Smash City

[Chad Tyrone]

and taking it from there so that the girl is kept wondering whether I like her or not as opposed to being given the upper hand on a silver platter and then having the power (or all the cards) to make or break the relationship going forward.

As long as you don't chase her and keep being your normal self even after closing things out with her , you'll keep her wondering whether you like her or not.

The man is also usually the one in power after penetration.Women hold the power before sex since the onus is on the man to make things happen,most of the time.

Once sex happens ,the power shifts to the man and he is the one to decide how things will progress moving forward especially if she was the pursuer throughout the seduction.

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On texting her after sex:it doesn't make you needy to send her "had a good time last night" hours after she leaves.

Infact...sending her a "had fun" post sex text sooner rather than later forestalls her going into auto rejection once she starts to backwards rationalize.

Before conversion,it pays to meet up and have sex again in quick succession.Don't worry that you'll come across needy just because you want to meet up with her again soon .

Again,as long as you are not chasing her down and stick to being your normal self , she'll be excited that you want to meet up with her again .

You can worry about setting a regular meeting schedule and taking your time once she is converted(3 or 4 sessions of which I'm pretty sure you're aware of).


Most important of all though ,the sex and how you treated her after the fact determines whether you will see her again .

Other factors may factor in ,sometimes ,but those two matter the most.

Chad Tyrone.

 

[Bismarck]

Thanks for the feedback guys. Much appreciated.

Yeah also after talking with Kvothe seems like the issue isn't really the protocols I'm applying after first smash (texting and whatnot) which actually seem to be the correct ones and to be bearing fruit. (I was considering switching up in the general framework mentioned in my previous post due to something I heard Orion Taraban say in one of his YT videos, but I don't think he has as much skill with girls as y'all). Also coz the Russian sent me an "it's over" text (quite long, but not really very useful in terms of feedback) so I was left wondering wtf (esp. coz things seemed to be going well, and second smash sesh was long and raunchy).

It's making her feel like more than just a bang that I need to work on.

 

[Skills]

I have gotten the is over stuff recently and blocked and is still on, with persistence in some cases betamaxing... And it was on, of course again calibration and i am not talking stalking of course..

 

[Bismarck]

I have gotten the is over stuff recently and blocked and is still on, with persistence in some cases betamaxing... And it was on, of course again calibration and i am not talking stalking of course..

Thanks for this Skills.

What is "betamaxing"? I got her text on 28 December, so 1 week and 1 day ago.

It read as follows: "...I'm not interested in anything further (having sex etc) I thought you're cute and funny and you seem like a good person but I don't see this going anywhere mainly bc of our age difference, bc you didn't seem to care whether I cum or not, and bc you are not planning to stay in [city where we both live] long term from what I understood so I don't want to get into some situationship or sexual relationship bc that's very unfulfilling to me (atm I'm far more interested in finding good friendships rather than sex lol)"

• Age difference is only 11 years, not a big deal
• I don't think I ever made her laugh, I wouldn't characterise myself as someone funny
• The second time we fucked, I fucked her for a good hour, and only came after she said "I want you to cum" (and I still argued, saying I wanted to keep going)

 

[Skills]

Thanks for this Skills.

What is "betamaxing"? I got her text on 28 December, so 1 week and 1 day ago.

It read as follows: "...I'm not interested in anything further (having sex etc) I thought you're cute and funny and you seem like a good person but I don't see this going anywhere mainly bc of our age difference, bc you didn't seem to care whether I cum or not, and bc you are not planning to stay in [city where we both live] long term from what I understood so I don't want to get into some situationship or sexual relationship bc that's very unfulfilling to me (atm I'm far more interested in finding good friendships rather than sex lol)"

• Age difference is only 11 years, not a big deal
• I don't think I ever made her laugh, I wouldn't characterise myself as someone funny
• The second time we fucked, I fucked her for a good hour, and only came after she said "I want you to cum" (and I still argued, saying I wanted to keep going)

Yes this is done... Here is betamaxing

Beta maxing - strategic position of weakness part 2

This is the part 2 of strategic position of weakness... It is more like a cont. cause there are some things i did not cover in the original... read original prior to this one... In my original was more with girls you have not bang yet context.... And i did not cover other things that are...

