Ye I feel you, but you don't know if she's really playing games or if she legit has a bunch of problems she can't get over to go and meet you. People are complicated. All you see on your screen, is your interaction with her, but she's got a whole life, not only the other guys trying their luck with her, but her job/school, her family, her other duties or whatever.
It's fine to delete a girls number and move on if that's what you wanna do, but I think you're being maybe a bit too rigid on how you play the game. If you're unexperienced and just want to get a general point of view with women and some (or a lot) of lays quickly, that's totally fine, and maybe even the best approach. But later down the line, if you really wanna get with some specific women, you're going to be a bit more flexible, willing to have more patience, to put a bit more effort in some interactions.
I wrote a post on a journal as an answer, but I think it explains what I'm talking about better, and it's something I've been thinking about lately and it's been showing some potential for me, at least: being more flexible.
correct the reason why you don't cut numbers, is cause is a retarded strategy.....
here is the difference though, this is totally off topic, the op title is off topic too cause is a different issue but why is retarded to cut numbers i argue this with even advance dudes....
player with flawed strategy
-Guys meet girls gets number
- guys gets frustrated cause girl is not giving him anything, usually bad texting, or girl no there in that period of life, or neediness or maybe she is not into the dude....
- dude deletes number cause he can not control himself emotionally if he see the number...
^ out of 100 girls sample size lets assume he just lost 100 girls...
Player with right strategy
- guys meet girls
- she is not giving him anything...
- he does not text but keeps the number
many outcomes:
1.- if the dude was super needy or in my case not getting investment i am used to and withdraw, she may feel this and once in a blue move she will re-engage. (this has happened to me more times than i count on, and my current main)... so if i deleted the number i would not be with her right now..
2.- she may be entertaining other prospect that she has higher on her on interest, so she is giving them priority.... If this fails, she will reasses priorities and be like "shit i made a mistake the dude that i did not give the priority may have been a better choice"
3.- you may run into her at a club or any other place, and now she sees you different, change perception...
4.- she may have forgotten about you and you ping her and now she has a state change, and at that point of her life she is interested...
^ you get my point..... there are many more but enough.... out of 100 girls you block or deleted maybe you can get 10 to be conservative maybe more.... is it better 10 or 0....
again blocking is a retarded strategy makes 0 sense... I have google voice i just keep the numbers and don't text them simple...If is an issue of phone capacity....
back to the op, the girl lost interest due to neediness or whatever reason it does not matter.... All this let me earn her back strategies are flawed..... Radio silence (no contact) move on, most times they will ping back at some time if that is done right... I had gfs in the past were like this radio silence, they come bag, even beg for me to take them back (which is also a flawed strategy), but some of you need to get women it did not work out back so you can experience what i am saying... better to move on, unless there was some type of friction, like she moved and that cause the end etc... super special circumstance...
