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This one is complicated, NEED HELP!

aliparpar

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I agree with Garrett on this. Personally, if she ignores my invitation about asking her out, it usually means she's not interested.

Also in your case, she says exactly that she wants to be friends with you going out to the hockey game. I've been there and have been able to turn myself from a friendzoned guy into a lover for a girl but it took me around 3 months to do that and by the end I had lost attraction in her.

So what I would suggest is that in your future texts try lines like what chase recommends all the time : "What's your schedule look like?" at the end of asking her out texts. That way they are less pressured to respond and would consider telling you their preferred date rather than trying to come up with the time and date themselves which they never will.

Always put their schedule in front of you first and match them with yours for setting up dates rather than forcing a free day of yours on their schedule. When you make her interested enough in you, then you can force her to make some free time for you next time.
 

The Tool

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I agree with the above comments. My bad for not including that in my advice
 

Flames

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On the subject of a girl not making further plans with you.

I'm reminded of a girl who asked 'my opinion' on wether a guy was interested. He'd asked her out and she had to cancel. When I she asked me why he hadn't contacted her again I asked if she'd made alternate plans, she said no and I said well there ya go then....
 

R12

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Yeah, I kind of figured this would happen. Its funny, before I found this site I was worried about trying to impress her. I was worried when she didnt seem to respond to my texts the way I wanted. I wanted to go out with this girl badly. Now after reading for a few days, I couldnt care less! Thanks gentlemen.
 

Garrett

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R12, I know what you mean man.

Girls Chase has changed my life in such a way where my outlook on society has done a complete 360. Once you finally "get it", this side of the fence is a lot better than following/obeying societal norms. I'm young so it wasn't hard for my views to change, but I'm so appreciative because Chase has saved me so much time, effort, energy, and heartache, and if you take time to learn, ask questions, and improve, it's totally worth it, I can vouch for that! The thing is, you have to WANT to do it, because in my opinion, it's nearly impossible to achieve a goal if you absolutely have NO interest in pursuing that goal/improving.

Cheers,
Garrett
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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