Manhattan Solo DG

[Mikedee]

Why is it hard for me personally?

It’s all just mental gymnastics. Maybe it’s the mainstream media, maybe it’s social media but Western society has brainwashed people into thinking age is a huge deal. Sure, when it comes to life experience in the material world, age matters. But on a spiritual level? It means nothing. Love is the real connection, the only thing that truly bridges people. No matter the situation, always return to love and let others feel that energy.

Chase wrote an article about being more outward-focused rather than inward, maybe that could help. Keep the focus where it matters.

 

[bkw]

I been putting off dg because of the cold weather. Keep up the good work

It's been in the 20s here, but feels like the teens due to windchill. If I can do it, you can do it!

 

[AspiringStoic]

2/20/25 - Approach 4 (DG)

Overview:

I would say today I only had one sticking point, and that's the "she's too young" thing, which I'll explain in a bit. Other than that, I feel I did fairly well as I did manage to approach a girl that walked into a girly shop, as I said I would from the last post. I was also pretty unenthused today, so I felt blasé; flat. I'm also starting to feel like maybe I should start doing proper front stops due to girls not stopping.

Approach 1 - Asian girl from London

I see that Asian girl. She stops at the corner of the street on the curb and I approach with my typical opener (I basically use a variation of the same opener all the time, so I'm not going to write what I say, unless it's different). She looked surprised and didn't hook and kind of looked like she wanted to leave, so I didn't push it.

Approach 2 - Girl texting in Soho

I did a weak approach on this girl and basically she said she didn't want to talk. Fair enough.

Approach 3 - Tall Scottish girl in a girl shop

Saw this tall white girl walk past me on the street. It's one of those girls you feel like she's almost out of your league for whatever reason. When I turned around, she proceeded to walk into the same girly shop the other girl walked into yesterday, but because one of my goals today was to approach women who go into stores, I hesitated a second, then went in. I approached her in a tight aisle with a variation of my typical opener. She hooked nicely and smiled and kind of lifted my spirit, if I'm to be honest, as I was feeling flat; like a shot of dopamine or something. She's really nice and asking me questions, so she's contributing nicely. I find out she's from Scotland. She's here visiting her sister until Saturday. After some talking, I ask her if she'd like to grab coffee before she leaves and she does the, "mmmmmmm..." so I know it's basically a "no." All good though. She really only has a couple of days left anyway, and it was a good interaction that I took a lot away from, which I'll speak of more in a moment...

Approach 4 - Briskly walking white girl

I follow this girl for a block as I was looking for a proper spot to open. Finally, I open, but another weak-ass open and she keeps walking at the same speed while I'm standing there hoping she'd stop basically. She hears me and says, "yes, go ahead" or something but I say "never mind" as I just knew it was not going anywhere (hard to explain, but if you were there you'd agree). Not worth plowing through. In fact, I'm not even sure plowing in day game is even something I think is necessary, or something I want to do, personally. Like, if she's not interested, or if my stop was whack and I blow it, then the chances you're going to get a girl in that situation hooked are very low, and who really wants a girl not that into you or the conversation anyway?

MAJOR sticking point (feedback welcome):

Alright, so, this is a sticking point that has always been a confusing sticking point for me. It's the "she's too young" sticking point. Why is it hard for me personally? Because I actually authentically BELIEVE that the girls I see are too young to approach, like I'm too old for them or something. Most likely they are in their early 20s if I were to guess. So this is something I think I need to actively tackle when I feel it. Similarly to how I approached the girl in the girly shop, and then finding a girl who hooked and a great interaction, I likely can find the same if I approach these "too young" girls. I almost feel like I need that reference point right now. It's a big sticking point because the vast majority of the girls I might consider approaching I think this way lately, and if this excuse(?) was gone my approaches would likely double per outing. Therefore, I think I need to make this a big priority on my next outing: "approach girls you think are too young" -- mainly for reference. I think this will help this weird shit going on in my head, which I BELIEVE, that's the issue.

Things I did good:

1. Approached a girl who went into a girl shop. Got a good reference point out of it too. Turned out to be a great interaction.
2. Approaching even though I felt out of it. This is important because I was out of it when I approached the girl in the store and it really turned my mood around and made me feel good to have that interaction. Even more importantly, it shows you can feel flat and good things can still happen.

