Jake D.'s Rebirth(Progressions 2)

[Smurf]

I was on some pussy shit yesterday.

Went to campus. The plan was to approach some bitties and take down some digits. Did NOT do that. I talked to three girls, which isn't nearly enough. First one had a boyfriend, but acted pretty shy and nervous - she was fidgeting and smiling a lot. I don't know if it was from good tension or bad, but I think it was good.

Second girl I opened her with a bad vibe and she received the opener badly. Just walked away from that one 'cause she had this look on her face like she just had to eat a moldy horse dick for just a dollar.

Third girl also had a boyfriend. Think the issue here was that I didn't put off enough of a good, sexual vibe off on her. Will have to try and adjust that.

So later at a show that I went to last night, I went in hoping there would be a decent amount of girls. Not really, and the headliner was okay at best. It was slim pickings so I just decided to vibe with my friends and myself. I did tap one girl on the shoulder, but she turned around and gave me the throw up look. Oh well, I love that shit. I decided to just chill and not worry about bitches tonight, but then a girl taps ME on the shoulder. She asks me shit, I don't know what she's saying, but I catch a few things - and I wasn't expecting this at all so I don't move on it. I learned a lot though: when a girl does open you, move quick. It doesn't matter what she said. She tells me she wants to make out with this guy and asks me for gum. I'm like, "what? no." all while touching her quite a bit. Then I grab her and tell her to dance with me after I get my head screwed on properly. We dance for a little bit,she's pretty cute I think at the time. Then she backs up into this other guy and dances with him. Then I realize, I didn't move fast enough, and this girl is trying to play multiple people at once. I'm not gonna' re-open her HA. I let that happen and just chill and dance. When she leaves to get some air she runs her hand across my chest. I'm like, okay. Whatever. So I definitely should've just taken control here. The night was pretty fun after we left.

So I really need to talk to more girls today, It'll be hard though. I'll try and convince my friends to run up to D.U. area.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Busy with work so I can't start my plan to win the FRC just yet, but it's in the works for this week.

I did however talk to this girl at a kickback on Sunday who was the roommate of the girl hosting. Alright face, nice lips and wide hips, combined with my level of intoxication and I was pretty sold on the idea of getting her alone or getting her number. Find out she has a boyfriend and I'm ramping up physical contact the entire time. We're right next to each other connected at the hip looking through her phone for music. I eventually go for the number pull and she's like, "I have a boyfriend" and I reroute that with, "type your name in there". She does. She responds to the icebreaker so that's cool, I'm gonna play it carefully though because I do know her roommate pretty well. And that'll put me at 4 points saga
So far haha. Gonna have to pick up the pace on Saturday

In other news, I recently had an epiphany that put my confidence on another level. My frame is much stronger now and I feel great. We'll see how this change in mental state changes my game.

Jake

 

[Smurf]

Let's see.

Not much crazy new, but did do an approach and got a new number.

The approach I was heading out to the gym meeting a friend there. Walking down the stairs and down the walkway to where my roommate's car was parked that he was letting me use for the day. I see this cute girl waking out of her apartment and think, "I'm in a hurry but I'll approach her out of the car". I get into the car, pull into position about to say something and then see says,

Her:"hey I've seen you before!"
Me"oh really? What's your name?"
Her:"GirlDownstairs, what's yours?"
Me:"Jake, have a good day!"

She was also heading to her car. I'm gonna try and "bump" into her again, grab her number or set something up. The logistics are too good.

Then yesterday I went cliff diving with Hairy - my best friend, a mutual female friend of ours and another friend of hers. The friend was cute so I bantered with her for a bit. Then when we drove back I grabbed her number. Not sure if I want to try and smash or use her for preselection and balancing party ratios down the road. We'll see.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Ripped it up yesterday.

Woke up real early to head to a volunteer event at seven that I heard girls would be at with my best friend. We head over, get everything set up and then these two girls walk over wondering what they should do. We direct them away, as we've got our area covered. They return shortly, and we invite them to come help us out a bit later.

Later on, they show back up, with two more girls with them. So the four girls are looking to us to show them how it works. We play major authority game and basically flirt with all of them. It's obvious from the vibe that they all are attracted, so when we have to head out to work we grab all of their numbers.

We head to work, finish our shift, and then we head out to the suburbs for a blacklight party we're going to later. We're supposed to get there and have a drinking competition with two other guys we're meeting there, but they don't want to. Oh well, they woulda' lost.

So we show up, and a female friend of ours is our DD. Getting there we meet three more girls we already know, and then our two other guy friends show up not too much later after that. I'm not ready to do anything with them, and they're good pre-selection so I wanna' keep 'em around. My workout buddy and his girl show up and we all say hi and get our vibe flowing through the party.

This house, logistically, is shit. Upstairs and downstairs are closed off. There's the front yard, backyard, and that's about it for isolation locations. I figure I'm probably not smashing tonight :\.

We all start drinking, and me and my best friend bring a bottle of 151 in a Seagrams bottle. We get to work on it pretty quick and it gets the job started off. It's a glow party, so I go ahead and take my shirt off and start gaining social momentum. I'm talking to people, and start scoping out girls around. The ratio is pretty good, and all my guy friends including myself are pretty physically attractive so we get our pick of the litter.

I spot two girls on the "dancefloor" - the living room - and they seem like the hottest girls here. Let's call 'em Thing1 and Thing2. I watch them and figure I'll go for a girl who's a bit more low-key than them. I'm walking around and spot another girl that I know from a class I take down at my college campus. Say hi, then walk around some more scoping things out until I can find a girl I like.

