Legend of King Kaida

[Kaida]

Another Notch Downnn Just hit double digitss. It was pretty much all online though. I’m not gonna write LRs for those.

My Lay spread is as follows:

Online: 4

Cold approach / Street Game: 3

Social Circle: 3

Been slowing down on street game. I need to start that up more though since my goal isn’t just sex. I’m trying to build deep connections and have actual connections with these women.

One thing I noticed is the 2 bodies that I cared the most about and had the most satisfaction from sex from were both the most beautiful and the ones I was most invested in.
Maybe my lack of satisfaction issue is partly lack of connection and partly lack of quality. Because I noticed that I really don’t care to build connections with less beautiful girls lol. In my mind its like whats the point.

But with the beautiful girls its not even like I’m trying to build a connection, its like a byproduct of my investment in them. I treat them more romantically which leads to them treating me the same

 

[Kaida]

Almost just pulled from probably the best party in terms of girl to guy ratio I’ve ever seen holy shit. I’m talking about 8 girls to one guy, shit was insane.

This girl was one I met a few weeks ago, 60k followers on instagram. She wasn’t very responsive when I slid up on her story so I just let her go.

I went crazy in terms of preselection at the party. Groups of girls around me, laughing hard at jokes I made and shit. One even bent over in front of me jokingly in full view of everyone.

I saw this instagram model a few minutes layer but I was going to just greet her and return to my own shi, but she was unusually clingy. Obviously hooked her.

Had a fun conversation. Moved her around the venue like 3 times. Ended up moving her outside away from everyone and we had our own little bubble alone.

Had some sex talk. My first time using barriers: “we’d never work out cuz you’d nag me and then we’d fuck and then it’d be just a toxic cycle”. I was expecting that to blow up because she was a girl that was hard to get to qualify but it worked lmao. She also qualified saying its not toxic and that its fun that way or something.

Was very physical with her when we were alone. Grabbing ass, tits, etc. Full Hector Style. One point I picked her up and walked her around.

When it was time to pull her objection that I couldn’t get past was that “we don’t know each other” and “I only get wild on the weekends, you can catch me then”. She also had an 8am class.

Her friends came after the party ended saying it was time to go, so I made her give me a kiss on the cheek and we parted ways.

Might work out, might not. This girl is very attractive too, massive titties.

I also might see some spillover from all the preselection. People definitely saw me leave the party with her, they probably don’t know we just stayed outside lmao

 

[Kaida]

Another notch BABY Its the same girl as above^^ Cold Approach / SC

Time in School: <8 weeks
Notches since arrival: 9
Total: 11

I’m getting better at building connection - its still not how I want it to feel but its progress

She has massive perky titties. I walked up to her during a mini event.

When I met this girl at first she didn’t seem too interested. She denied giving me her number and gave me her instagram, but then I saw she had 60,000 followers and only 100 following so I didnt even bother.


Met her today sitting alone outside at a party. We had a fun light chat before we went deeper. She was complaining to me about her controlling boyfriend and shit & I was just relating and getting positivity out if it. She also told me towards the end that at therapy they said she’s bipolar and depressed and had anxiety . Dunno if thats real or this is just one of those cases of a girl accepting different labels to look different.

I was already so far in and didn’t really think it would hurt me so I brought her home anyway.

I fingered her really good, but sex was ass. I nutted fast the first time like I usually do and couldn’t get hard the second round (definitely psychological, I was growing but lost the boner once she started saying “put it inn”. Too much pressure. I really wanted to give this one good sex too.

Her boyfriend was calling while I was trying to get hard & we were both ignoring it, but once it was obvious I wasn’t going to we just packed up her things.

 

[Kaida]

This girl was tryna mess with me, but I didn’t rrally talk to her other than a quick hi as Insaw her wall by. She swiped up on my shirtless story post saying my back looked insane. I just said thanks and had a quick convo.

Now its a few weeks and I’ve been fucking around quite a bit talking to lots of girls. An hour ago I post another story of me looking good and she sends me THIS put of nowhere??

https://flic.kr/p/2pb5gt4
…???

That shit not even accurate at all. Literally ALL of the girls I’ve fucked are attractive other than a single girl who doesn’t even go here anymore.

I only invited her over because she looked good at the party, but when she got to my door she was looking chopped as fuck. I would have felt bad about sending her back and also didnt want her to do some vindictive shit to get back at me

I should have responded more strongly, but I felt compelled to respond fast. That better not be my rep. You live and die by your reputation here

No idea how to proceed now since she just leaving me on read

 

[TomInHo]

That's actually pretty funny no lie. Girl is in love with you

 

[AspiringStoic]

@Kaida

For the not being able to get hard stuff, do you still watch porn?