Goals for next outing:

1. IF YOU THINK SHE'S TOO YOUNG, APPROACH FOR REFERENCE POINTS.
2. Approach girls who walk into shops.
3. Start doing proper front stops on girls who are walking fast.

Weekly stats (2/17 - 2/23):
7 approaches

Great job infiels! Regarding the sticking point some good questions to ask yourself would be what exactly do you mean when you say they are too young for you or that you are too old for them?

Do you feel like there is something wrong with you just because you have lived longer than someone? Like how does that make sense?

Do you feel like you are manipulating young girls into doing something they should not do?

Do you feel like a young person hanging out with you, dating you and having sex with you is something that is going to be a net negative for them? If so, why?

Don't you think as a 39 year old guy, if you interact with a younger girl, you will pass on good qualities and your life experience to her that will enhance her life? If not, why not?

Really think about and answer them. When we say too old, too young we are repeating random social conditioning that has been fed to us for decades and that we have unquestioningly internalized.

The first step to breaking free is to become conscious about it and question it..

 

[HyperActi7e]

2/16/25 - Approach 3 + 2# closes (DG)

Man, I've been inspired so much after joining this forum and reading up on your guys' reports. I was very excited to go out today and to do some DG (daygame). This forum has given me "permission" to approach again, or at the least has rid me of apathy and excuses. Very valuable to be part of the community again...

Before coming here, I have had years of experience doing this, but on my own, and away from the community, I'm very apathetic to a fault. I'd walk around when I felt like it and was never really motivated to approach, or made the typical excuses: "she's too young", "I'm not really into her", etc., etc. So today was the first time in a long time I've done multiple approaches in a session, so it feels fucking great!

Approaches:

Approach #1 (Asian girl fishnet stockings)

I was out for 1 hr and 59 minutes today in midtown Manhattan. It is raining all day today, but doesn't matter to me because I'm currently very motivated, and I want to approach daily. The first place I went to was a huge Macy's store off 34th and 6th ave, mainly because it was raining, and I figure I'll give it a try. Walk around a bit, went up a couple floors, didn't really see much so I left. I then went inside a Target store. Same thing. Didn't see anything.

Finally, about 20 minutes in, I spot an Asian girl -- probably early 20s -- in fishnet stockings and looked kind of rebel-like. Before coming to these forums I almost certainly would have thought to myself, "too young", but once again, this forum has shed that excuse (thank god). It's a dumb excuse anyway. So, I didn't see her face as she walked by, so I did a thing where I walked in front of her a way so I could turn back and get a proper glance at her. I noticed she was indeed my type, so as I walked by I quickly turned around to approach and literally a second after I turn around she goes into a girly makeup shop and I make an excuse not to go in. I stand outside for a few minutes for her to come out, eventually I get bored and start walking again.

As I walk down the block a bit, I turn around and come back, and I see her walking, so this time I get behind her and speed up walking and approach her from a side angle. My typical street opener is, "Excuse me, I know this is a bit random, but I was walking by, I saw you and I thought you looked very nice/pretty, so I wanted to say hi". She smiled, but didn't seem to hook as I tried to get into further conversation, her momentum was to keep walking forward. So I let her go, as I felt she didn't seem too interested in talking.

Approach #2 (Ukrainian girl tourist)

Not long after I start walking down the street and see a girl in front of me wearing thin silk-like pants where the outline of her ass was very fit and nice, and it's one of those things you just knew she was hot by her ass. But because I didn't see her face, I walked in front of her so I could turn around to walk by and get a glance at her. Indeed, she was hot, probably 8.5 or so on my scale. I was a bit nervous for this one, as she was somewhat tall and posh-like, wearing a wannabe fur coat and carrying a rainbow umbrella. Regardless, I do the same stop as the previous girl, this time she hooks. My energy is very open, and I'm good at making girls feel comfortable nowadays, even though I was pretty nervous with this one.

