I broke up with LTR over 5 years ago and I was very active in the 3 years that followed. I have slept with 30 girls since, almost all of which were in the first 2 years. One of the biggest factors to my success was lowering my standards, building up momentum and then getting the women I truly desired. In the third year, I decided after major successes to secure a LTR with a girl I considered my personal 10 and then focus on other aspects of life. Unfortunately, after a summer affair I was never quite able to secure her, and went on a long cold streak which lasted almost a year.
I had basically turned my attention from women to investing and whilst I would periodically sarge, game was no longer at the forefront of my life and my successes were long behind me. Furthermore, I had stopped trying to approach anyone other than my personal 10's, which compounded my failures because I was out of momentum and was going for the hardest target. One of my friends helped break my streak by inviting me to a threesome with his now wife and a few months after that, I embarked on a new career which doubled my earnings.
All of my attention then went on succeeding in this new job, so I had no time for game and women, even though I was burning inside. After settling in my new job, I reduced my standards and got a lay, and then a while after I got another. Even the latter was not my personal 10, but she was young and hot enough to forgo my type, so I became focused on sticking with her so that I could concentrate on more important stuff, like investing, education and career. Unfortunately, the lockdown put an end to our relationship as she lived far away and I could no longer manage her emotions over text. Futhermore, I had moved to one of the wealthiest and most touristy parts of London, where I was now amongst the finest women the city has to offer.
My aim was to continue studying and working whilst spending a couple hours sarging per day. Unfortunately, the higher calibre of women I was now approaching has led to an almost beginner like success rate. In addition to that, I am now surrounded by my personal 10's, so I am approaching them in even greater quantity than before, with no momentum behind me. I've also realised that if I am to succeed in this environment, I will need to brush up on my skillset, journal my approaches and learn more content. Unfortunately, it will come at the expense of my education but I have hit just short of 100 approaches with only one date to show for it, which is the ratio I had 5 years ago. Towards my peak, I was often getting girls on my first approach of the day.
Some factors to take into consideration;
All of my daygame successes in the past came in a slow paced shopping mall. Now I live next to the largest park in the city, a fast paced high street, and a different shopping mall. Most of my recent 100 approaches have all been street approaches, where I have never had any success even in the past. The new shopping mall nearby is not ideal because every one is wearing a mask.
I have not yet approached a girl in a mask for the obvious reason that anyone wearing one is clearly concerned by Covid, whilst anyone who isn't is not. So it makes sense to me to approach girls who are seemingly unconcerned, if I am to sleep with them. As such, the high shopping street and the mall are from the ideal. I have tended to focus on the streets nearby and on the street adjacent to where I live where people aren't wearing them.
I have almost exclusively been approaching blondes, but I think I have to lower my standards and open myself to other races, if I am to get a few notches under my belt and gather the momentum to pull what I actually want.
My previous process was to instadate girls and either SDL or take their number and setup a day 2. The instadate was often a defining factor in whether a girl met me again or not. Unfortunately, since I moved, I have not been able to instadate even once, largely because of the fast paced nature of where I live. Everyone is always going somewhere fast. I have had to accept a fast number close, but ideally I would like to derail them but thus far, it's been to no avail.
Phone game is continually where I lose most girls. I'd previously adopted a high status approach of only responding with 2-3 texts per day and asking for a meet after 3-4 days of texting. I have since responded more frequently to increase attainability and requested a meet much earlier after 1-2 days. I have also dropped any humour or risque texts to avoid miscommunication and kept it neutral about my day.
I approached 5 girls today;
Girl 1 - Russian/Romanian brunette. Absolutely terrible approach. I had a bender a few days ago and it's taken me more than a few days to recover. Said my opener but could barely get the words out. She turned her back to me after some back and forth.
Girl 2 - Russian blonde showed me her ring and told me she was married. A significant percentage of girls I have approached have been married. I live in an affluent area with an abundance of trophy wives walking around. One of the reasons why I haven't focused on the park as they're all there. Wished her a good day.
Girl 3 - Finnish blonde. She immediately jumped back and spoke about social distancing. To be fair, this hasn't happened as often as you would think. Soon after, her bus came and she left.
Girl 4 - Swedish blonde who responded positively. She was very talkative and from the face of it, enjoyed the interaction. This was an ideal instadate option, but she had to go to pick up her child, as she's an au pair, so we weren't able to talk for long. Asked her if she would like to get an ice cream or milkshake sometime, she agreed eagerly. Took the number knowing that it wasn't going to lead anywhere, as I didn't speak to her long enough, and in my experience, if a girl is enjoying the interaction and makes it super easy, she's just an agreeable or friendly girl and doesn't know how to say no or what she actually thinks. Sent her an icebreaker an hour later and no response. In my experience, it's the ones who show some resistance even if it's token and are somewhat unsure who are the ones that I actually have success with.
Girl 5 - English blonde who had that confused look on her face like all English girls do when day game approached. Spoke to her for a bit as we walked down a busy street until we reached her destination. I told her to wait for a second, she agreed but then asked the shop keeper what time they were closing. They were closing at that very moment, so she left.
