How white "naturals" go about life differently than struggling minorities.
Over the past few years, I've been around a variety of friends of a variety of ethnic backgrounds and one thing has really struck out to me, how there is somewhat of a correlation between how men of different groups carry themselves. As most know on this board, I had the slight misfortune (and maybe one day it isn't a misfortune at all) of being born as an Indian guy and to make matters worse, being brought up in the Bay Area which is largely hostile towards Asian and Indian men.
Then after choosing to go to college out east (best decision of my life), I started to hang around different groups and along the way, lucked into making friends with some cool white guys. Over the years, as I have gone from envying these guys to learning from them, there are big things I've picked up in how white guys who are naturals carry themselves and go about life differ greatly than that of men from less desirable ethnic groups.
Irrational confidence, even in the face of "facts".
This is without a doubt the biggest issue men from less than desirable ethnic groups struggle with.
An Indian or Asian guy in the US will throw "facts" and "statistics" in your face, hoping to make their case. Most often this is done even on forums when Asian men pull up "dating statistics" that prove how women hate minorities and are crazy for white men. It is not common for me to find an Asian or Indian guy who is irrationally confident, lo and behold, these two groups of men struggle with women in the US more than any other group out there.
The white guys I know that were naturals were irrationally confident, even in the face of facts and even when they were caught in a bold face lie by women.
Think of it this way.
If some site released an article saying how Asian and Indian men are undesirable? Most Asian and Indian men I know will immediately create a pity party and cry about race together.
If it did the same to the white naturals I know? They will laugh it off and dismiss the article as "fake news".
One natural I know is a redhead, whenever he hears of how red headed men are undesired, he laughs it off and rolls his eyes. The guy gets more pussy than most guys I know of, all the way from getting blonde bombshells to getting latin women that are 10s.
This is the one thing that sets white naturals I know apart, even when less than flattering "facts" come at them, they laugh them off because their belief in themselves is that strong.
These guys make up their own more ideal reality of themselves and to them, that is more important than whatever society tells them.
I am not the problem, the women who reject me are, "their loss".
I remember going out with a friend of mines who is a tall blonde guy, he was my wingman. He approached two hot blondes who ignored him, then he laughed it off and kept on moving. I mentioned that to him saying "rough crowd", he responded saying "they probably had syphilis and I saw wrinkles on one of them, forget them, I am moving on to some real quality now!". Later on that night, he went on and made out with this busty blonde that a lot of guys at the bar had their eyes on.
I've seen this among so many white guys that get a lot of puss, the mentality that women who reject them are the ones with the issue. The way these guys treat rejection is more along the lines of sour grapes but is so much better than what I see men of my background do.
With Indian guys? It's the exact opposite, women reject them? It's because all hot girls hate Indian men and life is so tough because they are Indian.
The world is my oyster and I get to experiment with all of its fine women, it is my birth right.
I notice that with guys from undesirable ethnic groups, there is this guilt factor going on when pursuing girls of different races, especially white girls. I see it with Asian and Indian men to where there is this desire for white girls but also this guilt factor of going after one which usually manifests itself into a nasty cycle of just hating white women. You will see these guys talk about how white women are "overrated" and discourage their fellow bros from going after one, all of this is due to lacking the balls to going after one.
With white guys who do well, that sense of guilt is not there.
If they want a woman, of any background, they go after her. There is no "loyalty" to women of their own race or any of that fake stuff, there is only hot pussy they are attracted to and getting it. Just because that guy is Brazilian doesn't mean he gets to fuck that Brazilian 10 anymore than I do.
It is no mystery that most white naturals I've known have fucked hot girls of various backgrounds.
Take shit from no one!
Whether it is parents, boss, or a higher up, if someone is disrespecting? Call it out. Nothing is worth taking that much abuse from in life.
Abusive parents? Move on.
Boss being unfair? Find new job.
Woman being a bitch? On to the next one. Speak up when being disrespected at all costs. It is that sense of entitlement that leads to getting hot girls as well as taking shit from no one along the way.
Could some of the success be because of ethnic appearance alone?
No doubt, we all know how social pressures and other things tend to favor white guys because of their appearance. We're all too familiar with how a girl can have a racist social circle and racist friends that frown upon her going for a minority. Yet at the same time I look at African American men and how they are able to have success with hot girls despite the racism and I notice that a lot of these sorts of traits are also embodied there.
There is no doubt in my mind that regardless of how lowly thought of any race might be in a society, a guy who internalizes some of the above traits can no doubt get his share of hot girls of all races.
Turkish girls are harder for me than any other nationality.
