Hey Guys,
update here.
i just saw this 40 year old chick last night, and she took me out to dinner after we banged, she flattered me the whole evening with huge compliments and told me twice that she wanted to introduce me to her friends.
Then she said if I can block a Sunday out of my schedule so she can sleep with me etc
when she asked me ‘ if you want you can meet my best friend and we can have dinner with her ‘ I replied ‘ yeah .. why not ( with a somewhat bored tonality ) the implication being that how come she wants me to play the boyfriend if she still wants other dicks ?
Of course while I was fucking her and she was orgasming I tried the ol trick ‘ tell me that your pussy is mine ‘
but it did not work.
I also slapped her and she said ‘ don’t slap me too much - which I ignored ‘ implying other men might bang her.
feels like she wants me to play sexy boyfriend while experimenting on the side.
i think I will slowly decrease investment , disappear from her life now and IF she contacts me again In a couple weeks and proposes me that dinner, I’m wondering.. shall I go ?
Or tell her, look I can come this time but in general this is only something I do with girlfriends ? In a very lighthearted tone, almost bored.
also.. for the exit phase : would you rather disappear with an ultimatum where you say ‘ look I like you but this ain’t for me, I’d rather set you free to pursue your dreams of being wild and free. ‘
consider as well that she sees me as this playboy who might leave her just because she is older, so I don’t know.. if that’s a really issue or classic female bullshit, but if it was an issue maybe addressing it in the ultimatum ?
the alternative is simply disappearing and telling her this by text if she asks me out.
update here.
i just saw this 40 year old chick last night, and she took me out to dinner after we banged, she flattered me the whole evening with huge compliments and told me twice that she wanted to introduce me to her friends.
Then she said if I can block a Sunday out of my schedule so she can sleep with me etc
when she asked me ‘ if you want you can meet my best friend and we can have dinner with her ‘ I replied ‘ yeah .. why not ( with a somewhat bored tonality ) the implication being that how come she wants me to play the boyfriend if she still wants other dicks ?
Of course while I was fucking her and she was orgasming I tried the ol trick ‘ tell me that your pussy is mine ‘
but it did not work.
I also slapped her and she said ‘ don’t slap me too much - which I ignored ‘ implying other men might bang her.
feels like she wants me to play sexy boyfriend while experimenting on the side.
i think I will slowly decrease investment , disappear from her life now and IF she contacts me again In a couple weeks and proposes me that dinner, I’m wondering.. shall I go ?
Or tell her, look I can come this time but in general this is only something I do with girlfriends ? In a very lighthearted tone, almost bored.
also.. for the exit phase : would you rather disappear with an ultimatum where you say ‘ look I like you but this ain’t for me, I’d rather set you free to pursue your dreams of being wild and free. ‘
consider as well that she sees me as this playboy who might leave her just because she is older, so I don’t know.. if that’s a really issue or classic female bullshit, but if it was an issue maybe addressing it in the ultimatum ?
the alternative is simply disappearing and telling her this by text if she asks me out.
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