Smash City

[Chad Tyrone]

and taking it from there so that the girl is kept wondering whether I like her or not as opposed to being given the upper hand on a silver platter and then having the power (or all the cards) to make or break the relationship going forward.

As long as you don't chase her and keep being your normal self even after closing things out with her , you'll keep her wondering whether you like her or not.

The man is also usually the one in power after penetration.Women hold the power before sex since the onus is on the man to make things happen,most of the time.

Once sex happens ,the power shifts to the man and he is the one to decide how things will progress moving forward especially if she was the pursuer throughout the seduction.

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On texting her after sex:it doesn't make you needy to send her "had a good time last night" hours after she leaves.

Infact...sending her a "had fun" post sex text sooner rather than later forestalls her going into auto rejection once she starts to backwards rationalize.

Before conversion,it pays to meet up and have sex again in quick succession.Don't worry that you'll come across needy just because you want to meet up with her again soon .

Again,as long as you are not chasing her down and stick to being your normal self , she'll be excited that you want to meet up with her again .

You can worry about setting a regular meeting schedule and taking your time once she is converted(3 or 4 sessions of which I'm pretty sure you're aware of).


Most important of all though ,the sex and how you treated her after the fact determines whether you will see her again .

Other factors may factor in ,sometimes ,but those two matter the most.

Chad Tyrone.

 

[Bismarck]

Thanks for the feedback guys. Much appreciated.

Yeah also after talking with Kvothe seems like the issue isn't really the protocols I'm applying after first smash (texting and whatnot) which actually seem to be the correct ones and to be bearing fruit. (I was considering switching up in the general framework mentioned in my previous post due to something I heard Orion Taraban say in one of his YT videos, but I don't think he has as much skill with girls as y'all). Also coz the Russian sent me an "it's over" text (quite long, but not really very useful in terms of feedback) so I was left wondering wtf (esp. coz things seemed to be going well, and second smash sesh was long and raunchy).

It's making her feel like more than just a bang that I need to work on.

 

[Skills]

I have gotten the is over stuff recently and blocked and is still on, with persistence in some cases betamaxing... And it was on, of course again calibration and i am not talking stalking of course..

 

[Bismarck]

I have gotten the is over stuff recently and blocked and is still on, with persistence in some cases betamaxing... And it was on, of course again calibration and i am not talking stalking of course..

Thanks for this Skills.

What is "betamaxing"? I got her text on 28 December, so 1 week and 1 day ago.

It read as follows: "...I'm not interested in anything further (having sex etc) I thought you're cute and funny and you seem like a good person but I don't see this going anywhere mainly bc of our age difference, bc you didn't seem to care whether I cum or not, and bc you are not planning to stay in [city where we both live] long term from what I understood so I don't want to get into some situationship or sexual relationship bc that's very unfulfilling to me (atm I'm far more interested in finding good friendships rather than sex lol)"

• Age difference is only 11 years, not a big deal
• I don't think I ever made her laugh, I wouldn't characterise myself as someone funny
• The second time we fucked, I fucked her for a good hour, and only came after she said "I want you to cum" (and I still argued, saying I wanted to keep going)