Later I return to the dancefloor and everyone seems to have migrated outside - it was pretty hot in that bitch haha. I start dancing with Thing1 and Thing2 and make some general conversations. Find out their names and the one I like, Thing1, starts dancing with me. We grind for a bit and then I walk off. I come back and start really dancing with her, and man, this girl can move her hips WELL. We grind and I bend her over as she's dancing on me. She starts grinding on me hard, and I back up and sit on the couch. She's giving me a lapdance, and we start getting really into it and I run my hands up and down her body, grabbed her tits and those were a nice handful as well. As I'm doing this I can hear her start to moan a bit, and I tilt her head back and towards mine and start making out with her. Everyone at this point is back on the dancefloor so I break it off pretty quickly. I walk off again, and talk to some more people. Try and scope some other people out but not really seeing anything. I dance with one more chick before things slow down.

The party comes to a close, and I turn to my friend, call 'em "Charismatic" - he's a really good natural and has charisma like no other - and I tell him to "grab as many numbers as you can". I grab a number from the girl from my class on campus, one from the group of three girls I knew previously, and then from Thing1. Satisfied, I head outside. Me and Charismatic start trying to make plans to smash Thing1 and Thing2, but my best friend Fluffy is having issues with our ride.

Some insight on that, he's been pursuing her for a while and has bad oneitus with her. She straight up tells him she doesn't want him after they kiss a bit, and then he gets real emotional and I have to talk to him for a long while. No play for us tonight :\. Or so I thought.

At this point I'm pretty close to blacked out. Bottle gone, we're all outside the house figuring out plans to leave. This girl walks out that I had seen earlier by the bathrooms. She's not very attractive, but I'm drunk and don't care. There was slight touch with her, so I thought I'd give it a try. We start talking and I escalate pretty quickly with her. She tells me she's a lesbian, but I don't believe her. I ask her, "really?" and then I move in to kiss her. She moves slightly away, but I tilt her head and we kiss. We make out a bit, but I get this weird feeling I shouldn't be doing this. I ask her directly, "Tell me to stop and I will." She says "stop" and I say okay and walk away. I'm not fuckin' with that shit when I'm that drunk. Too risky if I'm not absolutely sure she wants me.

We eventually head out, get food, and me and Fluffy head to a friend's house to crash. All in all a good day: Seven numbers, danced with two girls, and made out with two. Not bad, and that gives me 38 more points for the Snatch Tourney. Hopefully I'll get some dates from these numbers and transform some to lays.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Saturday was a mess in more ways than one.

Fourth of July: The Park

Me and Fluffy head to the park to start seeing if we can get something going for the Fourth. All of our friends recently have started to come to us for what's happening, what event is going on, etc, and we're feeling and enjoying the pressure. It's annoying, but that's a topic for another day.

We're walking around the park and it's packed. People everywhere, so many opportunities. We talk to some people we know there working out to get some momentum started. Half a lap later, we see some dudes playing soccer alone. We walk up to them and vibe with them a bit. We eventually find out they're in a hotel with a pool, and they ask if we can throw them a party. Rising up to the challenge, we say of course and really get to work.

We say our goodbyes and get to texting our contacts. It seem everyone is busy with something else, and we start to have doubts in our minds about these guys. We persist anyway, open a two set that goes nowhere, then we head out of the park.

We decide we need liq, and we grab that real quick.

We head over to a friend's house to drop some stuff off and talk. After that we head to get food. There, Fluffy grabs the cashier's number, then we head home to chill for a bit.

No one has texted us back still, and it's looking bleak. Finally, I get texts from a couple friends. One is my workout buddy, and he says he and his girl are down. The next is another female friend, saying she can bring a girl as well. I start to gain some hope, and we head down to this hotel.

Here's where things get messy real quick.

We get to the hotel, and it's bullshit. I mean bullshit. It's four dudes sitting in the room. No girls, no nothing. We have nothing to work with, even if my people came through, the ratio is still off. Goddamn. So we head up to the pool and talk to these guys for a bit, just shooting the shit. We drink a bit, then Fluffy and I decide to the whole group we need to get this thing poppin'. It's dark, and we're downtown, so we decide to head down for some nightgame.

We split from the four dudes and head down the main street downtown. We don't see much, but I'm just talking to people, keeping the momentum up. We see these two girls sitting down, and we open them. They say they're headed home, so that goes nowhere. We start to head back towards the hotel, when I get a text.

It's my other friend, Charismatic, saying he has three girls to bring. He says they're "cute" and that the ratio better be right. Now I'm really working to try and get this ratio working out. I open another girl but she's not about it. She keeps walking, taking huge strides so I call it a bust.

We open another two set. Fluffy takes the lead, but he exits quickly. I ask him why and he gives a bullshit excuse. These girls end up walking around downtown a bit more, I considered re-opening them but thought not.

We get back to the hotel and the four dudes aren't anywhere to be seen. What the fuck. I call 'em up a few times and they say they're at the other end of the outdoor mall, i.e, other side of downtown. Shit. We go to get them and it turns out everyone is showing up now of all times. Charismatic does deliver, and he even has a pretty cute girl with him. Now I'm freakin' out. Me and fluffy go to leave, leaving Charismatic and his three girls, my workout buddy, Call him "red", and his girl, and then the other girl I brought, although she didn't bring another girl haha.

We eventually find them, and twenty minutes later we get back to the hotel. I can sense the impatience and the awkwardness. We do introductions, but Charismatic and his three girls get up to leave. Well fuck. So me and Fluffy make a decision to leave as well and leave these four chodes there. Fuck them.

So now, me and Fluffy are quite pissed. Red and his girl however, have a pool, and they say we can head back there. Cool.