I see earlier in your journal you mentioned Nofap. But we need to make a difference between just masturbation to imagination without any sort of aids and watching porn or with pics or any other aid. People associate both together and completely abstain from masturbating all together and do "No Fap" streaks but then when they do masturbate they do with porn.

In my experience PORN is the problem. People did not have ED problems at a young age before streaming on demand Internet porn came about and people have been masturbating for centuries. I would say try completely cutting out PORN from your life if you have not done so and I think your erections and libido will all naturally be fine.

I struggled from the same issue, if a guy in his 20s has ED issues most likely porn is always the cause, not testosterone or minerals or any other stuff and we end up concentrating on all that stuff instead of completely weeding out porn.

 

[Kaida]

@Kaida

I struggled from the same issue, if a guy in his 20s has ED issues most likely porn is always the cause, not testosterone or minerals or any other stuff and we end up concentrating on all that stuff instead of completely weeding out porn.

The erection problem has definitely gotten better. Havent fapped at all since late July (I have done some edging though to train my stamina). Morning wood is more frequent and my erections are a bit harder.

I cant stay hard in certain positions very well. For missionary I have to really focus to stay hard, but for doggystyle or backshots I’m always fine cuz I can stare at the ass and that’ll keep me going

I see earlier in your journal you mentioned Nofap. But we need to make a difference between just masturbation to imagination without any sort of aids and watching porn or with pics or any other aid.

Dang all visual aids count? When I was weaning off porn I would sometimes use pics of fine women in tight clothes instead. I still did that recently to train my stamina

 

[AspiringStoic]

The erection problem has definitely gotten better. Havent fapped at all since late July (I have done some edging though to train my stamina). Morning wood is more frequent and my erections are a bit harder.

I cant stay hard in certain positions very well. For missionary I have to really focus to stay hard, but for doggystyle or backshots I’m always fine cuz I can stare at the ass and that’ll keep me going



Dang all visual aids count? When I was weaning off porn I would sometimes use pics of fine women in tight clothes instead. I still did that recently to train my stamina

Yeah if you have been watching porn, and now weaning away from it, I would strictly avoid all "ARTIFICIAL SEXUAL STIMULATION". I look at it as the Caveman Test. Just ask yourself would what you are using be available to a caveman ancestor? If the answer is no, stay away from it.

You see only two things pass that test. 1. Sex with a woman 2. Masturbating to your imagination.

I just say this because I have struggled from this problem a lot. And I got really bad advice in the beginning. I was looking at things like best exercises for sex, testosterone enhancing foods, stamina, cardio and all this stuff. All these are good, but if you have erection trouble as a young guy, in 99.99 percent of the cases it has nothing to do with any of these. All I had to do was cut out all artificial sexual stimulation and in around 6-9 months almost everything was back to normal. Damn! I wasted so much time bullshitting around.

 

[AspiringStoic]

Oh and sorry I forgot to mention. Please do not edge. That is the worst!! If you do feel like masturbating, just do it and get it over with fast. The erection trouble is mostly due to dopamine receptors being down regulated due to having unnaturally high dopamine for long periods when you were watching porn. And edging to pictures or other stimuli is reinforcing this and actually doing the opposite of healing you.

My suggestion would be give your brain a rest from sexual stimulation. Your problem is in the brain, not in the penis. So again I would say stay away from all artificial stimulation including erotic stories or pics or whatever and if you do masturbate, do it to touch and imagination, preferably with a lube and without a hard grip.

I am almost certain that if you do this, you will be back to normal without having to do anything else.

 

[Kaida]

Another notch Online / SC

Time in School: 9 weeks
Notches since arrival: 10
Total: 12

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This one made me realize just how much the seduction is just leading strongly. I think thats just the main thing that separates me from most guys, I read signals very well and pounce on them vs the other dudes who “wait for the right time” forever.

Cuz someone I know told me he has been messing with her for a week trying to get her to come over and she was bullshitting with him. This conversation brought her into my mind so I decided to message her and fucked her the same day

That was my first time having period sex. She was resistant until I told her that I didn’t care. I definitely do care tho lol, I never thought I’d have period sex before, but I’m not going to say no to a new notch just cuz of that. If we fuck again it wont be on her period.

She said I was her second body, her first one was in her hometown. Couldn’t really take dick tho, not sure if that was cuz of the period.