Anyway, we talk, and it's a solid conversation where she seemed interested in talking, crosses her legs and give me her full attention and contributes fully. She tells me she's visiting from Ukraine, been here for about a week, currently staying with a friend in New Jersey. I ask her how long she will be here for, which I can't remember her response, but I'm guessing another week or two? Anyway, we talk a bit more, and eventually I go direct and tell her I approached her because I thought she was pretty. I later say if she comes back to Manhattan and wants to hang out, to shoot me a text, and we can grab coffee/drinks (something along those lines). At first, she asks if I have Instagram, which I don't, and she then agrees to take my number. I'm well aware that for many guys it's not optimal to not take her number and to give her mine, and I'm not afraid of taking her number, I'm just in the mood to give out my number as a way of qualification on their part, so basically, I don't have to worry about doing the work if she's not that interested, and she can text me, and it's a bit of qualification on her part; she would be indeed interested in hanging out then. So yeah, I give her my number, we talk a bit more and part ways.

This approach took a lot out of me as I'm not in daygame shape, and as an introvert myself, I don't have these types of conversations a lot unless I'm approaching women, and so I felt a little drained for about 10–15 minutes after. The more I approach, the more this won't bother me, but keep in mind it's been a very long time since I've been out doing this. As I walk around, I allow 2 girls to pass me by without me approaching because I still felt a little drained and wanted to chill for a bit until I gather a little more energy and focus.

Approach #3 (Chinese girl visiting from Boston)

Let me say this now, as it's very important to understand, I'm mostly attracted to Asian women. I find them to be the most attractive -- you'll realize this by the amount of Asian girls I approach in my reports over time. With that said, I see another Asian girl, once again, likely early 20s. And, once again, I know for certain if I wasn't so inspired by this forum I would have not approached her because I would have thought "too young", even though she was pretty tall for a girl (not like that matters). Anyway, so it's freakin' raining pretty hard at this moment, and she's carrying food and a bubble tea in one hand while holding an umbrella in the other as she walked, so her hands were full. I wait for a little space to approach her as she walks ahead of me alongside people. I spot an opening and approach, similarly to how I did with the other girls. Once again, this girl hooks really nicely. Conversation goes very good, and I'm enjoying myself, and she looks to also be enjoying herself as well. She has a somewhat thick accent as she's from China. I could tell by talking to her there was spark there, and I would dominate her easily on seduction, and she would have loved it (my feeling). I find out she's visiting only for a day from Boston since her sister lives here, and she came to see an Opera. I find out she comes here monthly for these reasons, and only because she takes the Amtrak train here, which is only like 30-something dollars (good deal). She is only here for the day, so I make sure to go direct and tell her I approached her because I thought she was pretty. I then proceed to invite her out for bubble tea/drinks some time, she agrees, and I proceed to give her my number but realize her hands are full and tell her I'll take her number and text her my name. I do so, and after a little more talking, we part ways. Very good interaction. I would love to see this girl again if she's in town.

So now I have two girls who are only visiting (Ukrainian girl and Chinese girl), and whom both say they are likely to be here again. I tell them to text me if they visit and want to hang out, so it will be interesting to see if they do, in which I would take that as high compliance since they would remember me and be interested by reaching out and contacting me.

Conclusion:

So yeah, it feels so good to be doing this again, and I feel very fortunate I was able to find this forum, as I gather huge inspiration being here. It's like I have "permission" again to do this; it's like I have people here who are rooting me on, and I feel excited to share my experience with you guys. It's a great motivation for me. I feel very fortunate.

Once again, I plan on going out every day for the days I can. So expect more reports very soon!

Goals:

1. Go out daily
2. I've always liked the 30+ approaches per week goal, or two-hour sessions per outing, with optimally 10 approaches per outing
3. Right now, I'm going off how I feel as far as how I want to do my pickup game. In other words, if I feel like giving out my number more than taking numbers, I'll do that, even though I know it's not most optimal. Or, if I take a girl home, and I'm not really that interested in sex, I'll just talk to her and enjoy myself instead. Those kind of things. From experience, I know the more I'm doing this the more I get narrower in how I prefer to do things in that I get very direct, I tend to filter for certain girls as not to waste time, and I go for the jugular, so to speak. Right now, I'm just waddling in the water and taking it all in and waiting for my emotions to guide me to what I authentically want from these interactions. Right now, It's just to go out as much as possible, approach as much as possible, and see where I want to go from there. Momentum is currently the name of the game.