At this point, I've done four approaches, with nothing to show for it. So I say "fuck it" and call up a girl I've been trying to get out for a while. Call her Down Girl, 'cause she's down. We'll see later.

So it's around 12:30, we're still buzzed and drive over to Red's girls place, which isn't but 10 minutes from me and Fluffy's spot. Down girl ends up showing up, and I also call my other best friend and his girl. So we're all chilling in the pool, and there's a hot tub there, so I'm like, "why not".

We all hop in there and me and Fluffy are both flirting with Down Girl, hard. One of us is going to pull her home for sure, we just can't decide who. It's weird though, she seems into both of us... We're all talking in the pool, and I apologize for the mess earlier. I get some shit tests from my Best Friend, let's call him Obnoxious, and his girl. I address these pretty poorly because I'm mad, but it still seems effective enough to shut them down. So with that and Fluffy's alpha personality, we're enough to command and shut down anything that comes our way.

Anyways, the night progresses, and me and Fluffy are drunk as shit. We decide to let Down Girl drive us home and chill for a bit there. We get there, and we take some more shots. Down Girl is giving both of us eyes, and I figure she should've decided which one of us she wanted by now. I don't move, but she wants to take a shower. So she goes to do that, while me and Fluffy talk about it. I say we should go for the threesome, and he agrees. I tell him to go in the shower and convince her.

So they get in there, and about 10-15 mintues later they come out. I straight up ask her if she's down and she nods and we start making out. At this point we've had four shots since we got back, so I'm belligerent. We're all going at it, and you can imagine what happens afterward.

I black out eventually and wake up on my couch. I text Down Girl to see what happened and she tells me what we did, the threesome, then tells me "you threw up in the sink and passed out". I laugh at this, still drunk when I wake up. I see Fluffy is awake, fist bump him, and then I head out to work not much later after that.

So all in all that night gave me 54 points. Not bad to start off.

Monday

Couldn't find the time to approach this day, so I just went down to my class down at campus. There's this girl I've been eyeing in there, so I isolated her after class was coming to an end. She actually opens me commenting on my bracelet and what it says. I explain, then she talks about her race. We talk for about 3 minutes, then I ask her for her number. She puts it in. I texted her today, and she didn't respond. :\ who knows. But three more points for me I'm going hiking tomorrow, so hopefully I can do some approaches then.

What I took away from this weekend:

• Don't hesitate. This girl at the park gave me eyes and I didn't do anything about it.
  Be more social, open more girls when you can.
  Make sure to dress the part for whatever type of game you're doing. I didn't calibrate my clothes at all to any of the environments I was in.
  Gotta plan better for parties.

That's about it,

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Had a kickback Thursday, got super drunk, and got a girl's number somehow. This'll be relevant soon. +1

...

That Saturday, I went to the gas station to fill up gas for Fluffy's car that he lets me use. Before I left the house I read one of Casanova's FR++'s, so I was really feeling it. Left my phone inside the car, take the keys and head into the store after parking real quick. Walk inside. Don't see any cute girls through my periphery, so I walk around the store real quick and grab an energy drink. As I'm walking towards the line to check out, I see this cute girl in line in front of me. I've been really feeling the check out opening, it's gotten reception recently, so I checked her out and made eye contact, smiling after that. She smiled and looked down. I then got in line behind her, and around 4 seconds later I opened her up. We started talking, and then as we're moving forward in line, gaining comfort, I realize I don't have my phone. Shit. I then ask her to take my number, and then text me in about two minutes. I don't think it'll work. I then grab my drink and head to pump the gas. I get done, roll out and get onto the street, checking my phone at a stoplight nearby. She texted me! Sweet. I then text her back and whatnot, letting her know my name and tell her I'll save her number (weird that it's the other way around this time ). I text her later that night, just to get some more comfort going. She texts back wayy later when I'm at work, and tells me about what she did that day and tells me "goodnight". Haha, alright.

I text her back a couple days later, asking her out. That was Sunday, it's now Wednesday and no reply. I think I should've went for the instant date, but I had to go to work 30 minutes after I grabbed her number, so it wasn't possible. Oh well. +3.

That Saturday that I met the girl from the gas station, I texted the other girl from the party. Let's call her AwkwardAsian. I text her telling her we should meet up, and she agrees. I then figure out a day, leave it at that for then. The next day, Sunday, I text her again with more details for logistics. I decide to meet at the park rather than my patented smoothie date at my place, and I'm glad I did, you'll see why.

The Date
So I workout right before the date, but I'm still on time. We decide to meet at a certain area of the park, and she tells me she's gonna' be a little late. There's been something about American Asian girls lately: they think they're hotter than they actually are and they like to play games. Has anyone else dealt with that? I've dealt with it like three times... I tell her it's cool, while I'm giving her directions to the spot. This is my first date that didn't flake on me, but I didn't even wanna' call it a date... So I'm doing a few pull ups in a different area of the park, 1) I'm bored, 2)Once she gets there I'll still be "later" than her.

So she arrives and I roll up to the spot she's in. She's dressed how she usually dresses, shittily, but it's okay, I'm just in a bro-tank, jeans, and chukkas. Mind you it's like 80 degrees at least, hotter than the kitchen that I work in. So I give her a hug and all that, ask her what trouble she caused today, she gives me a few short answers, and here's where I know that something's up. As I'm asking her questions, it takes her a while before she'll give me extended answers. Hmm.

