I've merged this thread with the overall thread we exile all these race things too. Also warned Truthtomasses over this.
Also, just want to add that the premise of this thread is very "WTF" to me.
I have never looked at an Irish American woman going for Anglo Americans or Black Americans or Filipino Americans and been like "Clearly she hates her own men, men like me." What is the thinking there? "You have to only date your co-ethnics, otherwise that means you hate your co-ethnics." That's wildly off the mark.
Among Asian American women, there's a large out-marriage push by certain ethnicities... namely Filipina Americans, Japanese Americans, and Korean Americans. They still majority marry their co-ethnics.
There are statistics on this here.
Further, while there is always some "self-race hatred" among the populations of people who date outside their racial ancestry groups, most of them are not doing so because they hate their co-ethnics. Of non-white women I've dated, only a small minority have told me anything negative about their own men, and that always reflected very poorly on them to me when I heard it. A race's men are the other side of its women, its women the other side of its men; if you're going to dump on the other side of your own coin, you're dumping on yourself.
Women, in EVERY country on the Earth, also have higher standards for their countrymen than they do for foreigners.
I discussed this 8 years ago in my article on getting foreign girls.
Local guys have to court a girl for a long time before they ever sleep together, you say? Like, months maybe? Maybe longer? Maybe get all of her friends' approval first? Maybe meet family members of hers first? Maybe even propose marriage? Doesn't matter -- you're not a local guy. Non-integration saves you from having the expectations levied upon you that get levied upon locals -- and, usually, upon more integrated men, too.
Your co-ethnic, co-national women are always going to be pickier about you because they have experience with you. The "Swedish girls are easy for every guy but Swedes", "Brazilian girls are easy for every guy but Brazilians", "American girls are easy for every guy but Americans", "Japanese girls are easy for every guy but Japanese", etc. effect exists in every country. It is ubiquitous.
It is not because they hate you.
It is because they have dated 5-10 other men like you, and that experience has led them to have a lot more expectations, and to be much pickier.
Then comes along sexy foreigner, whom she knows nothing about, and WOW! Doesn't he seem so exotic.
The same thing happens for men meeting women. "For me to date a [co-ethnic, co-national] woman, she has to be X and Y and Z."
Then in walks some exotic foreign minx, and you don't care a drop about X and Y and Z, you just want to hear her foreign purr in your bed sheets.
This whole "Most people hate all these other people" thinking, plus all this racial victim mentality stuff, it's really very draining.
Please, the next time you feel like posting a "It feels like people hate me" thread: 1.) stop. 2.) consider if there might be another explanation, other than 'hatred'. 3.) give people the benefit of the doubt, and assume the actual reason is the one that does not equal 'hatred'.
And no more of these race whining threads, please.
We already banned Altair and 3 other guys over this stuff a year back. I really don't want to see that start up again. Nobody likes it. This isn't the place for it.
Chase