She was pretty sweet, not as good as labor day girl but shes a cool one. I feel like she’ll get clingy though

 

[Kaida]

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Me and this girl were texting on snapchat, we havent met in person yet, except for maybe 10 seconds at the club when she told me to hit her up. Got her to come up to my room.

My dorm building is kind of complicated so she went on a completely wrong elevator and had to come back down and take a different one.

She seemed a little frustrated over text. I would’ve gone to meet her but I was on the phone with my parents

As she got to my dorm and I opened the door to her, my parents were still on the phone.
I silently hugged her as she entered the suite and brought her to my room. I signaled I was otp and she nodded

After she got in the room I muted the phone & I pointed at the bed and said sit down. She did. It was a little awkward but I never tried diffussing it. Also my eyes were extremely red from some kind of allergies so that might have added to the kind of weird vibe.

I’m literally never awkward with girls in my room normally, this is literally just cuz I was on the phone trying to do some tactic

After about 5 minutes she said she had to take a call and walked out the room. She returned saying her friend had an asthma attack (yeah, right) in about the most calm demeanor imaginable and left . Wtf

She def wanted it too, literally the freest pussy ever but I fucked it up. If I didnt fuck a different girl an hour later I would still be mad as shit

After a few minutes, I texted and called her on snap but I realized she blocked me.

Okay… very weird development with this girl^ Read to the end, its incredibly odd (#2 is the weirdest ngl… I wanna know how to proceed)

Spoiler: Weird Instance #1

There was a club night 2 weeks ago when it was free for everyone. I knew it was going to be deep because it was our homecoming night too, so I put on my best fit.

I got lotss of compliments, lots of stares, and caught a whoole lot of ass that night. Prolly 20+ different girls danced on me.

It was like as soon as one left another one came. I’m sure the entire side of the club I was on saw my preselection

Towards the end of that night, I found a compliant one that I made my girl for the night to try and pull. Everything was calm.
Then randomly, the girl from above (lets call her Ally) literally pops up out of nowhere next to me and starts to talk to my girl with that “woww you’re so prettyyy” BS

Ally is completely avoiding eye contact with me, and continues having an animated conversation with my girl. I think I try and join in casually but the energy stays between them.

It felt so weird, especially since I KNOW they don’t know each other (they were asking for each others names). It felt like she was trying just to shut me out.

I wasn’t tripping at all though. I’m not needy at all and end up just leaving to find some new ass.

Eventually my girl returned to me. Still very Odd from Ally

And thats still not all…

Spoiler: Weird instance #1.5

Later that same club night:

I was in the middle of a crowd jumping and singing a song. Just having fun. My girl wasn’t with me at the time. One of the few times I wasn’t with a girl that night

And suddenly Ally appears again, but now she gets in front of me and starts throwing ass on me lmao.

Lol girls are so fickle bro. Same hoe that left my room and blocked me on snapchat is now throwing ass cuz of the competition

I was mad confused but just went along with it. After a few seconds Allys friend stepped in between us trying to cockblock.

Probably expected me to chase the ass, but I really didnt gaf. I just turned around and got back to singing lol.

Next one is the absolute weirdest

Spoiler: Weird instance #2

I have a cousin at this school with me. Shes fairly attractive, like a 6-7. I hang out with her a shit ton in public, so people who don’t know us may assume we’re a thing.

So my cousin and I were chatting it up the other day talking about girls et cetera. She then told me that girls I’ve fucked have started to approach her:

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Cousin: Yeah, the other day this girl literally came up to me just to talk about how good the sex was with you

Me: Wait what?

C: Yeah it literally went like this:
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• Girl: *Walks up* You know Kaida right?
• Cousin: Uh, yeah…why?
• Girl: OMG he gave me the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. The dick just went right in like WOW it was amazing. How about you did you fuck?
• Cousin: No…
• Girl: Oh. Well do you want to?
• Cousin: No…
• Girl: Okay! *Walks off*

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Me: Wtf… describe her right now

Cousin: Short, red hair. She was really pretty actually

Me: *Pulls up picture of Ally’s instagram* Is this her??

Cousin: Yup. Thats her.

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I didn’t even fuck that girl. Wtf?

It kind of fits Allys personality profile from what I’ve seen. Shes a kind of loud “alpha” female (one of the fake ones imo, easy to calm down). So I can see her going this hard against competition

I DO want to fuck Ally though, but I’m not even sure if she actually wants me or is just trying to sabotage my game for whatever reason. We barely even talked and plus she blocked me.

