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I was listening to Tucker Max's podcast on Tinder (The podcast sucks. The only reason I listen to it is cause its kind of entertaining. lol) Basically, his theory was that you really didn't have to do anything on Tinder. You could just ask her out for coffee and you're good. The reason being that just her swiping right meant that she's already interested in you. So his idea for an opener which was supposedly "field tested" was this:
You: Coffee or Ice Cream? <---This can be any two low-commitment, public places. So, it could be bubble tea, brunch, sushi etc. Basically any of the type of dates GC teaches.
Her: [She answers]
You: Cool, let's meet up at x place for [Whatever her answer to the question was]
So it would look like this:
You: Coffee or Ice cream?
her: Ice cream!
You: Ok, cool lets meet up at Baskin robbins next to Fred Mayer at 5:00?
In practice, this didn't work very well. Usually, once I actually propose meeting up, she either stopped replying, gives a non-commital answer like "maybe" or avoids the question entirely. However, I did notice that the opener itself worked very well. The opener "Ice Cream or Coffee?
" had a very high return rate (about 75% of the girls replied). My issue is that I don't really know how to turn this into a convo that goes anywhere. Any ideas?
You: Coffee or Ice Cream? <---This can be any two low-commitment, public places. So, it could be bubble tea, brunch, sushi etc. Basically any of the type of dates GC teaches.
Her: [She answers]
You: Cool, let's meet up at x place for [Whatever her answer to the question was]
So it would look like this:
You: Coffee or Ice cream?
her: Ice cream!
You: Ok, cool lets meet up at Baskin robbins next to Fred Mayer at 5:00?
In practice, this didn't work very well. Usually, once I actually propose meeting up, she either stopped replying, gives a non-commital answer like "maybe" or avoids the question entirely. However, I did notice that the opener itself worked very well. The opener "Ice Cream or Coffee?