New Conquests

[Conquistador]

I found a perfectly fitting polo shirt in my closet. Apparently my great-uncle had foisted it on me some time ago without my knowledge.

Also, I’ve been looking into speed dating, seems like a good way to find older women while sorting out the taken ones. Might start a thread about it if I can’t find an old one that answers all my questions.
The biggest issue is that I’m under 25, straight, not into Zoom, and not a member of any particular identity group such as kinksters or Indians. This severely limits the range of events available in a city like LA.
My DMs are open if anyone hears about something generic or age-gap-friendly in SoCal.
I also realized that the main shopping areas in my vicinity are way less cougar-friendly than some other areas. For example, the closest mall to my parents’ place is all old couples/groups and underage Valley girls, while the closest shopping district is kinda underwhelming in terms of demographics as well. On the other hand, some other places further out where I’ve never gone to approach, from what I can recall, seem to be more fertile ground.

 

[Conquistador]

Over the weekend I read an eye-opening book called Three Women. The most interesting part, for me, was the occasional discussion of the differences between teenage boys and men.
Right now my attention is on improving my daily baseline and then finding a decent place. After that we’ll see.

 

[Conquistador]

I had an illuminating convo with my brother about his disproportionately female friend circle. He isn’t really a simp because he’s not secretly hoping to get laid, but he doesn’t exactly draw lines with their BS either. The key takeaway, although I didn’t voice it, was that it seems like under-25 women tend to sort men artificially into two categories: the masculine, sexual, exciting yet potentially dangerous, and the chill, nonsexual, useful, etc. Girls can be surprisingly inclusive of the second category, yet the first must be put into a framework. There is no, floabw, relevance, between a “manly man” who isn’t say a bf of a member, as he

The lion cannot lie down with the ewes, not really because the lion has predatory instincts, but because he has too much gravity and disrupts the group dynamic by just sitting and listening. The ewes close ranks not because he is a threat, but because he can’t be one of them. A goat on the other hand can be included because he can play the part if he chooses.

That is to say, younger women collectively try to carefully control the distance between themselves (as a collective) and such men, so that men are accessible for certain things yet never really included. Mature women have little need to resort to this for various reasons.
The real problem is that the society of strangers at a big campus naturally leads to this much more than the small SCs of normal life. This is the adaptive response of green women under the circumstances.

I just find it ironic that it’s me who vibes with almost everyone including, especially, guys while he, the “more normal” one, doesn’t and finds women easier to relate to. Shows what social conditioning can do to a person. Or potentially his super low body fat messing with hormones.