I want to note that I have another uncle who divorce my auntie.
Let me put it this way. If we as guys don't try to somewhat "valuable", we kinda get pushed to the side. Whether that is money or kids love Playstation 5 but you hate it, then you not going to go far in life.
It's a challenge to always have what people want, even something small like knowing what your grandkids are doing (if you have them later on)
Anyway,
My auntie was super loyal to him. She was a very nice and pleasant auntie. I met her outside and she was very disappointed when he was planning to divorce her.
She even surrender to consider being him having 2 wifes.
That's the thing about religion and Asian culture.
5th dimensional chess but nowhere close to Saudi Arabia and North Korea. Things get crazy over there.
It's a "value" thing, despite whatever they say.
Not judging my uncle with 3 wives for planning to send her to nursing home.
But they broke the bubble completely that my religion and culture is better than the West.
At least that's what the sentiment kinda feels while growing up around Asia.