Gameboy's Journal

[ChrisXKiss]

Just one half-assed approach today. Couldn't find any girls that I was particularly attracted to.

Still a bit bummed by yesterdays experience. But I guess there wasn't much I could do about it.

Yeah I’d say it’s good that you even didn’t do anything much more in the moment, it’s not worth it.

I’ve had some frustrating scenarios myself as you know, and it’s normal to feel affected. Sometimes I have tried to go and approach again right away no matter my state, just to prove to myself that it’s all a thing of the past. Generally it does need some time to relax and let it go though.

At least girls will always be there to make pushing through such wild cards worth it.

 

[gameboy]

Not much opportunity to approach recently. There are almost no tourist girls out and about. Few single girls at all, and the few ones I see are wearing thick baggy winter clothing. Guess I'm spoiled by living in a place where it's bikini weather for most of the year.

Maybe I should take a break until xmas? I really don't want to though. Let's see what the next few days bring.

 

[Stark]

Taking a break from cold approaching is not ideal.

I have seen way many guys falling off the path when they take a break. They had planned to return but it doesn't work that way. An unexplainable force of resistance steps in and takes away all the momentum you've been building.

Until you experience a real personality transplant followed by a string of successes, you shouldn't hold back, holidays or not. This advice doesn't apply to anything else but stands true with cold-approach.

 

[AspiringStoic]

Taking a break from cold approaching is not ideal.

I have seen way many guys falling off the path when they take a break. They had planned to return but it doesn't work that way. An unexplainable force of resistance steps in and takes away all the momentum you've been building.

Until you experience a real personality transplant followed by a string of successes, you shouldn't hold back, holidays or not. This advice doesn't apply to anything else but stands true with cold-approach.

100 percent concur. As long as there are human beings out there, we can always go out and interact with a few of them. Don't have to always look for models to talk to. Any kind of cold approach is better than no cold approach.

 

[gameboy]

The cold spell is over and the girl situation seems to have normalized since about yesterday. I'm still going out every day, don't worry guys I'm not stopping.

I was a bit rusty after several days of 0 approaches. Yesterday I saw 2 potential hotties, but both were sitting down focussed on their phones, and it was already dark so AA got the better of me.

Today I did 4 situational approaches on the beach. No super hotties, and none hooked, but at least I'm getting into the groove again.

It's time for me to get serious. I've set myself a goal to reach by the end of the year. It's time to get laid already.

I'm hereby setting the intention: In the most enjoyable way for both myself and the ladies, and for the highest good of all, I'm getting laid.