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Dern

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Just re-read Chase's articles on touch, and watched a bunch of rsd videos on physical escalation. I gotta learn to touch girls more, and stop being such a pussy. I really like Chase's escalation ladder of incidental touch --> protective touch --> romantic touch --> sexual touch. At this point, I gotta focus mostly on incidental and protective touch before I can move onto the romantic and sexual ones.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/7-way ... -touch-you
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

ray_zorse

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Hi mate, long time no see. It's good too see some activity here. I will read your 18page FR later lol but I see that you need to be touching girls more. Get to it, its easy just make sure you touch her on high points and every 30sec to a minute or so touch her elbow, her ass, her shoulder etc, the only thing stopping you is your comfort zone. A few times I have over-touched a girl but those interactions were not that promising anyway. As long as you do it casually and look into her eyes while you do it there's basically no such thing as too much touch. Also let your touch linger and find interesting reasons to touch her e.g. she says she passed an exam -> you high five her, she says she is moving house -> you squeeze her shoulder muscle and say "are you strong?", she says it's her birthday -> you grab her shoulder, lean in, kiss her cheek and say "Happy Birthday!"... etc, girls LOVE to be touched! And, do it early (preferably before you introduce yourself even), so she becomes accustomed to you being a naturally touchy guy.
Ray
 

Dern

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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February 2

So today after talking to biddies on campus, I biked down the party street to look for more sets to approach

I spotted a party going on at 4 pm on a goddamn tuesday

Problem was that there was a guy at the door holding a list, only letting select people in

However, when I saw the chicks chilling on the balcony, and how goddamn hot they all looked, I knew I just had to try to get in

So I went up to one of the guys standing in front of the house, acknowledged him with eye contact and a smile, gave him props and asked him what was happening here

He told me that this was a pregame for the chainsmokers concert tonight

Goddamn that’s dope, i didn’t know that the chainsmokers were coming to sb…

I then asked him where the concert was

He thought about it for a sec and then told me

Then some shit happened and I stopped talking to him

Next, I saw that the guy holding the list wasn’t there anymore, so I just walked in

I stood on the balcony and opened a set, talking about chainsmokers and shit

They asked me how I got onto vip, and I just lied and said “I’m just that boss” in a really cocky way lol

I then walked back inside and was going to pre-open a girl before the guy who I had just talked to tapped me on my shoulder and said that this party was vip only (awww man, just when the pizza had just arrived as well…lol)

So I was like “oh, really?” and started to leave

On the way down the stairs, I opened another girl… a really pretty blonde chick, she thought I was going to check for her vip status because she was telling me how she was on the list, she just had to go run back home for her ticket or whatever

I started pointing out the door and exclaiming “out! right now!” hahaha

Laughed and smiled so she knew I was kidding, did our introductions and shit

I continue making my way out of the house, while the surfer dude is lurking behind me lol, seeing to the fact that I be abolished

I go home and smoke bubbler bowls in my room before heading to the gym


February 3

Okay, so here’s the funny part

I finish psychology class, ask the blonde chick from the class if she has sold her shitty car yet. she’s like “shhh make sure people don’t know… ;) no, i haven’t sold it yet, people have texted me this weekend asking to take a look at it, but i haven’t responded yet… i guess i have to be more mindful :)” (lol our class is on mindfulness)

I’m just standing there smiling at her, wide-grinned as fuck, just beaming with happiness hahaha, giving off the most friendly vibe ever (too friendly haha, im such a pussy nice guy still)… don’t even remember what i said lol so she’s just like “ok I got another class to go to now… bye!” and bikes away. I defs have to ask this girl out soon, she’s got like sandy blonde hair and a tight little ass ;)

So I’m walking, and I see this decently cute girl skateboarding… she skates right up to the curb and can’t get over it so has to get off her board and pick it up

So I go up to her and immediately tease her about her skateboarding skills

She looks at me and is like “oh heyyy!” and sort of side-half hugs me like she knows me

Then she starts talking about how fun last night was, and in my head i’m like “oh, she must be talking about the chainsmokers concert…”

Then I realize that she might have been a girl I met at the pregame party? I’m still not really sure though… lol

Haha so I play it cool and act as if i were at the concert and all that haha, lightly banter about what she’s up to now (going to class) and shit

Overall, we were both in really happy, bubbly moods, so I decided to go for the number pull before she entered class

Offered to grab a coffee some time, and she cheerfully agreed, so i took down her number and everything


February 11

Went out for coffee with the girl from above. Worked on my touch more. Worked on my deep dive. 6th date of my life. Was thinking throughout the date how I could amp up the sexual tension more… it felt too friendly and platonic and I couldn’t get past the stage of “incidental touch.”
 

Dern

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Fuck.

Still doing a handful of approaches almost everyday. A lot of chicks are rejecting me off the opener, nothing new, it just hurts sometimes because it makes me feel as if i’m not good looking enough.

Been pretty cold since those last 2 dates came relatively quickly (for me).

Fuck.

When the chicks do talk to me, I’m having good interactions, emitting positive vibes, but these chicks man… their emotions and their flakiness… just off the charts yo.

For example, I number pulled two hot blonde chicks the other day. Had really good interactions with them. I’m touching more now and trying to work on my "asshole game".

I left them thinking that I had two solid leads. But once I started texting them (with the help of ProblemSolving), I slowly began to realize that they weren’t down.

Fuck man.

These chicks aren’t hungry to see me, Problem Solving says. Start mass approaching asian chicks and this will change.
 

Dern

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Wow… I am overcome with emotions right now… have been so overcome lately… really man… so many ups and downs hahaha omg i don't even know if i can put this down in words… im just so happy and in love right now wow…. ucsb has been the greatest experience so far and it just makes me feel like i’ve been missing out all these years… it evokes in me both a sense of sadness and of happiness… nostalgia and contentment… so happy when i got here, i thought everything would just work out fine, i thought everything would just magically turn ok, but of course, i just want more now… i want to go back 4 years and do my undergraduate at this school… do the dorms first year meet everyone, rush all the frats, pledge the best one, talk to everyone, love everyone, accept everyone, love everyone, love everyone, spread the positive energy, join all the clubs and sports teams, do all the things, talk to everyone, have all the connections, go to all the parties, build a bomb ass social circle with dope bros and hot chicks, rule a house on dp overlooking the serene beauty of iv, know everyone, plant my seeds, water them, and watch them grow… i wish… i wish… i could just go back and have the knowledge i do now… i would’ve loved everyone!!!!! i would’ve loved them all!!!!!!!!!!! i would’ve!!! but i can’t go back in time… and if i did, i would just be the pussy bitch i was… i can’t go back in time with the knowledge i have now… only by experience, pushing my comfort zones, and making mistakes over and over again do i know what i know now… it’s only about being in the present now, moving forward with what i have, loving everything, accepting everything, and making the most of my time left here… these kids, they have it all… i wish… i just wish i had a bomb ass social circle to hang with all the time… to share so many great experiences with… to tell every feeling to…to always be there for each other… to spread the love to… im so sad and happy omg so overcome with emotions… i’ve never felt like this before… i’ve grown so much… i’ve learned so much… and it just leaves me feeling empty in the end… reminding me of what i don’t have and makes me want it even more… all those bomb ass chicks always walking around… omg… everyone with their beautiful friends… life… paradise… this is paradise… these kids have it all… if only i could go back in time and plant my seeds and water them and watch them grow… and love everyone… and know everyone… and love everyone and be the big man on campus… even though i can’t go back in time… i can still spread the love to those who arise in my life… i can still love, i can…
 
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