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Last year I slept with 12 new girls.
Some of you can get to that number in one or two months. Still, in my defense, there are multiple demands on my time, ranging from a full-time job through part-time study, including a part-time job and until recently a business (I've frozen my stake and stepped back for the moment, but it's still there).
Out of those 12, two were sweepers, to use hoe_math's terminology, but pretty much all the rest were sleepers/keepers. Meaning, the remaining 10 were sufficiently attractive that I would have liked to keep them around, in some capacity.
If we discard the sweepers, here is what happened with the remainder:
So far in 2025 I've already lost the 22-year-old babe to poor follow-up texting (minor mistakes, but sufficient to tank it as this is a hotter girl who undoubtedly has no shortage of dudes pining for her chocha).
Now the 24-year-old I'm suspecting is ghosting me (we've been together three different times, and sex game was good on first night (came fast (and told her it was "her fault") but then recharged and made her cum second time), then on second night I also came pretty fast (and I said it was "embarrassing") but I didn't make her cum (she said she's on anti-anxiety medication that makes it hard for her to cum), and on third night I made her cum but I came first and apologized. Crucially though, I slept at hers and in the middle of the night she said she didn't want to fuck, and same thing in the morning (this never happened to me in 36 years on this planet). Now she's not answering text (left me on read).
I've already opened a tab with Skills's thread and Chase's over on the Sex board. I already do the eye contact thing with them. Will see about the toys.
I want to know: is it a faux pas to cum before the girl?
Is it always the case that the man must pull out, finger her, tease her, maybe muffdive her (risky if you don't trust that she's clean...), go back in, come back out, etc. and ensure that she cums first before you do?
For blood flow I'm already working on getting back into cardio (did a little sprint last Sunday and some jump rope) but it's still a bumpy start due to low back flare ups, meaning I can get there but I need to go in baby steps (5 mins, then 6, then 7, then 8, then 9, then 10 mins, etc. same for the jump rope) I will also try swimming again (same thing though will have to start with like 5 laps, then 6, etc.).
ChatGPT told me that all of that can improve blood flow and thus make it easier to hold on before ejaculating. I don't think that I've made the 24-year-old think of herself as "just a bang" which the Russian probably felt (thanks for the advice Kvothe).
Some of you can get to that number in one or two months. Still, in my defense, there are multiple demands on my time, ranging from a full-time job through part-time study, including a part-time job and until recently a business (I've frozen my stake and stepped back for the moment, but it's still there).
Out of those 12, two were sweepers, to use hoe_math's terminology, but pretty much all the rest were sleepers/keepers. Meaning, the remaining 10 were sufficiently attractive that I would have liked to keep them around, in some capacity.
If we discard the sweepers, here is what happened with the remainder:
- Italian girl 1 bang sesh (sex game not on point) then on 2nd meet (at mine) she said she had the period and "wanted to talk" and I froze her out
- Ukrainian woman total of 3 bang sessions (she lives in a neighboring country and when she suggested I visit her a 2nd time, I told her I would "if she paid for my travel." She ghosted) - sex game was better with this one
- Greek girl 1 bang sesh (sex game better but still didn't make her cum) - messed up follow-up texting assumed she'd be down for second meet instead of starting from scratch/went for close too soon, but she was only staying in my city for a few more weeks then left back to Greece
- Italian girl 1 bang sesh (sex game was better but not perfect) messed up with texting she shit-tested when I said I enjoyed the night before "my company or the sex?" and I didn't reply then it fizzled out
- Canadian tourist woman 2 bang seshes then she left
- Chinese expatriate girl 1 bang sesh (I porked her while on holiday abroad, sex was satisfactory she was on period soiled the sheets) still she didn't want to smash the next day but I was leaving the day after so that was that
- Colombian girl 1 bang sesh - best sex game of the year, I fucked her raw for 2 straight hours, she slept over, we fucked during the night and the next morning, but I left that day. Looking back, I had had a perfect diet all week, I didn't eat one inch of junk, almost zero alcohol, and, crucially, to improve blood flow, before the sex on the night that afternoon/evening I'd been dancing with her for hours. I strongly suspect this led to better ejac control later
- Italian girl 3 bang seshes - first sesh sex was poor, second was superior, but on third came inside her as condom slipped off then the day after pill made her feel like shit and it ended. Text game was ace throughout (thx DWW for the support)
- American tourist girl 1 bang sesh - raw and she was a bombshell, but she left the next day
- Russian babe from house party - 2 bang seshes, first sesh game wasn't the best but 2nd I kept going and she was the one to say she wanted me to cum, but then she sent a long text saying she didn't want to see me anymore. Text game was solid
So far in 2025 I've already lost the 22-year-old babe to poor follow-up texting (minor mistakes, but sufficient to tank it as this is a hotter girl who undoubtedly has no shortage of dudes pining for her chocha).
Now the 24-year-old I'm suspecting is ghosting me (we've been together three different times, and sex game was good on first night (came fast (and told her it was "her fault") but then recharged and made her cum second time), then on second night I also came pretty fast (and I said it was "embarrassing") but I didn't make her cum (she said she's on anti-anxiety medication that makes it hard for her to cum), and on third night I made her cum but I came first and apologized. Crucially though, I slept at hers and in the middle of the night she said she didn't want to fuck, and same thing in the morning (this never happened to me in 36 years on this planet). Now she's not answering text (left me on read).
I've already opened a tab with Skills's thread and Chase's over on the Sex board. I already do the eye contact thing with them. Will see about the toys.
I want to know: is it a faux pas to cum before the girl?
Is it always the case that the man must pull out, finger her, tease her, maybe muffdive her (risky if you don't trust that she's clean...), go back in, come back out, etc. and ensure that she cums first before you do?
For blood flow I'm already working on getting back into cardio (did a little sprint last Sunday and some jump rope) but it's still a bumpy start due to low back flare ups, meaning I can get there but I need to go in baby steps (5 mins, then 6, then 7, then 8, then 9, then 10 mins, etc. same for the jump rope) I will also try swimming again (same thing though will have to start with like 5 laps, then 6, etc.).
ChatGPT told me that all of that can improve blood flow and thus make it easier to hold on before ejaculating. I don't think that I've made the 24-year-old think of herself as "just a bang" which the Russian probably felt (thanks for the advice Kvothe).