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Oh, interesting.
At first I thought this was just a dude married to a porn actress. I was going to be like, “How’s it any different from swinging / open marriage? Some folks just like it that way.”
But actually it wasn’t that at all.
Seems like the gist is:
www.dailymail.co.uk
I know 100% how this went:
It looks exactly like the Will and Jada shit, with Jada going off publicly about how it was having her other man, and how it was justified, and Will just doing his, “Yeah, she’s right, and I had to accept it, it makes our marriage stronger,” prisoner act.
But, yeah.
If you think it’s hot watching your chick get railed, you’re a cuck. That’s what a cuckold is: a guy who gets off sexually on watching a woman who is (supposedly) ‘his’ get taken by another man.
I’ve known dudes who did open relationships and talked to them about it and the normal thing there is the guy just doesn’t think about the chick getting fucked. Like, it is an abstract thing. It happens ‘off camera’ for him and sort of isn’t really real. I had a buddy who was in an open relationship, and his chick once somehow hit her phone inside her purse while she was getting plowed by another dude and dialed my buddy. Buddy admitted he’d never really thought about it, like THOUGHT about her getting stuffed silly by some other dude’s cock, before, but sitting there listening to her moan and get railed made him suddenly feel quite bad (he got over it though and went back to not thinking about it).
(side note: I’m still convinced she did that on purpose. That chick was trying to lock him down… jealousy plot lines work, just not on him)
Regardless, the situation with this Adam dude is totally different from an actual open relationship, or an established relationship where he entered into it the chick already banging tons of dudes and just continuing to do that because that’s her job and they’re both like whatever, she bangs her dudes and I bang my chicks and that’s our work. Not surprised people are flipping out seeing that whole thing aired publicly.
This chick publicly humiliated her man, and the guy just bent over and took it.
I will tell you one thing here... she is just getting started, too.
This chick is going to eat him alive.
Chase
At first I thought this was just a dude married to a porn actress. I was going to be like, “How’s it any different from swinging / open marriage? Some folks just like it that way.”
But actually it wasn’t that at all.
Seems like the gist is:
- The two are a porn couple. Been together 7 years
- Dude has shagged hundreds of women together with her
- She’s never shagged another dude since with him
- He at last gave her the green light to let another dude shag her
- At first he felt odd about it / felt jealous
- Wife talked about how she was “pretty sore” for a few days after getting railed by another dude because his dick was bigger than her husband's (lel)
- Now husband says it is “hot” watching his wife get shagged by another dude and “if that makes me a cuck, so be it!”
- Wife is now saying she wants a threesome with two men
Adam22's wife says she was 'in pain for days' after doing sex scene
Adam22's porn star wife Lena has revealed she was in 'pain for days' after doing a sex scene with another man- with the couple sharing that they may have a threesome in the future.
DailyMail said:
I know 100% how this went:
CHICK: [mountains of drama because she’s let him fuck SO many girls and he isn’t letting her fuck ONE guy! WHY does he have to be so insecure about this? They’re in PORN! PLUS it’s going to be such a great business decision! After all, it’s JUST work! SHE doesn’t get insecure about it with HIM! Why can’t he support her in her career?]
DUDE: [finally caves]
CHICK: [beaming/proud, bragging about how sore she was to advertise to the world she just cucked the shit out of her husband]
DUDE: [either needs to accept cuckdom or have a crisis in his marriage. Solution: accepts cuckdom, starts bragging about it and defending wife as she brags about getting plowed]
It looks exactly like the Will and Jada shit, with Jada going off publicly about how it was having her other man, and how it was justified, and Will just doing his, “Yeah, she’s right, and I had to accept it, it makes our marriage stronger,” prisoner act.
But, yeah.
If you think it’s hot watching your chick get railed, you’re a cuck. That’s what a cuckold is: a guy who gets off sexually on watching a woman who is (supposedly) ‘his’ get taken by another man.
I’ve known dudes who did open relationships and talked to them about it and the normal thing there is the guy just doesn’t think about the chick getting fucked. Like, it is an abstract thing. It happens ‘off camera’ for him and sort of isn’t really real. I had a buddy who was in an open relationship, and his chick once somehow hit her phone inside her purse while she was getting plowed by another dude and dialed my buddy. Buddy admitted he’d never really thought about it, like THOUGHT about her getting stuffed silly by some other dude’s cock, before, but sitting there listening to her moan and get railed made him suddenly feel quite bad (he got over it though and went back to not thinking about it).