I'll stay posted

Haha I know exactly where you're going in nyc. KTown is the best place for asian girls.

 

[bkw]

Great job infiels! Regarding the sticking point some good questions to ask yourself would be what exactly do you mean when you say they are too young for you or that you are too old for them?

Do you feel like there is something wrong with you just because you have lived longer than someone? Like how does that make sense?

Do you feel like you are manipulating young girls into doing something they should not do?

Do you feel like a young person hanging out with you, dating you and having sex with you is something that is going to be a net negative for them? If so, why?

Don't you think as a 39 year old guy, if you interact with a younger girl, you will pass on good qualities and your life experience to her that will enhance her life? If not, why not?

Really think about and answer them. When we say too old, too young we are repeating random social conditioning that has been fed to us for decades and that we have unquestioningly internalized.

The first step to breaking free is to become conscious about it and question it..

This post is epic. And I very much appreciate it.

The honest truth is, I'm not really sure why I think this way. What happens is I see their face and I instantly think this way. I'm also not sure if I'm authentically attracted to them the same way I would be a slightly older girl. I hate when people tell me to a question "I don't know", but I really am not sure 100% why I feel this way. One thing I will tell you though, is I will approach them because I feel like I need the references, and I think this will go a long way. I'll take mental notes of what is going on in my head next time I'm out.

@HyperActi7e Well, I also live in Midtown, so this is another reason. But for sure, Ktown has my type, 1000%

 

[AspiringStoic]

I'll take mental notes of what is going on in my head next time I'm out.

Perfect! Curious to know what you find.

 

[bkw]

I'm likely not going to post here every day because I recently started an excel sheet where I track my progress and keep myself accountable. I can literally put anything and everything in it, including notes, etc. I've done it forever. I even have stats of myself from an excel sheet I did way back in 2016. This is not me weaseling out of daygame, but it's just me doing my own thing and holding myself accountable in a manner I enjoy most. And who really wants to see me post every day grinding away doing the same shit anyway? I'll keep this thread updated if I feel like it and/or if any interesting updates happen. Just wanted to give this update for now!

 

[bkw]

2/22/25 - 5 approaches; 2 #closes (DG)

So, I'm treating this journal as something less important than my excel tracker in my phone, and more of an emotional desire to post reports, which explains today's report at least...

The approaches:

1. Asian girl. Didn't get in front of her on stop. She didn't seem to want to talk but smiled and took the compliment well.

2. Asian girl I follow for a couple of blocks because I wanted to get a better look at her because I wasn't sure what her face looked like. Finally, approached. I was a little nervous because tight space and a bit of the spotlight effect going on for me. She seemed a little fluttered/concerned upon approach, but she stopped and the interesting part is I can tell when they are interested, at least in conversing. With her, she just seemed surprised and startled a bit but it's like I could tell her head she was thinking, "Oh. I don't know what this is.... oh, OK, this guy is chatting me up. I get it. Yeah, OK, let's see what this is about...". As I was talking a little bit, she seemed to relax a bit and started smiling and contributing to the conversation. She seemed hooked at this point, but also a little on the wall a bit. She was born in Manhattan and lived here her whole life. I asked her if she'd like to grab coffee sometime, she said sure, I took her number. She seems responsive via text so far.

3. White girl with headphones. I don't think I want to harp on the "I didn't get in front for the approach" thing because I'm beginning to think so much of this is just the openness of the girl in the moment (and obviously, how you come across off the approach). However, I'm not really convinced the full Front Stop is always necessary for these reasons. I think the Front Stop is good for FAST WALKING GIRLS mainly. But I sincerely think so much of approaching is the girl's receptiveness in the moment and how she feels about meeting guys, to be honest. Anyway, this girl said she was in a bit of a rush, likely to excuse herself. Far enough.

4. Asian girl who fell in the category of "is she too young?". I approach on one of the busiest street in all Manhattan (Broadway, SoHo). Packed sidewalk, many people walking by. She takes the compliment well and is contributing. Although, I get the sense she's not really too interested and kind of wants to leave, but she stays and we talk a bit nonetheless. As I go for the number close for coffee she says yes but also says "I'm really busy, like too busy for anything due to work", so obviously I took that as a sign she's likely not going to meet, which is fine. Likely an excuse on her part since she's literally meeting a friend right before I stop her. I take her number. No response back on text yet.

