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Spike

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I work at 2 restaurants that just so happen to be very popular amongst the university kids in my town. Which means we will sometimes get some really attractive girls to come in and have a bite to eat with their friends. The second restaurant I work at unfortunately blocks my view of the girls that come in, but the first one, lets girls see me, giving them an opportunity to shoot me looks. This was one of those cases. This past Wednesday I noticed this hot 19 year old girl that was waiting for the host to sit her down. I noticed her check me out twice. I then looked down and smiled to myself. She was waiting for her friends. Once her friends came in, I notice them look over at me, so I knew they were talking about me. My plan was simple. I would wait for them to finish their meal and then as they came to the exit (there’s two. One by me and one on the other side), I would hand her a note with my name and phone number on it. The moment came. I saw them get up to go pay their bill. So I went to the back and got a pen and paper and wrote down my number and name. Unfortunately they did not leave through the exit near me, so I would not have a chance to give her the note. However we do have a back door so I went through the back and got to the parking lot. I saw them walking by to get to their car. And then said hey. They turned to look. I walked over to them and went to hand them the note but one of her friends tried to take it. Thinking it was meant for her. So I shook her off and pointed to my girl. And gave it to her. Then walked back, saying “bye”. No further words were exchanged (she later told me that as soon as I walked into the restaurant, she did a happy dance and was really hoping I didn’t see that).

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Ori is short for Oriana as I came to learn. She didn’t want to give me her full name in case I turned out to be a freak or something. But yeah we met at the restaurant. Small talk sprinkled in with some sex talk. I mentioned how I got here by Uber and she said I guess you’re stranded here now. And offered to give me a lift. She asked me where do I want to go. I said my place or your place. She said mine because as I learned, she lives with her dad. We went home and fucked for 2 rounds. I asked her later if she knew we were going to have sex. She said she told herself she wasn’t going to. Had forgotten about what I looked like. But then when she saw me. Immediately changed her mind.
 

empath

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I wonder how do you look like?

Also I know most people don't use 1-10 scale but if you were to use it?

How much would you rate yourself on 1-10 without imrpoving looks and fundamentals and after that?

What is your verbal game like?
 

KJ Francis

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I was wondering too - in this situation you are likely not dressed to the archetypes you've mentioned in the past. The girls also just casually spotted you while working, so not much nonverbal movement up close - just a quick spot from a distance in your work clothes?

so would that leave this?
-facial features / natural handsomeness
-muscles
-hair still pink?
-eyebrow piercing

But yeah we met at the restaurant. Small talk sprinkled in with some sex talk. I mentioned how I got here by Uber and she said I guess you’re stranded here now. And offered to give me a lift.
can you flesh out the date a little more?
 

Spike

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I wonder how do you look like?
I was wondering too - in this situation you are likely not dressed to the archetypes you've mentioned in the past. The girls also just casually spotted you while working, so not much nonverbal movement up close - just a quick spot from a distance in your work clothes?
I will post what I look like in the guide I’m writing. Hopefully I’ll have it done today. And yeah I was dressed to the archetype. Which is the great thing about working as a cook at a casual dining establishment. No uniform.
 

Skills

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Only nitpick is taking about playing video games... However, it seems she plays too... But for a lot of girls they hated guys they dated that were obsessed with video games...is not really a high value activity...
 

Spike

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Only nitpick is taking about playing video games... However, it seems she plays too... But for a lot of girls they hated guys they dated that were obsessed with video games...is not really a high value activity
Sorry brother but that is an outdated Gen X view. Lots of gen z girls play video games and stream on Twitch. Look up gamer girls, e girls,
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Sorry brother but that is an outdated Gen X view. Lots of gen z girls play video games and stream on Twitch. Look up gamer girls, e girls,
sorry brother but as always you are delusional, but anyways, here are statistics BASED ON ACTUAL WOMEN:



https://www.reddit.com/r/Asmongold/comments/1ez41m3

As always guys go ahead and field test putting in your tinder profile or telling women that your hobbie is video games.... go and field test for yourself
 

Ragnar

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@Spike good job with your latest lay report. you mentioned that you noticed this girl check you out TWICE. that's obviously a good sign--and also a good job on your part being able to recognize it. that's my issue--i'm awful at reading the signs women send out--but i don't think i'm alone because @Chase has an article in which he basically says most men don't see women's signs and the ones who do are the exception.
 

Spike

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sorry brother but as always you are delusional, but anyways, here are statistics BASED ON ACTUAL WOMEN:
I’m not delusional. That list doesn’t say anything about the age of the women they interviewed for that survey.
telling women that your hobbie is video games.... go and field test for yourself
This report is literally a field test of me telling a girl I play video games as a hobby lol
 

Derek da man

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i'm awful at reading the signs women send out--but i don't think i'm alone because @Chase has an article in which he basically says most men don't see women's signs and the ones who do are the exception.
I used to be also but there's some good books on it and plentiful of on line articles but for most of us that can't initially see signs you need something with practical explanations and pictures. You also need to be able to look past a girl's good looks as that can be a real distraction.

Also need to learn to not overtly scan the room all the time, you need to look around using peripheral vision as girls spot this and then avoid direct eye contact. Once you can use peripheral vision you can then accidentally on purpose make direct eye contact, smile and you're in.
 

Spike

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'm awful at reading the signs women send out
I’m not gonna lie I used to be the worst at reading signs girls throw out. I probably still am with regards to noticing subtle IOIs. The only reason I can spot them is because they’re so obvious now.where they will legit stare at you for a long time or glance at you multiple times. So if you miss the first or second time a chick checks you out, you might catch the third time. Stronger IOIs was a direct consequence of tightening up my upfront game.
 
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