Then my first mistake, she says we should start walking, so I agree and get up and tell her to "come on". I should've led there. Whatever. So I start deep diving her, about her college experience for her first year, what she's gonna' do, why, blah blah blah. We get to a point where I ask her, "If you could do anything, money's not involved, what would you do?" I like this because the answer is usually completely different from what they're major is. So then I get to ask her about why she's doing what she is now, why not follow your dreams, etc. We're still talking, and she keeps insulting/teasing me. I either laugh it off or take fake offense to what she says. She does this quite often, and I don't know whether it's a sign of attraction or not...

We eventually walk full circle back to where we were after stopping a few times to sit. I got some decent kino in. I'm telling her about working out because she asked me, and she's looking at my arms a lot. A few times though, she mentioned "how attractive my other friends are". ...Oookay.

We walk through a garden and I lean on this weirdly shaped three. She stands around 5 awkward feet away. Haha. She's explaining something, and in the middle of that I interrupt her and say, "Hey, why are you standing so far away? Come here." All of this is said in a rather chill tone. I kept my vibe very chill throughout, because of her awkwardness, teasing, and blatant sex talk that I'll talk about in a sec. She says, "No, you smell weird." To which I respond. "Yeah, you always smell weird." She then moves around 3 feet closer, still not even within arms reach, and then I tell her to continue what she was saying.

We start walking again, and it starts to drizzle a bit. She suggests we go somewhere, I have nowhere to go, really, (except for home, but thank god I didn't...) so I say we should head to a gazebo nearby. We're walking, and occasionally in conversation she'll put in a random blatant sex joke. Like crude humor. I run with it, but I'm thrown off by the blatantness. We get to the gazebo, there's people in there. Great. So I say we should head to the train.

The walk on the train gives me time to think if I want to get her to come home with me. Home is around 45 minutes from there, so that sucks. Downtown is by her place, so that's a bit closer, but I dunno. As we're walking, she keeps making really really stupid jokes aimed at my body. I'm in pretty good shape, and my face is above average haha. So everytime she does, I laugh it off or whatever, but it's getting annoying and I'm losing attraction for this girl pretty quick. She makes a quip about, "how she can get some anytime" which I don't believe because this girl... Just no. I laugh that off as well. Then, after I had been touching her a bit, says, "Look, I know you don't get some often, but that doesn't mean you should force yourself on people." And I'm thinking, "Lolwut." Out of the two of us, this girl is obviously the less attractive physically,mentally, and is really uncalibrated socially. At this point I'm pretty done, and decide to take the route closer to her house.

This is the interesting part. After she said that shit, I got on the train, sat across from her instead of next to her as I had been most of the date, and looked around with the bored look on my face. NOW, she starts bombarding me with questions. She asks me about my road trip I'm taking next year, and says, "yeah, you're going on a spiritual journey or whatever." At this point I'm thinking she's auto-rejecting because I'm higher value than her, but I really don't care because this girl sucks.

We get downtown, and she kept mentioning getting food. I had told her repeatedly at the park I wasn't hungry. She goes to Chipotle and I make sure to go to the bathroom so she doesn't think I'm about to pay for her. I come out, she has her food, and we talk a bit more. Once she finishes, she tells me, "you're really chill." Don't know what this is supposed to mean, but whatever. I'm tired. She asks AGAIN, about my friends, saying that "If we went on a hike, do you think they would come?" Like, why would you go on this date with me if you think my friend's are the attractive ones? Anyways, she asks if we can hang out again after she gets back, I say yes, but have no intention of doing so. We get on the train and her stop is before mine. I hug her goodbye.

Things I think went wrong:
I didn't go in for a kiss. I might as well have, couldn't have hurt.
I need to lead more.
I need a congruent response for teasing. If I think I'm higher value, self-deprecation would probably have worked better.
I need a wider range of touch. I mostly touched her stomach and arm. I need to expand that with more incidentals.
Better logistics. I'll tell you guys what happened at my place later in this post.
Ask her what she thinks of me.
I need more team effort phrasing. It felt like it was me against her a lot of the time, and she was losing haha.
Not polarizing enough. She should've known what I wanted, or left earlier. The whole date was wayy too long at like 2 1/2 hours.
Not sexual enough. I needed more voice tone and eye contact.
Lots of awkward distance moments where she would stand realllly far away. How do I fix that?
NO obvious sign of attraction on her part. What was that about?

Things done well:
There was a lot of touch, even if it wasn't placed the best.
I deep dived her pretty well. She said I wasn't talking much, yet I pretty much knew her past present and future.
I deflected most of her teasing. Maybe not well, but deflected none the less.
I got that compliance by the tree somehow haha.

On a side note, I don't know if having a chill vibe is something I wanted or not...+2

Later that day and Tuesday

Later that day I wanted to make up for that shitty date by getting a number. I went to a college area where my friend works, but there were NO girls out. I ended up trying to talk to one girl, but she had a boyfriend. Oh well. +1

Tuesday, I went to the Mall with Fluffy. I ended up appraoching one girl who ALSO had a boyfriend. I would've approached more, but we were with his family. +1

So 4 more points there. That's that I guess.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Yo yo yo!

Waiting until I have access to a computer to detail my weekend adventure, it was wild.

In the mean time, I approached my first two set alone and another girl who's number I didn't have time to grab. +3 for now.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Alright.

Last weekend I learned a lot about Indicators Of Interest (IOI) and how little you'll get from high sex drive girls.

So last weekend, I went to a three day EDM festival. It was pretty fuckin' life changing. I came in and my crew and I had amazing vibes. People loved us. I was pretty much in Godmode the entire time I was there.