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[Bismarck]

Approach Log

So reading all the LRs and listening to James D talk about his anal park conquests and open relationships with voluptuous Mediterranean belles (as well as Allen's international sexcapades) has made me realise that, if I want to be getting at least weekly action (meaning, inserting at least once a week), that I need to widen my access somehow. Especially since I lost Russia and my latest bang - which we could also argue kind of landed on my lap a bit like Kvothe's - appears not to want me to go inside her again.

On Friday I was walking to the sauna, entering the tube station, when I saw this stellar pair of legs, encased in see-through tights and a grey professional skirt, and I didn't approach, despite desiring to. Then yesterday late morning I saw this cute girl walk in my direction on the street, and further up ahead a bombshell, and approached neither.

Finally today Sunday I went out with the express purpose of maybe interacting with some cute birds, and ended up standing on the street corner for 25 minutes soaking up the (rare) sun rays. During this time a cute enough girl with what looked like an elegant bod (albeit wrapped in a winter coat) stopped not too far behind me to check her phone, but then she moved on.

From experience, letting the opportunities pass leads to a sense of restlessness which precedes action.

 

[Bismarck]

Lessons learned from last three bangs and two duds

1. You gotta fuck her well 3 times (pop a Sildenafil if you need to, otherwise start doing a few hours' cardio every week if manageable in terms of sleep and eventual low back flare-ups, always get a fresh condom if you take one off to avoid it slipping off and jizzing inside her, as the day after pill's hormones may fuck her state up and she will then associate those negative emotions with you)
2. If she's early twenties, tell her you're late twenties to avoid social frame issues (can tell her real age after lock-in)
3. When texting her after first bang, only go for soft close if she has qualified herself (invested, complied) somehow and you've rewarded her compliance immediately beforehand
4. There are hot young (early twenties) girls out there who are attracted to you, and who can be relatively easy to fuck - it is your job to approach in a calibrated fashion, do your thing, and close
5. Don't over-invest in any girl before meeting her (texting, etc.) as you'll simply lose patience and won't make much of an effort on the date
6. Catholic or aristocratic (or both) girls are not innocent virgins in the West anymore - if you get a date, don't accept anything as short as 30 minutes, and when you do meet her, don't repress yourself, and set the appropriate frames

 

[Bismarck]

Quick update -

Bus chick turned out to be cute and stylish. We went on a date on Wed 19 Feb during which I surprised myself by running game in my third language (which I don't master completely), her native tongue, as she said she doesn't speak English. She is 23. I tried to pull her home twice, but I'm glad she auto-rejected herself. (We did make out at the end though). I noticed that she had too much cushion for the pushin' for my tastes, so I ghosted her the next day.

On Thu 20 Feb I went on a date with this 23-year-old that I'd already been on a date with last year around September but who'd started playing attention whoring games and turned me off (I'd pulled her home and decided not to f-close her as she seemed to be cursing herself in her native language once we were on the bed). She's quite sexually experienced and a bit of a sex pest, and has a smashing body, weighs in at 48kg, and has beautiful azure eyes, albeit an OK face. I didn't manage to pull her home this second time. Still haven't porked her.

Yesterday Saturday at 4.20 p.m. or so I popped down to the local supermarket and there was this dame there (stylish, slim, long feminine hair). I wanted her to show up at the check-out queue to do my thing but she didn't, I suppose she was taking longer to shop. Next time I will open her at the shelves, and may even go direct. Life is too short to pass up on opportunities for debauchery.

 

[Bismarck]

This one doesn’t count because I met her on the tour that I was leading last Sunday.

