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Approach 13 girls.
Practice: Hard push on the girls saying "yes"
Aim: Phone numbers for dates.
Using this rule: Blonde or approach invitation.
2
Girl sitting outdoor. Giving approach invitation.
Me: Hey, quick question. Are you single?
Her: Yes
Me: You're lucky, I'm here.
Her: Why?
Then I sat down next to her (locked in).
Me: Anyway, I'm _____
Her: I'm _____, nice to meet you.
Shaking hands.
Me: You just done class?
Her: No, I'm not a student here. I'm a Catholic church missionary.
Religious girl.
Me: Oh, what are you doing here?
Her: We have a convention, so I'm here to meet the others.
Me: _____, what are you doing in free time?
Better to get off the religious topic asap.
Her: I'm doing calligraphy. You know, the ..... (she put her hand to motion writing)
Me: I have bad handwriting
Her: (laugh)
Me: What makes you get into calligraphy?
Her: It's beautiful, ..... (I didn't remember what she said)
Me: You ever going to any crazy adventure before?
Her: Not much
Me: Let's go on one. We should grab a coffee sometimes
Her: Thank you, but I'm serving God.
Me: .... (trying to think a response)
Her: But you're very courage. Most other guys don't do it. Thank you very much. I appreciate it.
I didn't know why she launched into this. I ejected.
3
Girl in the elevator, I had to move fast.
Me: Hey, quick question. Are you single?
Her: Yes
Me: Great, I'm _____
Her: I'm _____, nice to meet you
Shaking hand.
Me: You just done class?
Her: No, I'm not a student here. I'm a Catholic church missionary.
Me: Well, I heard that they have a convention here.
Elevator opened.
Me: Anyways, let's grab a coffee sometimes.
Her: I don't really know you.
I grabbed her shoulder
Me: That's why we need to know each other.
Her: ....
She was at the door. I hesitated for half a second, and she went away.
13
Girl sitting on the hall.
Me: Hey, quick question. Are you single?
Her: Yes I am
Big grin => good sign.
Me: You're lucky, I'm here.
Chase frame repartee.
Her: Nice to meet you.
Then I sat down next to her (locked in).
Me: I'm ______
Her: I'm ______
Me: _____, you're going to eat?
Singular Flow.
Her: I'm waiting for my friends. She will come in 5 minutes.
Good sign. She gave me the logistics.
Me: _____, what're you doing in free time?
Her: I don't have a lot of free time. Just studying .... but if I have free time, I'd hang out with friends.
Me: You have midterm next week?
Her: Yeah, I have one. How about you?
Me: I'm done this week, so I'm free. What your major?
Her: Political Science. How about you?
Me: Computer Science.
Her: Tough one.
Me: Why political science, not something like .... history for example
Her: I like political science more. It's very cool when you're studying it.
Me: I've taken a political science class before ...
Then we talk a little bit about it.
I should have asked what she want to do in the future.
Me: You ever going to any crazy adventure before?
Her: Sometimes
Me: Let's grab a coffee sometimes.
Her: I can't. I'm too busy studying for midterm.
Me: After midterm probably you're free.
Her: Maybe.
She deflected the push.
Me: Let's grab a coffee then.
Her: I have the paper, work, study. I appreciate it, thanks anyway.
She was about to quit. I persisted a little bit more but failed.
I noticed a habit: Every time I closed with "we should grab a coffee sometimes," I grabbed her shoulder and looked into her eyes with the "hunter going for the kill" gaze.
What I should have done: Casually grab her hand, and close. Also touch her sooner.
The problem: When I proposed a date, she gave an objection.
Hard push didn't work.
Try this next time: When I meet with an objection, don't push. Re-frame positively to make her laugh, then building more comfort, and close again.
Tomorrow: When meet an objection, re-frame it positively.
Practice: Hard push on the girls saying "yes"
Aim: Phone numbers for dates.
Using this rule: Blonde or approach invitation.
2
Girl sitting outdoor. Giving approach invitation.
Me: Hey, quick question. Are you single?
Her: Yes
Me: You're lucky, I'm here.
Her: Why?
Then I sat down next to her (locked in).
Me: Anyway, I'm _____
Her: I'm _____, nice to meet you.
Shaking hands.
Me: You just done class?
Her: No, I'm not a student here. I'm a Catholic church missionary.
Religious girl.
Me: Oh, what are you doing here?
Her: We have a convention, so I'm here to meet the others.
Me: _____, what are you doing in free time?
Better to get off the religious topic asap.
Her: I'm doing calligraphy. You know, the ..... (she put her hand to motion writing)
Me: I have bad handwriting
Her: (laugh)
Me: What makes you get into calligraphy?
Her: It's beautiful, ..... (I didn't remember what she said)
Me: You ever going to any crazy adventure before?
Her: Not much
Me: Let's go on one. We should grab a coffee sometimes
Her: Thank you, but I'm serving God.
Me: .... (trying to think a response)
Her: But you're very courage. Most other guys don't do it. Thank you very much. I appreciate it.
I didn't know why she launched into this. I ejected.
3
Girl in the elevator, I had to move fast.
Me: Hey, quick question. Are you single?
Her: Yes
Me: Great, I'm _____
Her: I'm _____, nice to meet you
Shaking hand.
Me: You just done class?
Her: No, I'm not a student here. I'm a Catholic church missionary.
Me: Well, I heard that they have a convention here.
Elevator opened.
Me: Anyways, let's grab a coffee sometimes.
Her: I don't really know you.
I grabbed her shoulder
Me: That's why we need to know each other.
Her: ....
She was at the door. I hesitated for half a second, and she went away.
13
Girl sitting on the hall.
Me: Hey, quick question. Are you single?
Her: Yes I am
Big grin => good sign.
Me: You're lucky, I'm here.
Chase frame repartee.
Her: Nice to meet you.
Then I sat down next to her (locked in).
Me: I'm ______
Her: I'm ______
Me: _____, you're going to eat?
Singular Flow.
Her: I'm waiting for my friends. She will come in 5 minutes.
Good sign. She gave me the logistics.
Me: _____, what're you doing in free time?
Her: I don't have a lot of free time. Just studying .... but if I have free time, I'd hang out with friends.
Me: You have midterm next week?
Her: Yeah, I have one. How about you?
Me: I'm done this week, so I'm free. What your major?
Her: Political Science. How about you?
Me: Computer Science.
Her: Tough one.
Me: Why political science, not something like .... history for example
Her: I like political science more. It's very cool when you're studying it.
Me: I've taken a political science class before ...
Then we talk a little bit about it.
I should have asked what she want to do in the future.
Me: You ever going to any crazy adventure before?
Her: Sometimes
Me: Let's grab a coffee sometimes.
Her: I can't. I'm too busy studying for midterm.
Me: After midterm probably you're free.
Her: Maybe.
She deflected the push.
Me: Let's grab a coffee then.
Her: I have the paper, work, study. I appreciate it, thanks anyway.
She was about to quit. I persisted a little bit more but failed.
I noticed a habit: Every time I closed with "we should grab a coffee sometimes," I grabbed her shoulder and looked into her eyes with the "hunter going for the kill" gaze.
What I should have done: Casually grab her hand, and close. Also touch her sooner.
The problem: When I proposed a date, she gave an objection.
Hard push didn't work.
Try this next time: When I meet with an objection, don't push. Re-frame positively to make her laugh, then building more comfort, and close again.
Tomorrow: When meet an objection, re-frame it positively.
