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Its Wednesday night..i go out solo again to work on approaching.
I walk around for an hour and didn't do a single approach yet. I decide to go into a boba shop. It's pretty busy.
While i'm waiting a girl comes in and waits near me. We make eye contact and she looks away. There was a perfect moment to speak to her then but I don't. Instead I wait 5 more minutes and say
Obviously I could say more but I don't because my wing walks in and I say hi to him then order. I don't continue talking to her anymore.
We go to the park. We don't approach any 2 sets but he does 1-2 solo sets.
We then follow a 2 set out of the park. They spot us walking behind them, in a empty dark street....which is obviously not good. I wait a bit until I am further ahead of them, and when I am about to say something, she says theres blood on the floor to her friend. I say "oh shit" and pretend to almost trip. This gets their attention and I ask them if they know any good bars around the area. The conversation is very platonic and one of the girls never even turns her head to talk, she keeps looking straight and walking like shes on a mission. We walk and talk for 5 more minutes and then leave the set.
We walk by barcade (a bar / arcade) and he spots a 2 set inside. Again I have to fight my brain when he ask me if i want to go in. I say "what the hell". In my previous LR, i also remember saying "what the hell" before approaching a set and that turned out into a lay. My reference experience is building.He walks straight to the girls and we stand behind them. He opens one, and I wait a bit and go in to open her friend.
We chat about some BS...Since she is from north carolina originally (lives here now) I tease her about being a trump supporter, how racially diverse it is there (sarcasm), and how shes not use to being around asian people. Then she tells me she has an asian best friend and I correctly guess hes gay (I've noticed white girls with a bestfriend thats asian is 90% of the time a gay dude).
When her friends moved out of the seat i took the opportunity to sit next to her
I do some light touching while joking around and looking at her tattoos. I take the opportunity to grab her arm to inspect the tats.
I hold good eye contact throughout the conversation
Earlier in the night at the park some gay dudes approached me very creepily and I used this to relate
I seed that I just moved to new apartment with a new rooftop that has 360 views of the city
She mentions she doesn't do casual sex anymore...I try to pace:
There's probably better frames I couldve set here...maybe talk about how important sex is in a relationship, etc...
I also did not project a higher sexual state as time went on...it was probably at a constant 3/10....
She looks at her friends and she tells me they probably want to leave soon to go to another bar...and she number closes me. I could've told her we can meet later, but i try to do this through text later. They leave and me and my wing go back on the streets.
Screenshots of text messages:
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Any advice? Would be appreciated on how I couldve isolated and pulled. Wing tried to tell them to go to our rooftop but the 3rd and always least attractive girl says no.
Im going to text her tomorrow and see if I can set up a date. Looking forward to overcoming the casual sex objection.
Me and my wing walk past a mixed set group 3 girls and 1 guy. I overhear them talking about the bar the previous set was going to go to "clockwork" and I say "did you just say clockwork?". Group opens up and at least 2 girls are receptive. We chat for a bit then leave them, to go walk to the bar. Then we end up close in front of them...i turn back and say "Are you guys following us?....you weirdos". They say yes and laugh. Theres one girl who I think gave me the "eyes" but we reach a corner and she dips out. Looking back I couldve definitely talk to her more and pulled.
I start chatting with this other girl but I needed more time alone with her. She was immersed for a bit when we talk about her growing up in Chinatown and I relate to when my parents worked there and i visited, and how everything must be different now. But we meet up with more of their friends and her attention is gone. I think she also has a thing with one of the guys we met up with. Me and my wing leave after spending a few more minutes.
I used to say i love game because nights like this....you never know where youll end up. its so fun.
I walk around for an hour and didn't do a single approach yet. I decide to go into a boba shop. It's pretty busy.
While i'm waiting a girl comes in and waits near me. We make eye contact and she looks away. There was a perfect moment to speak to her then but I don't. Instead I wait 5 more minutes and say
Me: "they are pretty backed up...Ive been here for 10 minutes and havent ordered"
Her: Oh really, wow.
Obviously I could say more but I don't because my wing walks in and I say hi to him then order. I don't continue talking to her anymore.