5. I'm near Korea Town in midtown and I spot another girl I might think "is she too young?". I approach and as I'm delivering my opener I'm thinking in my head she's not as cute as I thought so I likely delivered the opener robotic and quick. She took a second to register what is going on, and then said thanks and started to walk. I let her go without trying to keep the conversation going because I wasn't that into her.

Yesterday:

Yesterday I was also out, approached 3 but nothing happened from it.

Notes from today:

1. I am still allowing girls who look a certain age to walk past. However, I can literally tell it's likely to change very soon in my head because I am feeling comfortable with the idea of approaching them now. It's hard to describe, but I know when I'm about to surpass a sticking point, and I can feel this one is about to be improved very soon. I can feel it.

2. I used to be way too analytical on my approaches, even after a thousand approach and more, I was still too analytical. Meaning, I thought things like, "That approach didn't work because my opener", or "I didn't tease enough", etc. However, now I'm beginning to think this was too much thinking. I feel now that a lot of why daygame works is the woman's receptiveness in that moment, more than anything -- that and, like I said, the way you come across on your approach (i.e., are you weird? smiling? normal? how do you make her feel?). I think those two things surpass any technicalities in the approach: A) is she receptive in that moment, and b) how you make her feel about you.

3. Still not sharp enough. I'm still allowing too many girls go by and I caught myself not approaching due to some excuses, which I will note for next outing.

Goals:

1. 30+ approaches per week. I don't really care about the results. I just want volume of approaches for now.
2. Keep going out as much as possible, at least to reach 30+ approaches per week, consistently

Weekly stats:
15 approaches
2 #closes

 

[bkw]

Update:

Taking a couple days off because I have a lot of things I need to do.

Looks like a possible D2 (day 2, or first date) with approach #2 from saturday. Initially I asked for coffee but turned it into a bar D2 for a drink or two. I'm not going to attempt to pull or anything mainly because the apartment is a mess, among other things (haven't had a date in a while since I haven't been doing daygame for a long time). I don't plan on it being a long date. Probably 30-45 mins. Treating it as a warmup date, to dip my toes back in for future dates.

 

[Mikedee]

Update:

Taking a couple days off because I have a lot of things I need to do.

Looks like a possible D2 (day 2, or first date) with approach #2 from saturday. Initially I asked for coffee but turned it into a bar D2 for a drink or two. I'm not going to attempt to pull or anything mainly because the apartment is a mess, among other things (haven't had a date in a while since I haven't been doing daygame for a long time). I don't plan on it being a long date. Probably 30-45 mins. Treating it as a warmup date, to dip my toes back in for future dates.

How long will you be in NYC? Would love to come Daygame with you as a wing.

 

[bkw]

How long will you be in NYC? Would love to come Daygame with you as a wing.

At the very least a year as I live here. For sure, send me a message if you're ever in town

 

[bkw]

D2 - Asian girl from last Saturday

Had a D2 (day 2, or first date) with approach #2 from Saturday. Once again, my goal wasn’t to pull for two reasons: A) I had a lot of cleanup to do at the apartment since I haven’t been out doing Daygame and getting dates lately, and B) I’m dipping my toes in and getting a feel for what I want from my dates.

My goal was to just chill for 30-45 minutes and chat, really. We met at a bar for a drink. It was good. There were no weird things about it. She contributed; I contributed. No types of escalation on my part, which I’m fine with. Good vibes and smiles. It was probably 45 minutes or so before I left.

Since this is a “seduction forum,” I really want to emphasize, as I said in my first posts on this thread, I’m not doing this shit for my ego, and I’m not trying to prove anything to anyone. I am authentically trying to listen to what I want from my dating experiences. I think in the past I was too heavily influenced by the pickup culture, and in a lot of ways, it was not good for me. Currently, I don’t care if I get laid. I’m literally waiting for my emotions to guide me to what I want from these experiences, which is different from the way I used to do it in the past.