Positives - I approached more than the 3 I had intended.
Negatives - All but one were moving targets on the street, which is not the type of target or venue I have any positive reference experiences of.
I had basically turned my attention from women to investing and whilst I would periodically sarge, game was no longer at the forefront of my life and my successes were long behind me. Furthermore, I had stopped trying to approach anyone other than my personal 10's, which compounded my failures because I was out of momentum and was going for the hardest target. One of my friends helped break my streak by inviting me to a threesome with his now wife and a few months after that, I embarked on a new career which doubled my earnings.
All of my attention then went on succeeding in this new job, so I had no time for game and women, even though I was burning inside. After settling in my new job, I reduced my standards and got a lay, and then a while after I got another. Even the latter was not my personal 10, but she was young and hot enough to forgo my type, so I became focused on sticking with her so that I could concentrate on more important stuff, like investing, education and career. Unfortunately, the lockdown put an end to our relationship as she lived far away and I could no longer manage her emotions over text. Futhermore, I had moved to one of the wealthiest and most touristy parts of London, where I was now amongst the finest women the city has to offer.
My aim was to continue studying and working whilst spending a couple hours sarging per day. Unfortunately, the higher calibre of women I was now approaching has led to an almost beginner like success rate. In addition to that, I am now surrounded by my personal 10's, so I am approaching them in even greater quantity than before, with no momentum behind me. I've also realised that if I am to succeed in this environment, I will need to brush up on my skillset, journal my approaches and learn more content. Unfortunately, it will come at the expense of my education but I have hit just short of 100 approaches with only one date to show for it, which is the ratio I had 5 years ago. Towards my peak, I was often getting girls on my first approach of the day.
Some factors to take into consideration;
All of my daygame successes in the past came in a slow paced shopping mall. Now I live next to the largest park in the city, a fast paced high street, and a different shopping mall. Most of my recent 100 approaches have all been street approaches, where I have never had any success even in the past. The new shopping mall nearby is not ideal because every one is wearing a mask.
I have not yet approached a girl in a mask for the obvious reason that anyone wearing one is clearly concerned by Covid, whilst anyone who isn't is not. So it makes sense to me to approach girls who are seemingly unconcerned, if I am to sleep with them. As such, the high shopping street and the mall are from the ideal. I have tended to focus on the streets nearby and on the street adjacent to where I live where people aren't wearing them.
I have almost exclusively been approaching blondes, but I think I have to lower my standards and open myself to other races, if I am to get a few notches under my belt and gather the momentum to pull what I actually want.
My previous process was to instadate girls and either SDL or take their number and setup a day 2. The instadate was often a defining factor in whether a girl met me again or not. Unfortunately, since I moved, I have not been able to instadate even once, largely because of the fast paced nature of where I live. Everyone is always going somewhere fast. I have had to accept a fast number close, but ideally I would like to derail them but thus far, it's been to no avail.
Phone game is continually where I lose most girls. I'd previously adopted a high status approach of only responding with 2-3 texts per day and asking for a meet after 3-4 days of texting. I have since responded more frequently to increase attainability and requested a meet much earlier after 1-2 days. I have also dropped any humour or risque texts to avoid miscommunication and kept it neutral about my day.
I approached 5 girls today;
Girl 1 - Russian/Romanian brunette. Absolutely terrible approach. I had a bender a few days ago and it's taken me more than a few days to recover. Said my opener but could barely get the words out. She turned her back to me after some back and forth.
Girl 2 - Russian blonde showed me her ring and told me she was married. A significant percentage of girls I have approached have been married. I live in an affluent area with an abundance of trophy wives walking around. One of the reasons why I haven't focused on the park as they're all there. Wished her a good day.
Girl 3 - Finnish blonde. She immediately jumped back and spoke about social distancing. To be fair, this hasn't happened as often as you would think. Soon after, her bus came and she left.
Girl 4 - Swedish blonde who responded positively. She was very talkative and from the face of it, enjoyed the interaction. This was an ideal instadate option, but she had to go to pick up her child, as she's an au pair, so we weren't able to talk for long. Asked her if she would like to get an ice cream or milkshake sometime, she agreed eagerly. Took the number knowing that it wasn't going to lead anywhere, as I didn't speak to her long enough, and in my experience, if a girl is enjoying the interaction and makes it super easy, she's just an agreeable or friendly girl and doesn't know how to say no or what she actually thinks. Sent her an icebreaker an hour later and no response. In my experience, it's the ones who show some resistance even if it's token and are somewhat unsure who are the ones that I actually have success with.
Girl 5 - English blonde who had that confused look on her face like all English girls do when day game approached. Spoke to her for a bit as we walked down a busy street until we reached her destination. I told her to wait for a second, she agreed but then asked the shop keeper what time they were closing. They were closing at that very moment, so she left.
Positives - I approached more than the 3 I had intended.
Negatives - All but one were moving targets on the street, which is not the type of target or venue I have any positive reference experiences of.
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