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There is a Hard Rock cafe, but t's a tourist trap. Wouldn't have helped the seduction at all. Otherwise, all music venues would have been far away. And also, probably more crowded and noisy, which wouldn't have helped. Beach setting was more intimate. But the problem is that it was a 2 set.Is there a music venue or a Hard Rock Café close by? Asking if they have been there, then inviting them to go would have been a congruent suggestion to make since you're talking about music.
Reflecting on the interaction, I think my best bet would have been to offer value as someone who knows the city and country well.
Unfortunately my insecurities got the better of me. When I told them about the festival i visited in their city, i remembered it was in 1991. i didn't tell them that, I just said "It was a long time ago." But still, it made me feel insecure about my age and got me thinking about how they weren't probably even born back then.
Also, the lukewarm response when I asked if they were rockers ("it was just a phase") made me feel like having asked a dumb question. Even though it was probably irrelevant.
Another thing: I remember thinking "Oh they're still here for 5 more days, I'm probably going to run into them again anyway" (probably nonesense but that's what went through my head)
All this, plus not having a clear idea of how to proceed with a 2 set, made me bail in the end. It wasn't a conscious decision, but in hindsight that's more or less why I didn't allow myself to spemd more time with these girls.