Any tips on how to proceed? @TomInHo @Skills if you guys have the time and are willing to help)



Not sure if this is related but I also fucked one of her friends - Zeon (if u know the real name yk who I’m talking about) - so her just finding out about that may contribute to it. I don’t think Zeon is the type to tell people tho so idk.

 

[Skills]

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Okay… very weird development with this girl^ Read to the end, its incredibly odd (#2 is the weirdest ngl… I wanna know how to proceed)

Spoiler: Weird Instance #1

There was a club night 2 weeks ago when it was free for everyone. I knew it was going to be deep because it was our homecoming night too, so I put on my best fit.

I got lotss of compliments, lots of stares, and caught a whoole lot of ass that night. Prolly 20+ different girls danced on me.

It was like as soon as one left another one came. I’m sure the entire side of the club I was on saw my preselection

Towards the end of that night, I found a compliant one that I made my girl for the night to try and pull. Everything was calm.
Then randomly, the girl from above (lets call her Ally) literally pops up out of nowhere next to me and starts to talk to my girl with that “woww you’re so prettyyy” BS

Ally is completely avoiding eye contact with me, and continues having an animated conversation with my girl. I think I try and join in casually but the energy stays between them.

It felt so weird, especially since I KNOW they don’t know each other (they were asking for each others names). It felt like she was trying just to shut me out.

I wasn’t tripping at all though. I’m not needy at all and end up just leaving to find some new ass.

Eventually my girl returned to me. Still very Odd from Ally

And thats still not all…

Spoiler: Weird instance #1.5

Later that same club night:

I was in the middle of a crowd jumping and singing a song. Just having fun. My girl wasn’t with me at the time. One of the few times I wasn’t with a girl that night

And suddenly Ally appears again, but now she gets in front of me and starts throwing ass on me lmao.

Lol girls are so fickle bro. Same hoe that left my room and blocked me on snapchat is now throwing ass cuz of the competition

I was mad confused but just went along with it. After a few seconds Allys friend stepped in between us trying to cockblock.

Probably expected me to chase the ass, but I really didnt gaf. I just turned around and got back to singing lol.

Next one is the absolute weirdest

Spoiler: Weird instance #2

I have a cousin at this school with me. Shes fairly attractive, like a 6-7. I hang out with her a shit ton in public, so people who don’t know us may assume we’re a thing.

So my cousin and I were chatting it up the other day talking about girls et cetera. She then told me that girls I’ve fucked have started to approach her:

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Cousin: Yeah, the other day this girl literally came up to me just to talk about how good the sex was with you

Me: Wait what?

C: Yeah it literally went like this:
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• Girl: *Walks up* You know Kaida right?
• Cousin: Uh, yeah…why?
• Girl: OMG he gave me the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. The dick just went right in like WOW it was amazing. How about you did you fuck?
• Cousin: No…
• Girl: Oh. Well do you want to?
• Cousin: No…
• Girl: Okay! *Walks off*

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Me: Wtf… describe her right now

Cousin: Short, red hair. She was really pretty actually

Me: *Pulls up picture of Ally’s instagram* Is this her??

Cousin: Yup. Thats her.

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I didn’t even fuck that girl. Wtf?

It kind of fits Allys personality profile from what I’ve seen. Shes a kind of loud “alpha” female (one of the fake ones imo, easy to calm down). So I can see her going this hard against competition

I DO want to fuck Ally though, but I’m not even sure if she actually wants me or is just trying to sabotage my game for whatever reason. We barely even talked and plus she blocked me.

Any tips on how to proceed? @TomInHo @Skills if you guys have the time and are willing to help)



Not sure if this is related but I also fucked one of her friends - Zeon (if u know the real name yk who I’m talking about) - so her just finding out about that may contribute to it. I don’t think Zeon is the type to tell people tho so idk.

it seems she either was trying to gain intelligence or ruin what you had with a girl they thought you were saying though it actually was your cousin and she does not know this... little girl drama bs just lol....

if you are interested you can open the girl that likes drama with more drama... "why are you going around telling people we had sex and i was amazing, don't get me wrong i am flatter but what is all that about??"

 

[TomInHo]

Any tips on how to proceed? @TomInHo @Skills if you guys have the time and are willing to help)



Not sure if this is related but I also fucked one of her friends - Zeon (if u know the real name yk who I’m talking about) - so her just finding out about that may contribute to it. I don’t think Zeon is the type to tell people tho so idk.