(side note: I’m still convinced she did that on purpose. That chick was trying to lock him down… jealousy plot lines work, just not on him)
Regardless, the situation with this Adam dude is totally different from an actual open relationship, or an established relationship where he entered into it the chick already banging tons of dudes and just continuing to do that because that’s her job and they’re both like whatever, she bangs her dudes and I bang my chicks and that’s our work. Not surprised people are flipping out seeing that whole thing aired publicly.
This chick publicly humiliated her man, and the guy just bent over and took it.
I will tell you one thing here... she is just getting started, too.
This chick is going to eat him alive.
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you see it too.I won’t lie this whole train wreck broke the camels back for me.
For anything serious or requiring any sort of provision or emotional support beyond your run of the mill “MLTR” relationship, I’m now team one-sided monogamy.
FUCK THAT.
I watched the whole interview, it was too intriguing.
What stood out to me was that they both admitted that Lena had wanted to retire, have some more children and raise them at home, but it was Adam that turned down her offer because he wasn’t ready yet (i’m assuming to bang more girls in front her relentlessly).
Seems she felt slighted by this and decided to play ball
And she totally owns the frame now..
Had the man agreeing to do an anal dp in the interview right after stating his “no anal” rule.
Had the man apologizing for cheating early on in the relationship.
Was reassuring the man that he wasn’t a cuck all with a smirk on her face.
Had the bull on camera say he personally wouldn’t do what Adam did..
RIP
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The dynamics of couples in adult industry, strippers, escorts is a bit different... he met her and married her as a porn start... i dont know the dude nor have followed the story... a lot if these women will also screen for dudes that will be ok with this... a lot of this women also have high srx drives were you are actually feel relieved bringing dudes in.... this does not make sense for a lot of the population...is not your typical marriage i know couples like this...
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That's if the internet doesn't get to him first lol. The absolute hazing he's taking from basically every man, child, virgin and even simps is absolutely hilarious to me. When you're getting dumped on by a simp, and rightfully so, then well... this dude has got a problem lmao
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I won’t lie this whole train wreck broke the camels back for me.
For anything serious or requiring any sort of provision or emotional support beyond your run of the mill “MLTR” relationship, I’m now team one-sided monogamy.
FUCK THAT.
I watched the whole interview, it was too intriguing.
What stood out to me was that they both admitted that Lena had wanted to retire, have some more children and raise them at home, but it was Adam that turned down her offer because he wasn’t ready yet (i’m assuming to bang more girls in front her relentlessly).
Seems she felt slighted by this and decided to play ball
And she totally owns the frame now..
Had the man agreeing to do an anal dp in the interview right after stating his “no anal” rule.
Had the man apologizing for cheating early on in the relationship.
Was reassuring the man that he wasn’t a cuck all with a smirk on her face.
Had the bull on camera say he personally wouldn’t do what Adam did..
RIP
Hot damn.
I just skimmed a couple articles. But if it could possibly be any clearer, that video interview does it.
Good read on the dude not being willing to give up the other chicks and make her a legit wife and the woman just ratcheting it up into "two can play that game" territory.
It's the ol' "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" in evidence for the world to see.
You feel kinda bad for him, but it's hard not to laugh, too. Dude's laying in the bed he made. He declined to satisfy her needs, couldn't keep her feeling happy with the arrangement, then when she pressed him for permission he gave it, then he went into the cope and told himself he actually liked it.
Like every tragicomedy, the situation is pretty much always of the victim's own making.
He'll double down, most likely.
The normal human response to getting laughed at, insulted, and pilloried is to dig in deeper, rather than wave the white flag.
50/50 odds she's pegging this guy by the end of the year and he's talking about how much he it's expanded his horizons and gotten him in touch with his sensitive side
I wouldn't be surprised if this dynamic becomes more common in the coming years, as men continue to become emasculated and women continue to gain socioeconomic power and status. Adam22, Sneako, and Destiny are all huge podcasters with young audiences and they're all cucks.