The first night was cool. We came in, started doing our thing, whatever. Nearing the end of the night, a girl comes up to me. She comments on my hair and I tell her "Thank you". Let's call her CrazyHair. This threw me off, however, and I waited a little too long to talk to her. I was also using glancing eye-contact, so that was a major problem her, you'll see later. Anyways after about five minutes too long I ask her to dance. She says, "no, sorry" and turns away. I'm like, "What the fuck, this girl just came up to me and DOESN'T wanna dance? Whatever." So I continue to dance alone, but at this point she's worked her way in between me and my friend Charismatic. So I lean behind her a bit and tell him to ask her to dance. He does and she says no...LOLWUT. But she keeps dancing in between us. So I'm like, okay, whatever, this is weird. I stop talking to her and vibe with the music again.

Occasionally I lean to talk to Crazyhair, and she says something short and then she'll roll her eyes. Damn, did I make this girl auto-reject THAT fast? This happens some more and eventually I just stop talking to her. She says her goodbyes, I hug her, Charismatic works his way in and gets her number. Cool cool. Then we eventually dip out.

We head to the hotel, and a few girls came over. They were talkers, they just came to chill honestly. We eventually head to bed and prep for day two.

DAY TWO

This day was pretty fantastic. Me and Charismatic are vibing off of each other and seriously getting into state from the moment we woke up. He got a bunch of people's numbers so we're pre gaming in the parking lot before the show. We head in and at this point we're ridiculously pumped. We're walking up the stairs, giving everyone high fives and yelling "woo!" as we do it. So we get in and dance and what not. I'm really not looking for girls that much for some reason, I'm just having a blast. I dance with the two girls that came over the other night but they weren't into it. It's cool, I'm just dancing and dicking around. We're dancing with all the people we met yesterday, and we have a pretty big crew, like 15 people deep. CrazyHair is there with some of her friends and she keeps rolling her eyes at me. WHAT? Okay, fuck her, I'm just gonna' have fun. And I do.

So as the show comes to a close, we head out. Then Charismatic is texting the girl we met on the first night, CrazyHair. We get to the hotel, but then we eventually head out to swoop her and bring her back. So now we grab her, head back, and then Charismatic and her fuck in the bathroom. Nice, so I pass out on the couch out front while that happens.

When a friend of mine has a girl, I act extremely aloof, to avoid flirting with them. It's just not me to flirt with another guy's girl. But...

So we wake up and it's a slow morning. The show starts at five, and we don't even head out until 4:30. Then Charismatic texts me with by far one of the weirdest texts I have ever received.

"Charismatic: Yo you want to DP this girl?"
Me:Uh no not really."
"Charismatic: Are you sure?"
Me:"Yo dude I want to head out soon here."
Charismatic:"Nah I meant later after the show."
"Me:Yeah sure, why not"

So yeah. That happened.

This is by far the best day though. I have literally two days of momentum behind me, I'm hyped like no other. We just head in this time, pre gaming very little since we showed up so late. We do the high five thing again and waltz in.

I'm wearing shorts with parrots all over them, an open flowery shirt, sunglasses and a giant necklace that gets a shitton of attention.

We take seats and around 10 minutes later these two girls show up and sit next to me. I'm like, "great, easy, early." So I talk to one of them, then get introduced to the other. I try and wait to see if either of them has a boyfriend without actually looking around. I find out one of them doesn't, one of them does. The one that does call her, DarkHair, the one that's free call her LightHair. I just let my vibe flow out. I catch this girl staring at my stomach and arms a lot. It's still light out, so I just decide to wait it out and pump my vibe even more.

Eventually it gets dark, and I then start making moves to dance with her. I do, but either she's a terrible dancer, or she didn't want it. But I don't understand why she would keep letting me dance with her if that was the case... So I stop dancing with her a lot and dance a lot of other places as well. I come back to her, dance a bit, and then dance other places with my friends. I repeat this for a while, not knowing if I should escalate or not because of her weird way of dancing.

Eventually I'm dancing by myself, just having fun with friends, and CrazyHair comes out of nowhere and starts dancing infront of me, facing me. She grabs my hands and dances with me, and we look into each others eyes for a while. Now I'm so confused. I thought she auto-rejected. Now she's smiley and whatnot..? Okay, whatever, I'm with it. Then I stop it and she tells me, "I'm so happy right now." Granted we're all on A LOT of drugs. I say, "I am too!" and then I continue to dance by myself.

I dance with LightHair again, and this time I start to make small moves on here. Coincidentally, this is where DarkHair's boyfriend decides to tell them it's time to go. So she leaves, and I just start dancing with myself again.

The show comes to a close, and we start to gather everyone to head out. Charismatic forgets his bag, so I wait with CrazyHair for a while. We go looking for him, but eventually give up and head to the car. There's a massive crowd, so I decide to do some touch and grab her hand to lead her through. I lean over and tell her, "I don't want you to lose me." To which she responds, "I won't lose you," with a nice smile. I'm starting to think this'll actually happen. So I'm leading her through, and then she kinda pulls my hand down to her crotch, "accidentally." Okay, it is gonna' happen I guess.

As we're walking I'm making small talk and just calmly walking with her. Here it's basically me just doing some protective touch to prevent her from tripping and shit.

We get in the car and head back. This time, we invited quite a few people back to the hotel. We get back and start drinking. We're all just chilling there, me, Charismatic, my friend Ginger and his girl, and then CrazyHair. Thenn, the two girls from the first night walk in. I'm like, "Okay, whatever, I'm really not in the mood to make a move on them." And THEN, five dudes walk through the door that me and Charismatic did NOT invite. Okay. I look at Charismatic and we give each other the same look, "Did these dudes seriously just ruin this for us?" So we get to work on getting them to leave. And by get to work, I mean me and Charismatic talk to CrazyHair, Ginger and his girl talk, we're all closed off from the five dudes and two girls. I'm sorry, there's no way I'm saving them haha. Eventually three of the dudes leave, and it's just two on two on the other side of the room. I'm like, "Okay, as long as we don't entertain them, they'll eventually leave." I said this to Charismatic, and RIGHT as I do that, the two girls leave. And we all know what happens when two dudes are standing awkwardly in the doorway when everyone else is occupied, and their only options to talk to just left... Yeah they said their goodbyes. We traded them some Tequila for their Vodka, and they were on their way. Me and Charismatic just bust out laughing, and after around five minutes, we go outside for a smoke. We're talking for a bit, and then he's like, "well, let's do this."

