with name introductions, to gauge interest with lingering silence until she releases
- End A1: Social hook point
- A2
- Banter about her or situation (with rich sensory and emotional descriptions if possible). Cold Read.
- Tease within first 30 seconds and continually throughout to set clear sexual frame (and chase frame if possible). Telegraph disinterest with false disqualifiers (wouldn't work out; she is too nice)
- If group, "So how do you all know each other?"
- DHV (to rest of group if possible): preselection, leader, protector, emoting, successful risk-taker
- Nonverbal:
- Hold deadpan face contact, seductive smirk, and visualize kissing. Get close and allow silent tension. Kino escalation (from hand). Be unreactive to resistance.
- Two minutes in: move her if possible (especially if solo), with protective touch (depending on comfort: back of arm, upper back, lower back)
- Lock in (lean against something with girl facing) sometime during A2
- Compliance Test, then give IOI, then IOD. If no compliance, give IOD, then DHV, then retest
- End A2: receive IOIs
- A3
- Inquire current plans, explore logistics during A3
- Screening (passions, if you could be anything, best qualities, school, growing up)
- Kino escalation, then push away. Use Takeaways
- Three minutes in: forearm touch during a tease. (Repeat every five minutes throughout, escalating up arm, down to waist)
- Compliance Test, then give IOI, then IOD. If no compliance, give IOD, then DHV, then retest
- Touch and verbalize inspecting jewelry, clothing, etc.
- Qualifiers, IOI, then IOD. Statement of Interest. Compliment style/energy/poise, behavior
- End A3: Bait her DHV, reward, repeat. Early Time Bridge if time constrained, or quick pull.
- C1
- Five to ten minutes in: move to seating with hand on lower back if close, or linked arms/hand if far. Sit with legs touching. Put arm around and pull her in if needed, then remove arm.
- Only IOD used in C1 is freeze-out
- Deep dive
- Start deep dive into motivations, rapport building. Ask questions with lingering touch (five seconds). Hand on thigh (20 seconds) during her deep disclosure
- Chase framed tease and touch, interspersed every four to eight minutes during deep dive.
- Elicit values, then passively show attitude similarity
- Seed the pull on a high note during C1
- Rich description of emotions experienced from her favorite activity in ideal setting
- Vulnerable grounding story from childhood to current identity
- Look for escalation windows. Otherwise pull after 90-120 minutes. Leave with linked arms/hand, lightly flirting/teasing.
- End C1: Bounce or Time Bridge
Gambits to possibly incorporate:
- A2
- "Unfair" section. Incorporate Madonna/whore and discretion for her social safety. 3 Sex Gambits: Good/Bad Sex, Sex is Unfair, and the Dark Side
- End of A2. "Who are you" transition: The Mirror
- A3
- Sex Talk Gambit: Female Submission
- Screen her openness, frame against jealousy (@Karea Ricardus D. post). Somewhat bold: How to Use Sexual Qualification to Prime Women for Sex
- Second and Third scenario: Make Yourself the Sexual Prize by Showing Her Your Sexual Standards
- Combine with Takeaway. Whisper in ear. Bold: Pickup and Seduction Gambit: The Femme Fatale
- A3 screening? Or C phase? Mix with unfairness gambit? The Purity Gambit: Open Up Sexual Topics in a Surprising Way
- C Phase
- C1? Making a Girl Trust & Feel Comfortable with You (Seduction Gambit)
- Short version? Pickup and Seduction Gambit: Sexual Frustration
- C phase? Somewhat bold: Pickup and Seduction Gambit: Narratives

The Patchwork Seducer
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