Gameboy's Journal

[gameboy]

It's time to step it up again. I've been doing few approaches recently, mainly because I wasn't motivated due to the cold weather. But recently I've been seeing more interesting girls out and about again, not super hot ones (coz of winter clothing) but at least a decent few that looked approachable.

So tomorow I want to do 4 approaches. Plan is to do 2+ around noon in the city center, then later 2 more on the beach.

Drive by compliments or comments don't count, but any approach where I get some information from a girl (or try to, and get ignored or rejected) counts. Can be things like where she's from, her name, or what she's doing. Or even her zodiac and favorite color if I can't think of anything better. But gotta try and talk to at least 4 women. The intention is to be smooth and charm her socks off, and the rest of her clothing as well ideally.

If I get a good connection with a girl then it's ok to keep talking to her and forget about the rest of the approaches for the day. (I'm typing this out explicitly because in the past I've ejected from sets that were going good, thinking I gotta get the rest of my approaches in for today which is of course bs.)

I'll post back here tomorrow evening and let you guys know how it went.

 

[gameboy]

Didn't reach my goal at all. Except that I went out. Walking around in the city streets, my AA was through the roof. I saw a few single girls coming my way but I couldn't fathom asking them anything. Not many hotties either, except see below.

The only opener I got in was in a 2nd hand clothing shop, where I got myself a nice new jacket. After paying, there was this slim Ukrainian (?) girl trying on a short jacket herself. It looked good on her so I said to her "Looks very elegant!" She laughed, and thanked me. I didn't follow up though because the shop owner / clerk was standing right there watching. Also she was with a female friend.

I walked around some more but couldn't do any street stops. There was one girl I wanted to open, the only hot one I saw all day. She was dressed in gym clothes, with those short tight yellow yoga pants. She was walking quite fast though, on the other side of the street, with huge head phones on. I wanted to ask her "Aren't you cold in that?" but I got the impression that she noticed me noticing her. I think she avoided eye contact and walked by extra fast before I could cross the street. Checked her out from behind, she had those two slutty tattoos on the back of her thighs. Ah well

Shortly after it started raining. Went home for lunch and to get some work done. Then in the afternoon I went out for another extended walk despite the rain, but the atmosphere was quite gloomy and I didn't see any hot or approachable girls. One cute Asian caught my eye, but just a second later, I saw her little son running after her so that was a no go.

On the plus side: I finally got myself a nice, stylish vintage jacket. Wore it proudly today and enjoyed how much better it looks than the jacket that I used to wear before. Which today I realized almost everyone else seemed to also be wearing.

So that was a nice little step to improve fundamentals. I've never been big on stylish clothing, but it's one of my goals for this year to slowly and gradually improve my wardrobe. As it befits an attractive middle aged gentleman.

As for approaching 4 girls, no luck today. Will give it another go tomorrow. Weather should be better by then if the forecasts are correct.

 

[gameboy]

Hit my goal of 4 approaches. Niceeeee

First one was with a woman who sat down at the table next to mine, in a cafe. About my age, slim, but not reaelly attractive. I made some situational comments to her, but she wouldn't even reply. Just shook her head at the first, and nodded to the second of my comments. Kind of a weirdo I guess. I overheard her ordering a coffee first, then changing the order to a glass of water. Also she asked the waiter to charge her phone for her, then less than 5 minutes later asked for her phone back lol. Bit of a crazy one it seems to me...

The other 3 approaches were on the beach. I forget the exact order. One was a beautiful balck girl with very long hair. Looked like extensions though. She walked by me and I complimented her hair, she said thanks. I then asked her "Is it really yours?" She said no. I said it still looks great on her, and she thanked me again. She walked off though. She was there with an older woman, might have been her mother.

One was a read haired girl standing int he water. I asked her if she wanted to go swimming, she said no it's a bit too cold. I waited for a few seconds then said, "It would be nice though!" She agreed but walked away too. Later I saw that she was with a guy.

The last one was a girl who kept putting her phone down, with a timer I assume, then jumping for the picture. I walked up to her and said "That looks like a difficult selfie!" She looked confused, so I repeated in the local language. I don't remember what she replied. Then I asked her "Did it come out right?" She said "Yes!" and "Thanks", then looked down at her phone again.

My plan was to ask whether she wanted help with the pictures if I sensed any interest from her, but I didn't. Anyway she said the pic turned out good so I guess she was fine. Also once I saw her face, it looked like she had a huge lip job (as in, lips far too big for her face) and enormous eyelashes. Not my cup of tea at all. So I just kept walking.

I'm happy to have achieved my target for today. Next step is to rinse and repeat tomorrow.

And to improve. I almost forgot how much fun this shit can be! Once you get over the initial AA, it feels a million times better than not approaching.