If you mix the factors of a progressive cultural frame of "men are trash" (which basically states that men are guilty of original sin and need to repent.. guilt and shame are powerful psychological control mechanisms), increased timidity post Me-Too, increasing percentages of sexless young men, economic stratification, chemicals lowering testosterone and sperm count, and porn, coupled with encouraged female promiscuity and socioeconomic prowess.. cucking seems to be one logical outcome.
My main curiosity is if women would actually like this, as on an evolutionary level it would be a good deal for them, at the expense of the genetic success of their boyfriends and husbands.
If you mix the factors of a progressive cultural frame of "men are trash" (which basically states that men are guilty of original sin and need to repent.. guilt and shame are powerful psychological control mechanisms), increased timidity post Me-Too, increasing percentages of sexless young men, economic stratification, chemicals lowering testosterone and sperm count, and porn, coupled with encouraged female promiscuity and socioeconomic prowess.. cucking seems to be one logical outcome.
My main curiosity is if women would actually like this, as on an evolutionary level it would be a good deal for them, at the expense of the genetic success of their boyfriends and husbands.
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wird thing is i can relate with this,i think I like fucking new girls,but after the first day or two what usually happpens is I am bored of sex but the girl still wants to fuck.
high sex drive girls inevitably just end up unsatisfied around me.
after a 1 month relationship i find myself pushing rope to the point where I dont know if i would mind it terribly if another man helped me out.
i would probbaly get jeoulous though.
actually how do polygamous people with a harem solve this problem?
i am 35 and if a girl wants to be fucked 6 times a day its gonna be a problem
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Yea also guys need more variety we get more of a coolidge effect faster than women, there are times you feel like sex is work or i have to, novelty dies...process not as bad with women...worst older guys natural not on trt...something else jws posted a study how men got more exited seeing girl being bang by other dude, some shit like that... the dumb mistake it was he let a driend, to close to home that was stupid...
Couldn't all the things with genders, sexuality etc be attributed to the growing male population % in the world? In the past, cos of all the ways guys can die keeping numbers down compared to girls, it almost made sense for marriage or even men having multiple wifes.
Now that the tide has turned, if countries didn't start emasculating men, normalising trans and things like this story, then there would be a lot of violent men fighting each other to death for pussy haha.
Now that the tide has turned, if countries didn't start emasculating men, normalising trans and things like this story, then there would be a lot of violent men fighting each other to death for pussy haha.
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@Kent,
Technically-speaking, the woman wins either way.
Strong, sexy dude who can hold it down and provide a good relationship for her without ending up a beta cuck? She wins the jackpot.
Weak-ass dude who lets her cuck him, then she goes and sucks up Chad's seed on the side? She still wins.
Anecdotally, the chicks I see living the double-life where they have a weak dude at home and strong dudes on the side get worn. Just from a psychological perspective, it is going to wear on you, knowing that you are cutting short the biological imperative of someone who cares for you and is loyal to you. I'd never want to have a chick who'd done that to a dude... even if you know you can control her (and unless she was BPD or something really nuts, I'd be able to), you just don't want that kind of baggage or precedent around you.
You see a lot of stuff like what you see with Jada, or the chick in this thread, where they are acting smug, smiling, but it is covering up a deeper hurt they have, because they're unhappy with the main guy, and also unhappy with who they have to be around him (i.e., wearing the pants, being the 'woman scorned' trope, etc.).
There just aren't enough strong, solid dudes in the world for every woman to have one. Some of the dudes who are strong and solid don't want to do committed LTRs, either!
So there are a lot of gals out there forced to settle for a softer/weaker dude... and then decide whether they want to stay just with that weak dude being unhappy, or have to screw the weak dude over, get sucked into these games, etc.
@Skills,
There's research showing that when a man suspects his woman of infidelity, he fucks her harder, has a stronger orgasm, and ejaculates a bigger load, farther. It's basically "if she's cheating, sex is better." The reason for it of course is sperm competition... gotta scoop the other dude's jizz out of her and replace it with yours!
There's other research showing that the more a man suspects a woman may be sleeping with other men, the more inclined he is to want to eat her out. Kind of counterintuitive... lol... "Whoa, more dicks in there? Now I REALLY wanna lick it!" Maybe guys are sniffing around for dick-scent or something. The psychology is a bit curious...
@orkie123,
I'm sure that plays a part in it.
