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Simple/basic texting guide

Skills

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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@Skills

I found this useful - thank you. I was often going straight in for the kill, and it seemed to have a low hit rate. I think, as you mentioned, I got that from 'models' which basically says don't use text to do anything other than set up a date.

But actually i've tested your method a little bit recently and it seems to work a bit better. Going in for the kill straight away seems a bit desperate / keen.

Funnily enough ... the past 6 girls I've number closed in day game , I've used the same text to for every one of them. And every one has responded. My text is -

"Hola"

Thats it. Just hola. But it kinda works because its a bit stupid (obviously using spanish instead of english) and they all seem to respond. A typical response is something like "Bonjourrrrrr how are you??"

And then I just go from there.

But yeh, i definitely like the idea of a little bit of banter and then attempt a soft close. I need to get better at transitioning into the soft close from banter though. it does take a little bit of creativity, depending on what the topic of the banter is ....
models texting is outdated, and is bad even when he came with the book.... his texting advice is awful in that book, though i recommend the book, best book on neediness management and inner game...Outer game on that book is awful...

Hola! is weak... Open bantering without intro. on a topic related to the meet... is the best, no intro.

second best is to text yourself or have her text your right then and there to build momentum....
 
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