We go to the park. We don't approach any 2 sets but he does 1-2 solo sets.
We then follow a 2 set out of the park. They spot us walking behind them, in a empty dark street....which is obviously not good. I wait a bit until I am further ahead of them, and when I am about to say something, she says theres blood on the floor to her friend. I say "oh shit" and pretend to almost trip. This gets their attention and I ask them if they know any good bars around the area. The conversation is very platonic and one of the girls never even turns her head to talk, she keeps looking straight and walking like shes on a mission. We walk and talk for 5 more minutes and then leave the set.
We walk by barcade (a bar / arcade) and he spots a 2 set inside. Again I have to fight my brain when he ask me if i want to go in. I say "what the hell". In my previous LR, i also remember saying "what the hell" before approaching a set and that turned out into a lay. My reference experience is building.He walks straight to the girls and we stand behind them. He opens one, and I wait a bit and go in to open her friend.
Opener:
Me: Is there more to this place or is this just it? Someone told me there was that game, with the ball you roll...you know what I mean?
Her:No this is it...Yeah I know that game. Uhm....what is it called again?? Bowling? No... I can't remember
We chat about some BS...Since she is from north carolina originally (lives here now) I tease her about being a trump supporter, how racially diverse it is there (sarcasm), and how shes not use to being around asian people. Then she tells me she has an asian best friend and I correctly guess hes gay (I've noticed white girls with a bestfriend thats asian is 90% of the time a gay dude).
When her friends moved out of the seat i took the opportunity to sit next to her
I do some light touching while joking around and looking at her tattoos. I take the opportunity to grab her arm to inspect the tats.
I hold good eye contact throughout the conversation
Earlier in the night at the park some gay dudes approached me very creepily and I used this to relate
Me: You know..early tonight some gay dudes approached me and they were very creepy about it. I realized thats how girls must feel when guys approach them most of the time...
Her: Yeah that happens to me all the time...
Me: You seem to be the more rationale and level headed of the group...
Her: Yeah..i am
Me: Your like the mom then....
Her: yeah...but im tired of being the mom
Me: yeah..you probably sometimes just want to let go of that responsibility right?
Her: Yeah...totally
I seed that I just moved to new apartment with a new rooftop that has 360 views of the city
She mentions she doesn't do casual sex anymore...I try to pace:
Me: Yeah me neither...when I want to sleep with someone, its someone I can see myself seeing again...
Her: Yeah....
Me: And its not that I don't like sex...but I only want to have good sex....
Me: And for good sex there needs to be a connection you know?
Her: Yeah I agree...
There's probably better frames I couldve set here...maybe talk about how important sex is in a relationship, etc...
I also did not project a higher sexual state as time went on...it was probably at a constant 3/10....
She looks at her friends and she tells me they probably want to leave soon to go to another bar...and she number closes me. I could've told her we can meet later, but i try to do this through text later. They leave and me and my wing go back on the streets.
Screenshots of text messages:

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Any advice? Would be appreciated on how I couldve isolated and pulled. Wing tried to tell them to go to our rooftop but the 3rd and always least attractive girl says no.
Im going to text her tomorrow and see if I can set up a date. Looking forward to overcoming the casual sex objection.
Me and my wing walk past a mixed set group 3 girls and 1 guy. I overhear them talking about the bar the previous set was going to go to "clockwork" and I say "did you just say clockwork?". Group opens up and at least 2 girls are receptive. We chat for a bit then leave them, to go walk to the bar. Then we end up close in front of them...i turn back and say "Are you guys following us?....you weirdos". They say yes and laugh. Theres one girl who I think gave me the "eyes" but we reach a corner and she dips out. Looking back I couldve definitely talk to her more and pulled.
I start chatting with this other girl but I needed more time alone with her. She was immersed for a bit when we talk about her growing up in Chinatown and I relate to when my parents worked there and i visited, and how everything must be different now. But we meet up with more of their friends and her attention is gone. I think she also has a thing with one of the guys we met up with. Me and my wing leave after spending a few more minutes.
I used to say i love game because nights like this....you never know where youll end up. its so fun.
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