There's an incel --> tranny highway where these guys who get too lonely start hanging out on the tranny corners of the web, realizing they can finally get some attention from someone if they become a tranny. Then they start dressing like women and begin getting attention and like that more than being lonely.
There's also the fact that when you have too many women, a bunch of those men will turn weak for women, and start going into white knight overdrive for women to try to weasel their way into getting a woman that way. Society is filled with white knights enabling weird behavior from women that in a more masculine society would be unacceptable. e.g., women crying over this or that social issue, insisting that we have to do X thing... in a manly society guys would just laugh and call that ridiculous. In a white knight society women's concerns about social issues must be given equal voice to men's (the white knights will see to it! They will pick up women's causes and champion them themselves).
THAT SAID... there are much larger overabundances of men in India and China, and both countries are a lot more masculine than the West right now. The gay/tranny/feminist stuff is totally banned from the air waves in China. You can't have it on the TV, movies, Internet, etc. There are still gay folks and gay bars but it's out of sight and not at all normalized. India isn't as tightly controlled as China... it's got a historical eunuch caste (hijra... basically: trannies)... etc... but still a lot less of this stuff than in the West.
So, it is certainly not ALL attributable to "too many men." There are other things going on.
Chase
Technically-speaking, the woman wins either way.
Strong, sexy dude who can hold it down and provide a good relationship for her without ending up a beta cuck? She wins the jackpot.
Weak-ass dude who lets her cuck him, then she goes and sucks up Chad's seed on the side? She still wins.
Anecdotally, the chicks I see living the double-life where they have a weak dude at home and strong dudes on the side get worn. Just from a psychological perspective, it is going to wear on you, knowing that you are cutting short the biological imperative of someone who cares for you and is loyal to you. I'd never want to have a chick who'd done that to a dude... even if you know you can control her (and unless she was BPD or something really nuts, I'd be able to), you just don't want that kind of baggage or precedent around you.
You see a lot of stuff like what you see with Jada, or the chick in this thread, where they are acting smug, smiling, but it is covering up a deeper hurt they have, because they're unhappy with the main guy, and also unhappy with who they have to be around him (i.e., wearing the pants, being the 'woman scorned' trope, etc.).
There just aren't enough strong, solid dudes in the world for every woman to have one. Some of the dudes who are strong and solid don't want to do committed LTRs, either!
So there are a lot of gals out there forced to settle for a softer/weaker dude... and then decide whether they want to stay just with that weak dude being unhappy, or have to screw the weak dude over, get sucked into these games, etc.
@Skills,
There's research showing that when a man suspects his woman of infidelity, he fucks her harder, has a stronger orgasm, and ejaculates a bigger load, farther. It's basically "if she's cheating, sex is better." The reason for it of course is sperm competition... gotta scoop the other dude's jizz out of her and replace it with yours!
There's other research showing that the more a man suspects a woman may be sleeping with other men, the more inclined he is to want to eat her out. Kind of counterintuitive... lol... "Whoa, more dicks in there? Now I REALLY wanna lick it!" Maybe guys are sniffing around for dick-scent or something. The psychology is a bit curious...
@orkie123,
I'm sure that plays a part in it.
There's an incel --> tranny highway where these guys who get too lonely start hanging out on the tranny corners of the web, realizing they can finally get some attention from someone if they become a tranny. Then they start dressing like women and begin getting attention and like that more than being lonely.
There's also the fact that when you have too many women, a bunch of those men will turn weak for women, and start going into white knight overdrive for women to try to weasel their way into getting a woman that way. Society is filled with white knights enabling weird behavior from women that in a more masculine society would be unacceptable. e.g., women crying over this or that social issue, insisting that we have to do X thing... in a manly society guys would just laugh and call that ridiculous. In a white knight society women's concerns about social issues must be given equal voice to men's (the white knights will see to it! They will pick up women's causes and champion them themselves).
THAT SAID... there are much larger overabundances of men in India and China, and both countries are a lot more masculine than the West right now. The gay/tranny/feminist stuff is totally banned from the air waves in China. You can't have it on the TV, movies, Internet, etc. There are still gay folks and gay bars but it's out of sight and not at all normalized. India isn't as tightly controlled as China... it's got a historical eunuch caste (hijra... basically: trannies)... etc... but still a lot less of this stuff than in the West.