I’ll reach back out to her in a couple of days as a feeler/ping text and see if she’s still down for another time. My issue in the past was a lot of ghosting after day 2s, which is another reason why I don’t invest much time into the first dates unless I was trying to pull or something.

Other than that D2 today, I haven’t done any approach for 3 days now. I spent my time off getting my apartment “date ready” mostly, as it needed work, lol. I will start approaching again probably tomorrow to try and build more leads.

 

[Orchard]

Inspired me to do some DG. I’m down in Les, 46, poly and def want to get more social. I’ll have to do the volume thing. Love this.

 

[bkw]

Inspired me to do some DG. I’m down in Les, 46, poly and def want to get more social. I’ll have to do the volume thing. Love this.

Nice! If you want, make a journal. I'd be interested in following

 

[bkw]

2/27/25 (DG) - Approach 0, trying to gather motivation/momentum for next outing

These last few days, my schedule has thrown me off of rhythm, and I need to reorganize. It's important because currently I very much depend on momentum with daygame, and I'm also finding less time to do other things I need to do, which require me to follow a strict schedule. Tomorrow, I'll try to reset my schedule, even if that means losing a bit of sleep.

Went out for some DG today for about 1.5 hours. Cloudy day. I had no aim but to get a feel for being out again, so I used today just to go out and gather some motivation/momentum for the next outing. Whether you call this an excuse or not, I don't really care. I like doing this sometimes, and it works for me. I finished with some focus for next outing.

It's important for me to note the girls I didn't approach, but who I thought were attractive enough to approach. Often when I'm not approaching, especially for extended times, I think "there are not many girls out there", so writing down the girls I didn't approach helps me realize there actually are girls out there; also for gathering momentum/focus/aim for next outing.

Girls I thought were good enough, but I passed:

1. Girl near Madison park with curly dark hair
2. White girl on 14th street in long coat
3. Passed up girl on Broadway, SoHo because "she saw me first" (lamest excuse ever lol)
4. I was actually going to approach this tall white girl in SoHo, but she went into a girly shop (notice the common 'girly shop' excuse)
5. Younger Asian girl with banging body and curves, of whom I would have possibly thought "too young"

These are just the ones I was paying attention to. I started to lose focus after some time and just wanted to get home, so there were likely more girls.

Goals for next outing:

1. Roughly 2-hour session, or 10 approaches
2. Approach every opportunity, no excuses (covers all excuses)
3. Jog and front stop fast walking girls
4. Get my schedule back on fucking track

Weekly stats (2/24/25–3/2/25):
Approaches: 0
D2 - 1

 

[bkw]

Weekly recap (2/24/25–3/2/25):

Only went out 2–3 times for the week. Did about 7 approaches, so nowhere near my goal of 30+ per week. A lot of this had to do with taking a few days off to get the apartment date ready, and also because the D2 I had. For future dates, I'll make sure to incorporate it into my DG schedule instead of stopping DG altogether for the date. However, DG takes a lot out of me for the day, so perhaps I won't DG for the day if I have a D2, not really sure yet.

Last D2 girl:

I pinged the Asian girl from the latest D2 with a "feeler-text" to gauge her interest after the D2 a couple of days after the date. Find out she's had a relative in the hospital since Thursday, and she's been preoccupied with that, so I didn't attempt to invite her out for the D3 yet. Will likely attempt the D3 invite sometime next week. If she says she's busy or whatever, it could or could not be an excuse, but I'll put the ball in her court and tell her to reach out if she wants to hang out in the future. The reason I do this is that I'm not going to be chasing and texting a girl over and over again to get her out. That kind of messes up the frame, and it makes me mentally and emotionally invest too much into an unknown lead, so I don't like it. In my mind, the D2 we had was more than enough for her to make up her mind if she wants to see me again, so I'll try to get her out one last time, and if she doesn't give me a definitive answer then I'll put the ball in her court and won't reach back out to her -- if she was really interested she'd reach back out with the ball in her court. Out-of-sight, out-of-mind type thing.