But I thought I’d register it as when I invited her to sleep over, I thought I’d be writing a FU report and getting feedback from you guys.

Turns out the sleep over invitation clinched it, since she finally took her pants off.

I fell asleep and then woke up at the crack of dawn and wondered if I could still smash.

So, I started rubbing her feet with mine, then I found her hand. She was holding it back. KIOM.

And now that her pants were off it was easier to finger her through her panties, as I rubbed her nice supple breast.

I pulled her panties down and my pyjama bottoms and slipped my prick inside her raw. No resistance.

What followed was McLovin’ into the early hours…

She wasn’t lying about the period though, fuck my studio looks like an abattoir and, apart from my sheets, the mattress itself makes me look like the Texas Chainsaw Butcher.

German, short, light (44 kg), mid-twenties, brunette, green eyes. Face nothing spectacular but I espied her succulent body, and I wanted to try to access it.

The date wore me down – we met at 8 in my usual bar and only at 10.30 did I pull her home. During those 2.5 hours I felt like I was struggling to set the sexual frame, and she just kept blabbing on and on… (also to set the man to woman frame and veer off of a purely social vibe, but I guess I managed to do that somehow (I also did light bf disqualification, travel to meet someone and experience a "deep connection" (fuck)))

Back at home it was midnight when we were going to sleep, and I’d tried unsuccessfully to remove her trousers maybe thrice (and to have her suckle on my chorizo, which she also refused to do).

I thought perhaps the story I’d told her, that part of the mystique of meeting someone (not a prostitute, we were talking about whether seeing a prostitute constitutes “cheating” or not) was the whole “where is this going?”

I told her most girls thought when a guy invited them home, he just wanted to get in their pants, but I explained that recently I’d brought a girl home and then felt something about the vibe was off so I didn’t proceed, showing her it didn’t always happen.

I thought maybe that story had been me shooting myself in the foot, but I think it helped her feel comfortable in the end. When I threw her on the bed, after kissing her for a while, she said “no” when I went to take off her blazer, “I can’t”. I replied “it’s ok, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do” and proceeded.

Only managed to get her upper garments off. She was slow to heat up. She was still resisting finger over jeans and panties rubbing her twat. So after going back to her breasts and neck I flipped her around and gave her a massage (cred. Skills). When I flipped her back, I could already rub over jeans but I still couldn’t get them off. I PYCO and she was rubbing it merrily. At this point I also managed to finger her inside her panties but her trousers were tight, making it difficult.

Anyway, in the end I managed to feast on her. 3rd snatch this year. May close a 4th tomorrow night. Social circle (if I close that one, it’ll go into the Twat Tournament).

Thanks for reading.

 

[Bismarck]

On connection and energy

I feel like some of this boils down to matching energies.

Like, after that lay on Wednesday 12 March into the early hours, on Thursday 13 March, as I entered the subway car at lunchtime on my way back home from the office, this hot girl who was sat down smiled at me, which is a pretty strong IOI. The seat next to her was vacant. I tend to stand on the subway, especially on these older models where the seats aren't comfy, and I convinced myself that she'd get off at my stop and I'd approach her on the platform. Only she didn't.

That same day, I was having a drink with two buddies at an Irish pub and the waitress was this pretty Polish girl, who was giving me the eyes, again a lead I didn't number close.

It reminds me of when I was a tour guide in my hometown, in 2014, and when I was getting laid I could sense when a girl was horny. Maybe girls can also sense when we're getting laid, and that throws them on our scent? Or maybe it has nothing to do with that, and merely with the vibe we give off, the energy, after a particularly satisfying intimate connection is established with a girl.

I also think that connection is undervalued in the community. I've never regretted being open to connecting with girls I'm attracted to on a primal level. I mean, you risk heartache, but what you gain is infinitely more valuable. Love is a real thing, and it makes life more enjoyable.