The Return Of The Mack

[lceman]

bit of a dead spot in the last few days as I haven't gone out at night. Been working social circle, got a meet planned for today, done some "daygame" that hasn't really gone anywhere. No great hooks as the vibes weren't there.

I've been working text game more than the past; I used to hate the idea. However, I realized that I will love text game if I can get girls to come straight to my place instead of setting up a true date. That's my goal with texting. Also, I read one of Skills' threads and realized I can simply have fun with it instead of always trying to send the optimal text. I revamped my dating profiles as well so we'll see what comes of it.

In general, I've been over gaming girls. I get hit with fuckboy objections cause I play around too much, don't show enough genuine interest, act too aloof, pull away and make her qualify too much, etc...

I have a long way to go.

 

[lceman]

Had to reschedule my plans for last night to Friday, so I went out to the bar. I go with a friend; the bar is dead but we spot two girls I've met before. There's immediate attraction so we start hanging out. Long story short we vibe, I move us around, and eventually attempt to pull. I'm a day late and a dollar short. This chick was a party girl and I didn't manage vibes well enough.

I didn't get laid. But, I compensated quite well for my recent sticking points so I'm not too mad about it.

Such as:
found a girl I wanted and stuck with her
toned back the teasing, aloofness, pulling away MAJORLY (worked well. that stuff didn't hit)
asked them to come back with us (afterparty) and persisted
made sexual intent clear

Next time:
move faster and sell the pull better. introduce the idea on a high note, and make it a 'let's go' rather than 'are you down'
seed the pull beforehand, give my girl a heads up I want her later (use the "can I steal you tonight" line)
try to pump arousal more through sexuality (sex talk?)

note: this girl had no idea she would be getting the time of her life with a sexy dude if she came with me for the night. Work on that.

 

[lceman]

ran a solid process last night. Used "can i steal you tonight", she was excited & wanted to go, but I got cockblocked by a friend. It was her birthday; she got jealous and was probably mad that I wouldn't buy them all shots. The break point was when I went to actually pull, she talked to her friend in the bathroom, didn't come back right away, and it was wraps after that.

I'm confident that doing what I did last night has at least a 1 in 4 chance of taking her back.

Once I get this process down, next step is to up the sexy factor. Sex talk/prizing should help me with that.

 

[lceman]

still fucking up the sexual vibe. my tinder days left me with the bad habit of assuming all I need to do is chat for a bit then invite her to my place.

Even though I started out being sexy, I got sucked into unproductive conversation. Even if it was about her and me personally, it didn't lead the interaction towards a sexual ending. I invited her back of course, but no dice. The frame wasn't there. Good flirty banter does not equal sex.

I need more tools to create arousal. Luckily, I know of a cool site where a bunch of guys share their knowledge.... there's a lot to learn.

In the meantime, I'll screen more overtly and set productive frames so I get laid while I improve my game.