So we head back inside, I talk to Ginger for a bit, but he's so faded at this point. Then Charismatic heads into the room,and I shrug, look at Ginger, then head inside myself.

Word to the wise, this is my second threesome, and they're awkward. You have to laugh or you won't make it out alive haha. We're just making out with her, laughing, adjusting our positions, and we just get down to it.

I take a leaf from Anatman's book, and after it's all said and done I ask her why she came up to us. She says,

"Well I liked your hair and you guys seemed cool. (Good vibe) You were a little stand offish though, so that was why I said no to dancing with you."

Makes sense now that I think about it. Basically translated out of girl language: "I thought you were hot, but you didn't make a move soon enough. So your friend was hot as well so I went after him."

Cool, learned a lesson and it ended well anyways.

In the morning I get her number, but she lives in a different state. Oh well, maybe I'll be passing through one day .

LESSONS LEARNED HERE:
If a girl compliments you first, she probably has a high sex drive, knows what she wants, and has extremely small escalation windows.
If at first you don't succeed, try try again. Just because she didn't dance with me doesn't mean I couldn't have gotten her number later.
Vibe is so key. People were coming up to us because they felt it and it was good. Being the life of the party has advantages.
Stop drinking so much. I had hero's dick and couldn't come lol.
I'm not counting this towards the FRC, because I didn't really do anything at all. Just a learning experience honestly.

I made a few approaches during the week, and realized how fun being polarizing is.

I was approaching around town while I was running errands, and I had on a pretty ridiculous outfit. I looked like something out GTA: Vice City. So the first approach I made, this girl was down. I approached her direct, which I seem to prefer nowadays, and then within literally a few minutes I asked her out. She said she was leaving tomorrow, which didn't work out at all for me, I had work later that day and then the next day was booked solid. Cut the losses and continued approaching throughout the day.

I approached 8 more girls and got nothing done. NOTHING. It was weird. I didn't feel like I was getting rejected because of what I was saying, but more because of how I was coming off. The girls just weren't into it.

So I realized I'm being polarizing as fuck. It's interesting, because the first girl hooked within seconds, and no other girls would hook at all. It was a fun learning experience.

I approached my first two set the other day, and it was actually really fun. I went direct on one of the girls and they just started talking to me. Unfortunately they were only in town for that day, so I couldn't do anything.

That same day, I'm texting back and forth with this girl, PersianTease.

So she says she might see me, and we flirt back and forth over texts subtly.

Her: Happy Birthday! Partying tonight? 10:20 AM
Me: Thank you and nah 11:24 AM (I really thought I wasn't gonna. )
Her: Are you going to Charismatic's? 1:36 PM
Me: What's he doing? 1:37
Her: I thought he was having a party 1:39 PM (This is the first of me hearing of this lol)
Me: I dunno we'll see haha 1:39 PM
Her: Well if you go you should grab my hookah for me 1:40 PM (Lol do I look like a dog? I don't play fetch haha)

I hold off on texting her for a bit. It's a rule of mine I usually don't do anything girls ask me to do, within reason obviously.

Me: Are you going? 10:43 PM (At this point I'm properly tipsy haha)
Her: I might for a bit. mainly to get my hookah...I'm babysitting for another 15 minutes though. 10:44 PM
Her: If you guys are going I'll stay 10:44 PM (A reference to me, Ginger, and Fluffy)
Me: Yeah, we're going 10:45 PM
Her: Who's we? 10:45 PM
Me: You're so concerned about who I bring to what haha 10:47 PM
Her: Haha and you never answer! I'm just curious who's gonna be there 10:48 PM
Me: I'm bringing Fluffy and Ginger, that's all I know 10:48 PM
Her:Okay! I'll probably see you guys at some point tonight 11:09PM

My text game is getting increasingly natural. If I feel like responding right away I do, but usually I literally forget to respond. Anyways I figure she's interested in one of the three of us, so I decide to see what this is gonna be all about. I work from 1-10 PM, so I get pretty drunk there cause I work at a bar.

We head out at like 12:30, and get there. And man, this is actually a decent party. I hug her on the way in and let my obnoxious drunk game take over. I talk to everyone and get in some good conversations. I see a couple girls I know, say hi, and then LightHair from the last weekend walks in. Lol, she actually looks a lot different than I remember, so I barely talk to her. Me and Ginger start scouting for girls. We try talking to LightHair for a bit, but it really doesn't work out. And by we, I mean yes, we. There's not a lot of girls here lol.

So eventually the party dies down and Fluffy, Charismatic, and his friend head out to get some coals for hookah, leaving me, Ginger, and PersianTease there. I don't really think anything is gonna' happen, but I decide to try anyways because that's how you learn. So as she's changing the music I get behind her, say some nonsense about what's playing, and then start dancing up behind her. She dances with me, so we dance for a little bit. I have a pretty simple dancing formula. Grind on them, wait a little bit, then flip them around, grab their chin, and kiss them. So I do exactly that and she melts into it. I try pushing her onto the bed in the room, but she laughs and deflects me. Ginger sees us and he's made out with this girl before. So we're all making out and I think we can all fuck, haha. Unfortunately as things are heating up, I think for the last time, Charismatic, Fluffy, and his other friend walk in. Damn.

