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Seducing a girl with a BF?

Definitely_not_a_gymrat

Space Monkey
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Hi, I am studying abroad in Rome.

Last night, our neighbors(girls) invited us to a pregame, and to go out with them, I went. There were more girls there, all of them receiving me very well.

On the train ride, this one girl, one I find pretty attractive, told me that she has a bf, but she wants my snap, to be “friends.” I say sure, maybe it’s a sign of interest?

Later on, we were walking out of the first bar and she’s bumping into me, chatting me up, touching me everywhere, I’m receptive but don’t do too much. She looked tired, but not super drunk or anything like that.

Is this a sign of attraction, and how do I proceed?

DISCLAIMER: I don’t care if she has a bf, she ain’t studying abroad with him, in my eyes, that relationship gonna break soon anyways. Also, all the girls and guys in that group liked me.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Be fun, be sexual. Avoid romantic gestures lest she mistakenly think you're developing feelings.

Also, be discreet. Her circle likely knows she has a BF and she may want to avoid judegment even more than usual.
 

Definitely_not_a_gymrat

Space Monkey
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Thanks for the reply guys, met up with her and the entire group yesterday, talked for a bit, but not a

At the club, I put my hand out to her and she did a giggle, though she could have thought I was joking about something, I don’t think my gesture was clear enough.

She seemed really nice when she saw me, always saying hi in an enthusiastic way, and she and her friends invited me in one of her Ubers(I didn’t have to pay).

Gonna cut my attention back a lil bit, and not make any overt gestures, meanwhile flirt when I’m around her.

Tbh idk how a study abroad long distance relationship lasts for 4 months, especially her being the club type, almost running into me several times the first night.

Definitely not making any romantic gestures.
 

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Its the same as this


Also i have a post on the different i have a bf types:

 
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Definitely_not_a_gymrat

Space Monkey
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Its the same as this


Also i have a post on the different i have a bf types:

Will give them a read, I’m assuming she’s either number 1 or 2, based on how she had a bf but said she wanted to be friends out of nowhere(her friends were also right next to her) and asked for my contact info, and the fact she was bumping all over me a little bit later.

More of a social circle sitaution then cold approach.
 

OldGuy

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If the friends are local and the bf is back home, he may even be imaginary, just to improve her status with locals.
 
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