Anyway, this company reached out to me to make a YouTube video for one of their products where I get commission, so I'm going to do that Monday and Tuesday. These are my current off days, so I should be able to get some DG in those days. My schedule remains a challenging thing to take control of lately, but approaching women is probably one of my highest priorities. I've even been thinking about switching up my schedule a bit so I can try some night game. Will see.

Next week goals:

As always, the "standard" weekly goal of 30+ approaches per week, with 2-hour sessions, or 10 approaches per outing, will always be my weekly goal. This approach-volume has proven over the years to be effective for me, regardless of how well or not-so-well my DG sessions are, so I'll continue with it.

 

[Mikedee]

My schedule remains a challenging thing to take control of lately, but approaching women is probably one of my highest priorities. I

What is your work schedule like now?

 

[bkw]

What is your work schedule like now?

When I wake up I try to get some DG in, and also some coding projects I'm doing, then I go to work. All these things take up my entire day.

 

[Mikedee]

When I wake up I try to get some DG in, and also some coding projects I'm doing, then I go to work. All these things take up my entire day

I usually start work at 1:30, so I’ve always wanted to get some day game in beforehand. But my mind keeps telling me I’m wasting my time. A lot of that comes from bad experiences. I don’t have many positive references to pull from, so it’s hard to push through.I know no one’s coming to save me. I wish I had more people around me who were into this, but I don’t, so it’s on me to figure it out. And honestly, it’s tough. Some days it feels damn near impossible. But I’ve had glimpses of what’s possible, and that keeps me going. At this point, I know it comes down to time management and discipline. I just have to keep showing up. Is daygame ideal in the morning?

 

[bkw]

I usually start work at 1:30, so I’ve always wanted to get some day game in beforehand. But my mind keeps telling me I’m wasting my time. A lot of that comes from bad experiences. I don’t have many positive references to pull from, so it’s hard to push through.I know no one’s coming to save me. I wish I had more people around me who were into this, but I don’t, so it’s on me to figure it out. And honestly, it’s tough. Some days it feels damn near impossible. But I’ve had glimpses of what’s possible, and that keeps me going. At this point, I know it comes down to time management and discipline. I just have to keep showing up. Is daygame ideal in the morning?

I know what you mean. I spent over a decade following guys who did Daygame on YouTube, and then also was in a community of people who also did it, so I never doubted it didn’t work. I guess I was lucky in that regard.

To be honest, Daygame is just one way to meet women. Basically, any way were you can approach women, chat them up, and ask them out works (day, night, online, through friends, throughout your day/night, work, hobbies, etc). I personally just gravitated toward Daygame because I like it best and I like being alone and doing it on my own time. Also, there are tons of girls walking around if you’re in the right city, which I wasn’t starting out, so I literally moved to Chicago then to NYC in a fucking van for 2 years just for Daygame. So, this is the dedication and belief I had. The only reason I live here now is because I moved here years ago for Daygame. Before that I would do “sniper game” literally waiting in Walmart parking lots for girls to go into stores so I could approach. I was too dedicated.

What I read from your post is you likely need outside motivation, especially when it comes to pickup and Daygame because belief it can work is just the beginning. You really need to believe through the rejection you will face. If you’re serious, I highly advise you to subscribe to all pickup material, especially Daygame material like Tom Torero, Nick Krauser, even old shit like Simple Pickup, etc., because you’ll need that motivation. Natural lifestyles is another one; Todd Valentine and whatever else is out there nowadays; Tusk; Troy Francis, etc. I personally don’t follow pickup stuff online anymore because I don’t need it, but you sound like you need that motivation. I highly recommend Tom torero’s material, even if parts of it seem a little gimmicky at least you can get motivation from it.

So yeah, any fucking time of the day/night can work. You say you work at 1:30pm or something, you have PLENTY of time before work to do approaches! In fact, my current schedule is 11am-1pm myself! I’ve also done morning approaches too, which actually can be very good because this is where girls are solo the most and you’ll see a lot of hot girls. Yes, they might be on their way to work, but you don’t need much time to chat them up and collect numbers for dates later. You’ll also find early bird girls who aren’t working just up doing shit at that time. Yes, Daygame is the morning definitely works. I’ve done it.

Im laughing now to myself because I’ve met plenty of girls in the morning doing Daygame because I used to work nights. I literally am remembering them now.