So we sit for a bit and smoke hookah. Now it's like 3 or 4 in the wee morn'. Then I think I missed a good escalation window. PersianTease decides to give me a ride home, to which I realize I don't really live there anymore LOL. So we drove over to my area, but then ended up turning back. I didn't really know how to escalate here. I should've just told her to pull over and tried to fuck her in her car. Oh well. As we're headed back I'm leaning over and kissing her. She deflected some of them but accepted a few.

So we drive back, and Ginger walks up. Then he decides to get in and we decide to go to PersianTease's brother's house. He's not home. Yesss...

This is where shit starts to suck.

We get there, it's like 4:30-5:00 in the morning. and all of a sudden she is not into it. She just wants to talk now. I'm like, "what the fuck?" So now I know why she's a tease. We're talking and the topic is sex. Charismatic and Fluffy both told me she's a virgin, but I asked her anyway. She confirms that she is indeed, a virgin. Well that sucks, I have no experience with that. For some reason high sex drive, high lay count girls seem to be attracted to me. So I'm trying to get her in the mood but it's definitely just dead. I'm giving her ass a massage, but she won't let me go much further. We stay up, and I'm persisting until like 7:30 AM until I finally decide we're just gonna' pass out. I do, and then she gives me and Ginger a ride to the train station. I head to my mom's and pass out.

LESSONS LEARNED:
Get that escalation window. Find a way, or at least try.
Read up on that virgin girl post on the site.

That's what's new, see ya'll soon.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Got a few approaches in today, but didn't wake up early enough to go downtown like I wanted to. Nevertheless, got two approaches in, one I got a number from.

The first one, I was slowly talking to people and gaining some energy. I've noticed that the more people I talk to, no matter what they're reaction, I get some energy from them. So I've got some decent energy going. I'm walking and I see this girl waiting to cross the street. This'll be the first girl I want to approach, and this is actually the first time I approach the first girl I see.

I see her boots, and they're an interesting choice. It's pretty warm out, like 80 or so degrees, so I take a mental note of that. Next, I see that she's kinda' cute, but nothing really special, so I decide to open like so:

Tapping her on the shoulder, "Hey, I have to say your boots are awesome, and you're incredibly cute." After I say this, she thanks me, moves her hand to adjust her hair a little bit, and then says something like, "It's really hot and I'm sweaty, I'm totally not sexy right now." This was all said in a friendly, kinda' self-deprecation tone so I'm not thrown off.

And then we get to talking. Find out she's not doing anything, should've insta-dated her but I didn't think quick enough/pussied out. I continue to deep dive her and she seems pretty cool honestly. It's one of my faster number pulls - like 2-3 minutes at the most - I grab her number and then say I have to head out and give her a hug goodbye.

I noticed that my eye contact with her was good because of how relaxed I was beforehand. I think when I'm asking questions I should adjust my tone on some of them to show more dominance, as that's something I'm practicing lately. So instead of lifting my tone at the end of the question, keep it flat like the form of a command, and then when she responds, adjust my tone with my next statement there. Like something from the conversation,

"What are you up to today?" (I always screen for logistics like this, it's not the smoothest question, but I don't have anything else yet."

Her: "Blah blah blah"
Me:"Blah blah blah"

But instead, maybe with strong flirty eye contact,

"What are you up to today."
Her:"Blah blah blah"
Me:"OH! That's interesting!" And show vocal variety there. Just something to play around with.

But anyways, I sent her an ice breaker that she responded to within 6 minutes. Not gonna' get my hopes up too high there, but good sign nonetheless.

My second approach I wasn't paying enough attention, and wasn't quick enough with my reactions.

I'm walking back home, about to get ready for work. I see this redhead girl, she's cute and she's walking in the opposite direction as her. I let her pass me then do the little turn trick and open her with a compliment on her hair (I love gingers). She likes the opener, I can tell, but when I ask her what her day's planned out like she tells me she's with her family, about 5 feet behind her, trailing. I totally disengage here and tell her to have a good day. I didn't know how to work that. So I guess that's my first family approach, indirectly.

All in all a decent day, and I'm getting in the "zone" a lot faster and easier now.

Tomorrow, I'm going to hit the club HARD for about five hours. I'm gonna' have a wing, so that's good. I'm hoping to have another night like I had last time, where I get rejected by like 30 girls or something stupid-awesome like that, but maybe a few number pulls and makeouts sprinkled in haha.

Stay inspired,

Jake. +4

 

[Smurf]

Yo.

Went out in the day, made two approaches but they didn't go anywhere haha. First one was a hard language barrier I had to overcome, I couldn't lol. Second, when I opened her I noticed a cold sore on her lip, not Fucking with that.

Worked out, then went out to night game, which is still my weakest point. Approached like 30 girls, no dances, no pulls, no make outs, nothing. I literally didn't stop opening until the club closed. It was weird, because I was opening right when I got there. I opened two sets, groups, EVERYTHING.

I'm chalking it up to not being dominant enough and not remembering names. If I remembered names I could've pulled girls together and created massive social proof. Gotta remember names. Girls didn't even respond well on the dance floor, I was straight getting rejected. I'd open them and they turned away.

All night, I'm introducing my wing to all the groups I open. Of course, he does none of this himself. Then, of fucking course, the second girl he asks to dance he dances with.

Eventually toward the end of the night my vibe deteriorated. I would open girls and it almost felt like they felt bad for me. I'd open them and grab their hands, and one actually said, "okay, yeah yeah." The last girl I opened patted me on the shoulder like she felt pity for me.

