Man of action

[Spyce D]

How to Make Day Game Practical for Your Life

Many guys wish they could easily meet women as they go about their days without hesitation or fear. Well, you can, with the right strategy – however, it takes some short-term sacrifice. The Holy Grail of game for a great many men is the ability to be 'always on'. If you can reach that point, the...

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Currently on this curve .

 

[Spyce D]

Did 5 compliment opens today , motherfuckers .

That's it .


The goal was to get comfortable giving compliment to hot chicks .

Even the chick who was taller than me was happy .

 

[Spyce D]

Getting more comfortable going direct .

I am able to feel desire for women I see

 

[Spyce D]

Now ... I am on the arc of " learning and handling conversations with chicks I cold open " .

And to learn it easily I have actually made some female friends recently ....

Experimenting with them what works and what doesn't lol.

Learning more about the female psychology .... In any way possible .

Add females to your social life! You need to become as comfortable shooting the shit with women as you are shooting the shit with guys who have the same interests as you. If you can't talk to a girl for a few hours and have it be fun, how can you seduce one?

I started with indirect .... Then slowly transitioned to indirect-direct and am currently in the phase of transitioning to direct cuz it really suits me . Cuz I look sexy lol.

Fundamentals do matter.

On a serious note , current aim in Daygame is not to get this or that but to be able to generate and enjoy the conversations with the hotties .

I have also made a social circle and meeting with friends ....and now have added a few female friends too in my circle , whether ugly or hot .

In coming weeks ... I am getting enrolled into salsa classes .

If you guys have been reading this journal from the start and other previous posts from me showcasing my struggles , you will know that I have made a small progress.

 

[Spyce D]

But ...I am still not comfortable cold opening any chick .

 

[Spyce D]

K.

I need to push myself forward , more.

Anxiety will be there .... But what can done about it . Huh?

Anyways , good news is that my anxiety and panick levels are falling down .

I have become more outgoing , social .....
Somehow have been able to talk with any chick wherever possible ( different from cold approaching) .


Beauty no longer faze me as such now cuz IME they actually reject more politely haha .


1. Now ... I will simply use compliment openers as warm ups .


2. I will be focussing on speaking past opener , now .

Even if it means just to exchange names , and a small talk .


I donot care about numbers , lays currently cuz I want to learn to crawl , before I learn to walk and then eventually learn how to run.

 

[Spyce D]

My mentality is changing .

Now ... I don't feel scared as much as I used to feel .

And cuz I am taking action so I am able to get beginners and some intermediate guys to be my wing .

 

[Spyce D]

But ...I am still not comfortable cold opening any chick .

lol... how the times have changed .


I have going out regularly opening 2-6 chicks direct , ..... Oh boy! Had a snapchat close .... getting into coversation after opening them is becoming easier .



Actually , my life has gotten so busy ..that I frequent this website a lot less than I used to .

I have written my frs ..but in a notebook lol

Maybe , When I will be free I will post them here.

 

[Spyce D]

8 approaches .

1 insta close .

 

[Conquistador]

insta close

Read this and tell me what u think
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/surveying-the-topography.26564/post-160308

 

[Spyce D]

Read this and tell me what u think
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/surveying-the-topography.26564/post-160308

I initially
Asked for her number but she wasn't giving it ...

 

[Spyce D]

I am joining salsa classes from tomorrow .

All the people there in the batch will be new registrations only .

As , I have been added to their WA group , I saw there are cuties .

Great .

I am so excited and so nervous as well .

My life has changed completely ....

And will get better and better till I become one of the best seducer in the world ...

 

[Spyce D]

Wow ! I was just reading my journal and realised that how far I have come from the beginning .

The progress will keep on coming

 

[Spyce D]

Fr 4 / 11 / 2023

Did 4 direct opens and 1 indirect opens and few indirect opens today .

Good thing is that most of chicks were above good looking and DAMN never knew that even hot college chicks can like me .

Funny thing is that approach anxiety isn't much there ( there is a bit of hesitation ) .

But why would I be even scared of AA that much .

I had already been dealing with lot of b.s. this whole year - anxiety , panic attacks , ocds , dpdr , existential dread , depressive nihilism ..... Which I am now able to get a grip on , thankfully .

Cuz the source of all these problems was actually a small issue . Funny how small issues if unresolved can fuck you up ..


Maybe that's why my AA doesn't affect me that much , now .

What I have realised is discipline + consistency is essential in conquering the demons .

 

[Spyce D]

Today was still a bad day but it is closer to my best days 2 months ago .

Now , that's something I never imagined .

 

[Spyce D]

Went out again .

Ended up approaching 5 girls .

But couldn't make a convo even tho the last one wanted it .

But , on the bright side .... My worst days have gone from " I can't approach a girl " to " i couldn't push a convo " from July 2023 to present .

 

[Spyce D]

Zanshin: Learning the Art of Attention and Focus From a Legendary Samurai Archer

How to live your life intentionally and act with purpose.

jamesclear.com

My current philosophy in game .

 

[Spyce D]

Currently , few things to work on .

1. Having a sex vibe that comes from inside me , and not just from my dressing sense .

2. Play to win . I was a bit lenient and even scared to play to win . I was focused more on not losing .

3. Rectify my inner self dialogue and beliefs regarding my self worth .

 

[Spyce D]

Ok ... So there is a pattern I have noticed this past week is that in every 5 approaches in Daygame ... I can definitely find atleast one girl who is happy from the get go .

Let's see if It is really true.

My skills are improving but what I can say ... Now its more are me staying in the game rather than just running after results . ( Cuz sometimes it's tough when chicks flake )

Cuz , I think it's right that if I focus on results that are really big like lays and dates ... Then it will simply put me under pressure .

Hence , it's better that I just keep on reaching hook points , convos on daily basis till it becomes my comfort zone .

Guess , I am not lucky as some folks .

Anyways , I also need to get my life back in order.

 

[Spyce D]

Today , only did one direct .

I wasn't feeling like going out ... Was feeling a bit fucked up .NGL.

Actually helped a newbie approach twice . So that was a + .

So , is it common that somedays you don't feel like approaching even though you have been going out daily .