So, it is certainly not ALL attributable to "too many men." There are other things going on.
Chase
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What stood out to me was that they both admitted that Lena had wanted to retire, have some more children and raise them at home, but it was Adam that turned down her offer because he wasn’t ready yet (i’m assuming to bang more girls in front her relentlessly).
Seems she felt slighted by this and decided to play ball
Do you think introducing threesomes into a monogamous relationship (with someone you might want to have kids with) is unhealthy and ultimately leads to the girl feeling its unfair and start pushing for another guy?
I've had multiple threesomes with an ex gf before but never thought about out future like that to care but i also never cave in for letting her have sex with another guy.
If i started threesomes with my current gf (she has already verbalized she wants to try) i would never agree to open it up to another man. BUT , will it be a lingering idea in her head? Cause having threesomes with her is not really that important to me
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IMO you can have threesomes with your lady. That’s not an issue. Your woman might even claim it’s “unfair”. That’s not an issue either.
The issue is the fact that a man feels he must comply with his woman’s ask to even the scoreboard.
In a situation like that (if you’re not cool with your women getting bonked by another peen and remaining with you, that is) you simply let her know that you’re not a fan of that behaviour, but she’s welcome to find any of the growing number of willing cuckolds out there and build a happy relationship with them.
Adam22, Will Smith and the others, failed to offer their women consequences. Instead choosing to comply rather than own their ability to walk. They have hell to pay as a result.
Don’t be afraid to walk away from a woman, and you shouldn’t have these issues..
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I cant imagine being a man who would cuck themselves like that. I know a woman can slowly over the years wear a man down, but how can men with so many options and probably so many hot chicks flooding their DMs (like adam22 and will) ever allow themselves to be cucked like that? Especially doing it all in public??
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Yeah I would elaborate a bit more on this
The main issue with the Adam22 situation is the bait and switch. He married her with the expectation of having a threesome swinging one way setup. He had no intentions of his woman fucking other men when he married her
For me personally I could care less what a woman I'm seeing is doing outside me because I'm just her lover. But if she wants me to be in a provider role, birth any children and give guidance, there's definitely going to be way more restrictions on what she does with her pussy.
I don't care if it's "not fair"... what is not fair is a man having to provide for a woman while she publicly humiliates him
Adam22 did not put a price for his leadership. Women need guidelines and boundaries even in open relationships and guys that do it like a free for all always end with a bad deal at the end of the day
He is obviously not happy with the deal and she is only going to escalate the situation further until he gives her what she wants... which is ironically to be a stay at home wife... OR until he is so embarrassed that he has to break up with her and give her the freedom to find a man that's more in line with her current values
Genius move on her part and I hope other men can learn from this. Because most men play the short game while women play it long
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If i were to hedge a guess, i’d say their relationships being public had a big part to do with it.I cant imagine being a man who would cuck themselves like that. I know a woman can slowly over the years wear a man down, but how can men with so many options and probably so many hot chicks flooding their DMs (like adam22 and will) ever allow themselves to be cucked like that? Especially doing it all in public??
They’d rather be cucked and embarrassed publicly than have their woman kick up a fuss publicly, have their name dragged publicly as misogynistic and patriarchal for not letting their woman do as they do.. and then have an equally public break up…
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I cant imagine being a man who would cuck themselves like that. I know a woman can slowly over the years wear a man down, but how can men with so many options and probably so many hot chicks flooding their DMs (like adam22 and will) ever allow themselves to be cucked like that? Especially doing it all in public??
It simple... investment and sunk cost fallacy at it's finest
She was his dream girl and he also had a kid with her. Guys like Adam22 have massive egos and hate looking like failures. I mean just look at his social media campaign
He is looking for validation that he is doing the right thing and he is surrounded by "YES" men that keep feeding him validation. His ego can't accept he is the one down position so he's having massive cope rn
A lot of men have issues leaving bad relationships because they don't want to accept it failed
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It’s funny. Men seem to forget that they can set a price on their provision and that fidelity is far from an unreasonable price to set for it…
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i see, but i am confused, so she was a porn start only female situations??? or did he married her and do porn with dudes and does not count?
i thought it was the second scenario... my point is she was banging dudes as a porn start, or i am confused...