The only thing I really did well was to keep pushing. There's something seriously wrong with my nighttime game and I'll have to figure out what it is. I'm going out again next Friday, so my plan will be to remember names and be more dominant I guess.

Jake.

 

[ocantu1987]

sounds alot like my night man. I went salsa dancing and majority of girls wouldnt dance with me and one girl pushed me to get away from them ouch lol night game is a different beast girls in daygame are much nicer so far ime.

 

[Smurf]

Thanks guys!

Yeah, it's TOTALLY different. I feel way more confident in day game honestly haha.

Yeah, I think I was coming in too entertainer like and wasn't being smooth with it. I'll definitely be trying that out next Friday though, I forgot to move girls as well.

I also don't know what to talk about in night game. It feels like such shallow conversation. I don't try and talk on the floor too much, I get into conversation outside usually. My usual ball busting is too subtle and I need more of a neg style maybe.

I'll definitely do better next week

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Recently I've been inspired to be much more consistent in this process, and life in general. I'm motivated to improve, and the second half of this year will show that. I'm going to let my thoughts truly flow in this journal from now on. I hope you guys can relate and get involved.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

The Birth of Two Challenges

Time to step it up.

I'm creating two challenges for myself now. I'm going to try and speed up my progress significantly. They're called the 30 Day Challenge and The 1000 Approach Challenge.

The 30 Day Challenge will be designed to get me more attuned to approaching and let me recognize a few patterns faster. The 1000 Approach Challenge is designed to see how much I can/will improve over the course of 1000 approaches. It'll teach me consistency, accountability, and I can truly see progress when I analyze the day of the first approach to the day of the last. I'll detail my goals and rules below.

The 30 Day Challenge

Approach for 30 days in a row. I'll have specific goals I'll have to meet as well, so I fall accountable.

GOALS: Set up a date, get an insta-date, get a group of 10 girls at once in the club, club makeout, a club move, attempted date pull.

I must have 1-2 goals finished per week. By the end of two weeks I must have three of the 6 goals met.

1000 Approach challenge

Approach 1000 girls. Progress check ins at every 100. If I'm not seeing solid improvement I must sit down and seriously rethink my approach technique.

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So these should help me improve tremendously. I'm starting now. Today. We'll see where this gets me. I'm also going to have more specific reflections of each of my nights/days out.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

First Days of Challenge: 1/1000, 1/30

Yo.

The first day of my challenge wasn't too exciting, but it was a Sunday after all.

I just approached one girl, and I ejected a little too soon. It's all good, as long as I'm working towards my goals this is fine.

I meditated today, which felt great, and it was a lot easier than the first time. I plan to do it every day.

Jake.

 

[Raqimus]

Re: First Days of Challenge: 1/1000, 1/30

The first day of my challenge wasn't too exciting, but it was a Sunday after all.

Jake.

Excuse!

 

[Smurf]

You're right, I'll do better today

 

[Smurf]

3/1000, 2/30

Yo.

Made two more approches today. Ended up hanging out with friends for a while today so that stopped me quite a bit.

First approach was a girl who had a boyfriend, so that ended that haha.

Second was my first three set(!), but they blew me out pretty quick.

Later, I went out pool hopping with PersianTease, one of her friends, Ginger and I. Her friend is actually pretty cute. We end up playing it pretty cool, because they mention they're having a party Thursday night. So I'll end up making my move there.

All in all, it was a pretty good day, didn't get as much done as I could, but then again it was good, challenging slightly, and relaxing at the end.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

5/1000, 3/30

Terrible day but I found one of the core aspects of my happiness.

I didn't work out today, and combine that with two girls boosting me out, and a shitty workday, I was in a BAD mood. Then, I did a two workout with two of my best friends and boom, mood good again. I have to workout. It's literally a happiness mood enhancer for me. It improves every aspect of my life instantly. It's great honestly.

Anyways, tomorrow should be a better day.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

10/1000, 4/30 Am I getting Worse?

Yo.

Went out and got 5 approaches in. I think I'm getting approach anxiety the MORE I approach in a day.

My first approach I was totally ready. She blew me out pretty quickly though. The second girl also blew me out. Next two girls dipped into a store quickly.

So now after that I was thinking: Okay, something in my approach must be off. I then decided to totally disarm her and smile, while saying, "Didn't mean to scare you at all." It's a little supplicating but apparently I'm coming in too strong?

So next approach is a girl who can't speak english. HA. Next is on the busride home, I'm talking to these two girls on the bus. They're friends. I try and talk to the first one, smiling at her while I do that. She doesn't smile. So I talk to the other one, who seems more receptive, but still kinda' seems creeped out.

So at this point I don't want to approach at all if I'm coming off like this, so I call it a day. I feel like I'm getting worse though. Sometimes I can approach only three girls and get a number. Ever since I started this challenge though, girls have been getting creeped out, and blowing me out super fast. I know it's not how I'm dressed, I had on a good shirt, nice fitting pants and nice shoes with some good accessories. It's not my face, I'm smiling as I'm opening and I'm coming in from the side always. I also noticed this only happens downtown when I'm approaching, nowhere else. I really don't understand this, I really hope I'm not regressing - is that even possible? This challenge is supposed to make me more comfortable and push my comfort zone, as well as get me used to approaching. Maybe I should change that goal to just destroying me ego: make it so I approach with an indifferent attitude, because it's really becoming demotivating and weird that all of a sudden in this journey I'm getting blown out like I just started. It's something to really think about, and I'll see if it continues.

Hoping to grind it out again tomorrow. I'm 1% into my goal haha. 26 more days to go.

Jake.