Wow!! That girl is kind of awkward

Sounds like she really wanted to fuck you, and maybe her friend told her how good the sex was.

Because think about it. She left your place feeling like you rejected her, and then hearing you gave her friend good dick probably got her curious about why you didn't escalate on her

This is very good, and means you should be getting more easy pussy on campus with your good dick reputation. But I would text her like @Skills suggested and take things from there. Looks like she's still open to getting the King Kaida experience

PS: Girls tell other girls about guys they fuck all the time. Some of them will even refer their friends to you if you did a good job, are lowkey and cool

 

[Kaida]

Wow!! That girl is kind of awkward

Very much so

Sounds like she really wanted to fuck you, and maybe her friend told her how good the sex was.

Because think about it. She left your place feeling like you rejected her, and then hearing you gave her friend good dick probably got her curious about why you didn't escalate on her

Type shitttt

This is very good, and means you should be getting more easy pussy on campus with your good dick reputation. But I would text her like @Skills suggested and take things from there. Looks like she's still open to getting the King Kaida experience

Thing is I texted her and called her before she saw it and blocked me on snap, so I’d have to text her on insta to get in touch. Even tho she did twerk on me at the club we didn’t exchange any words at all.

Wouldn’t that be chasing or am I overthinking it?

I feel like theres a high chance she’ll try to get my attention at a party. She was looking at me at last thursdays halloween event.

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Very much so



Type shitttt



Thing is I texted her and called her before she saw it and blocked me on snap, so I’d have to text her on insta to get in touch. Even tho she did twerk on me at the club we didn’t exchange any words at all.

Wouldn’t that be chasing or am I overthinking it?

I feel like theres a high chance she’ll try to get my attention at a party. She was looking at me at last thursdays halloween event.

Let go

She blocked you and you try to reach out to her through other means .That's chasing.

Mere twerk and flirty behavior doesn't mean anything.Results over reactions.

Is she willing to do what you ask her to do?

Is she moving with you?

Is she agreeing to go back to yours?

Is she willing to kiss you?

Is she going to bed with you?


No to all that and your time is better spent on promising prospects

Chad Tyrone

 

[Kaida]

Brought a girl home a few minutes ago but she was on her period. Told her to give me a BJ and kicked her out nicely.

I’ve been nutting too often. Thats probably why I’m (slightly) slowing down on lays. Might participate in No Nut November to try and get my drive back.

I also have a newfound motivation to fuck everything in sight to show up this one girl I fucked previously. She gon hear about me getting girls finer than her and start to regret brushing me off

 

[Kaida]

I’m also going to try and most more texting FRs even if the texting is successful, as its been brought to my attention that my texting is pretty shit.

I can consider feedback as long as its helpful so any harsh criticism is appreciated

 

[Kaida]

Cracked another one today

Time in School: 12 weeks
Notches since arrival: 11
Total: 13

Heading to a massive college event in my home state this weekend before thanksgiving break, then I’m going back home.

Last time I was back in my home state I had way less experience. Cant wait to use my newfound powers over there.

Lots of fine women, and almost no reputation concerns . I’m hard just thinking about it

Only (big) problem is gonna be logistics. My house is on lockdown with both my Mom and Dad and 24/7 cameras. Thats probably why I wasnt fucking much back home.

I’ll figure something out tho. Show must go on

 

[KJ Francis]

Brought a girl home a few minutes ago but she was on her period. Told her to give me a BJ and kicked her out nicely.

I’ve been nutting too often. Thats probably why I’m (slightly) slowing down on lays. Might participate in No Nut November to try and get my drive back.

I also have a newfound motivation to fuck everything in sight to show up this one girl I fucked previously. She gon hear about me getting girls finer than her and start to regret brushing me off

Don't get bitter! Do it to find more girls you vibe with so you don't have to waste time talking with ones you don't! You are still going to feel attracted to your attainable options. One day they won't matter and you won't be attainable to them!

 

[KJ Francis]

Cracked another one today

Time in School: 12 weeks
Notches since arrival: 11
Total: 13

Heading to a massive college event in my home state this weekend before thanksgiving break, then I’m going back home.

Last time I was back in my home state I had way less experience. Cant wait to use my newfound powers over there.

Lots of fine women, and almost no reputation concerns . I’m hard just thinking about it

Only (big) problem is gonna be logistics. My house is on lockdown with both my Mom and Dad and 24/7 cameras. Thats probably why I wasnt fucking much back home.

I’ll figure something out tho. Show must go on

Wait a minute... 13 lifetime and you're laying one per week? Nice work